Anyone know any careers with a strong hookup culture?

[Pierce Manhammer]

I often wonder if those of us who’ve figured about situations in life that yield results just keep the knowledge to ourselves…

I’ve had partners say that I should teach men how to treat women physically, the issue is that most men are having is getting to a point where they have access to high drive females, hence the OP.

Frankly, I’ll coach my son, maybe a male friend that needs it, but other than that my scams die with me.

That said, I will say as many others have previously: being a professional clinician in healthcare gets you a whole lot of access to women in high stress, well paid positions that are youngish. The more high stakes the environment you are in the better: emergent medicine, paramedics, all types of ED jobs and specifically those where you work long hours with them in close quarters. Sex is life-reaffirming and after you’ve worked on a code, closely with a woman and show your chops, often they believe you have a bond that’s special (in some ways you do). Working gy shifts gets you access to recent graduates which necessarily means a young, adrenaline and dopamine junkie who is often female. They are very health conscious and eat well and that also makes for a lot of really good tension.

Anyway, it’s often a solid wage, lots of time off to jump on a plane to Mexico for 2-3 days with that young hottie that hottie that lifts. They often do Olympic squats and warms up with your 1RM.

 

[Parallelophone]

I often wonder if those of us who’ve figured about situations in life that yield results just keep the knowledge to ourselves…

I’ve had partners say that I should teach men how to treat women physically, the issue is that most men are having is getting to a point where they have access to high drive females, hence the OP.

Frankly, I’ll coach my son, maybe a male friend that needs it, but other than that my scams die with me.

That said, I will say as many others have previously: being a professional clinician in healthcare gets you a whole lot of access to women in high stress, well paid positions that are youngish. The more high stakes the environment you are in the better: emergent medicine, paramedics, all types of ED jobs and specifically those where you work long hours with them in close quarters. Sex is life-reaffirming and after you’ve worked on a code, closely with a woman and show your chops, often they believe you have a bond that’s special (in some ways you do). Working gy shifts gets you access to recent graduates which necessarily means a young, adrenaline and dopamine junkie who is often female. They are very health conscious and eat well and that also makes for a lot of really good tension.

Anyway, it’s often a solid wage, lots of time off to jump on a plane to Mexico for 2-3 days with that young hottie that hottie that lifts. They often do Olympic squats and warms up with your 1RM.

That's more like "We've been through a lot and I think I want to be intimate with you now." Not quite the thing I'm looking for. Think instead about the reputation of a party school. I'm trying to go to a "party school," except "school" is actually my job.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I'm trying to go to a "party school," except "school" is actually my job.

You did say career I think, anyway best of luck.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

That's a pretty sad/boring/stressful workplace. But it's probably also a typical workplace.



I think the way to screen would be to look for workplaces where the employees are friendly/flirting and having conversations. Rather than ones where everyone is under strict observation or stressed out.

Nah, it's called having a career and having something to lose. Jobs paying well over 100K aren't jobs you do dumb sh!t at. I mean unless you like being blacklisted from them.

Also been remote for 3+ years so even if I wanted to the opportunity isn't there.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I know what my experience in the workplace has been. What I'm asking is, with all of our experiences combined, maybe someone knows of a workplace with a hookup culture?

Bars and restaurants. Hospitals also.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

my SOP at work is to let the woman initiate. Woman have 0 risk at work so they will freely do what they want.

Probably a wise choice, but I would also document it by making them send you an email through the company account so you have it on record. Can't be too careful these days with the way women spin stuff. If it becomes a he said she said issue where there is no proof on either side, HR typically favors the person that could cost them the most legally, which is usually, but not always, the woman.

 

[Stoic]

That would be absolutely insane to choose a career based on hook up culture or not. Find a career that:
1. You are very good at (or can naturally become very good at.)
2. Earns you a lot of money.
3. You enjoy.

Even satisfying 2/3 of these and you will come out ahead in life and with women.

 

[Parallelophone]

That would be absolutely insane to choose a career based on hook up culture or not. Find a career that:
1. You are very good at (or can naturally become very good at.)
2. Earns you a lot of money.
3. You enjoy.

Even satisfying 2/3 of these and you will come out ahead in life and with women.

"Ahead" by whose metric? I know what I want, and I want is to belong to a community like high school.

 

[Velasco]

Find a career that:
1. You are very good at (or can naturally become very good at.)
2. Earns you a lot of money.
3. You enjoy.

Even satisfying 2/3 of these and you will come out ahead in life and with women.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Wtf. Its over for WasJustHereYeasterdayAndNowSixPagesOfThisCels.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Where I am basically peer pressured into having sex.

Dude, this is the lamest thread ever. I can't believe it's got so many responses.

You're looking for a place that only exists in old Hustler stories.

If you can't get random hookups at any kind of retail-like job, you aren't going to get any hookups in the mythical job where there exists "peer pressure" into hooking up.

You sound like a dude who has absolutely no game and wants to find a mysterious unicorn place where can you get laid like crazy without NEEDING any kind of game.

If there WAS such a magical place it would be overrun by dudes like you and would have a 100:1 male to female ratio.

Any type of job that could lead to random hookups require skills you don't seem to have or aren't interested in learning.

 

[Mike32ct]

I don't need the boss to encourage it, like how I don't need teachers to encourage students to hook up. I just need the staff to be as obsessed with sex as students are.

Even sex obsessed people generally don’t care if YOU personally are having sex or not. It’s all about THEIR relationships and notch counts.

Even if you find a work environment with frequent hookups, it will still come down to whether or not the women there are attracted to you. That’s the deciding factor on whether you score from there or not.

There is no “pity sex” in the real world.

 

[forcerecon01]

Even sex obsessed people generally don’t care if YOU personally are having sex or not. It’s all about THEIR relationships and notch counts.

Even if you find a work environment with frequent hookups, it will still come down to whether or not the women there are attracted to you. That’s the deciding factor on whether you score from there or not.

There is no “pity sex” in the real world.

Sex is not easy

 

[Velasco]

Even if you find a work environment with frequent hookups, it will still come down to whether or not the women there are attracted to you. That’s the deciding factor on whether you score from there or not.

Right but we're talking about the environment side of things. You can be the best looking most attractive guy in your city but if your living in the middle of nowhere/or working at a position where it's just other guys/unattractive girls (Or working remote) it won't matter much.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Hot thread huh.

Anyone know any careers with a strong hookup culture?

No one does a career to hookup. If they do, they get bored and drained fast. Hookups happen across all careers. Did you know pastors at churches have one of the highest notch counts of career? I didn't know this myself but it made sense when I found out. They can happen at walmart, and they can happen at the top floor of a Fortune 500 company.

There is no easy pill to poontang access. The only factor is you. The only objective thing I can say is that if you want women, make sure you interact with them in some fashion. A guy out in the woods for most of his life is not going to get any p*ssy anytime soon. He may be the strongest fittest lumberjack but it's nothing if he has no access to women.

 

[Mike32ct]

Right but we're talking about the environment side of things. You can be the best looking most attractive guy in your city but if your living in the middle of nowhere/or working at a position where it's just other guys/unattractive girls (Or working remote) it won't matter much.

Environment matters a lot. I agree with that completely. That's certainly a worthwhile discussion.

But the OP also suggested that he was also looking for an environment where there was a strong PEER PRESSURE or EXPECTATION to be hooking up. My reading of it was he wanted his sexually active coworkers to sort of "break him in" so he fits in. I don't think that part is realistic. That's where authentic attraction matters.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Environment matters a lot. I agree with that completely. That's certainly a worthwhile discussion.

But the OP also suggested that he was also looking for an environment where there was a strong PEER PRESSURE or EXPECTATION to be hooking up. My reading of it was he wanted his sexually active coworkers to sort of "break him in" so he fits in. I don't think part is realistic. That's where authentic attraction matters.

HAHAHA he's asking for a porn fantasy. That ain't ever gonna happen. That only happens to guys with value, and it happens anywhere. This guy is tripping.

 

[Parallelophone]

Dude, this is the lamest thread ever. I can't believe it's got so many responses.

You're looking for a place that only exists in old Hustler stories.

If you can't get random hookups at any kind of retail-like job, you aren't going to get any hookups in the mythical job where there exists "peer pressure" into hooking up.

You sound like a dude who has absolutely no game and wants to find a mysterious unicorn place where can you get laid like crazy without NEEDING any kind of game.

If there WAS such a magical place it would be overrun by dudes like you and would have a 100:1 male to female ratio.

Any type of job that could lead to random hookups require skills you don't seem to have or aren't interested in learning.

Environment matters a lot. I agree with that completely. That's certainly a worthwhile discussion.

But the OP also suggested that he was also looking for an environment where there was a strong PEER PRESSURE or EXPECTATION to be hooking up. My reading of it was he wanted his sexually active coworkers to sort of "break him in" so he fits in. I don't think that part is realistic. That's where authentic attraction matters.

HAHAHA he's asking for a porn fantasy. That ain't ever gonna happen. That only happens to guys with value, and it happens anywhere. This guy is tripping.

It existed in high school, at my high school. And probably at the university I graduated from.

Even sex obsessed people generally don’t care if YOU personally are having sex or not. It’s all about THEIR relationships and notch counts.

Even if you find a work environment with frequent hookups, it will still come down to whether or not the women there are attracted to you. That’s the deciding factor on whether you score from there or not.

There is no “pity sex” in the real world.

I know I have to be attractive, but I want to be attractive in a pool where everyone is actively trying to have sex with one another. They don't need to care that much about my sexual history, but I would like them to be fascinated by my lack of it.

Hot thread huh.

Anyone know any careers with a strong hookup culture?

No one does a career to hookup. If they do, they get bored and drained fast. Hookups happen across all careers. Did you know pastors at churches have one of the highest notch counts of career? I didn't know this myself but it made sense when I found out. They can happen at walmart, and they can happen at the top floor of a Fortune 500 company.

There is no easy pill to poontang access. The only factor is you. The only objective thing I can say is that if you want women, make sure you interact with them in some fashion. A guy out in the woods for most of his life is not going to get any p*ssy anytime soon. He may be the strongest fittest lumberjack but it's nothing if he has no access to women.

I would do a career to hookup. What else am I supposed to pursue a career for, besides money? Who works "for the thrill of the job?"

I'm not looking for an easy pill, any more than high school was an easy pill. I just want everyone to be as horny and obsessed with sex as my classmates were in high school.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I used to be just like OP and pursued the ideal circumstances for hookup and the ideal logistics. For one, I joined a fraternity in college and then in my upperclassmen years, I worked as a bartender (which is considered a high sex appeal job). I will speak a little bit about nightlife.

Nightlife jobs typically go to hot girls or to guys who for a year or two are trying to figure out what to do with their lives. There are a surprisingly high number of gay and bi guys that work as bartenders at nightclubs because you often find that gay dudes hit on you a lot more than women do. Here are common themes for men who become "lifers" in the nightlife industry:

• Usually a criminal record or felony so white collar jobs don't take them
• Often a mental health problem or two so they have been fired from regular office jobs
• Trying to desperately live out their youth days and overcompensate for getting older (25+)

Same can be said of club promoters, a lot of them often having no real skills to earn a nice income and having to crash on a friend's couch more than they would like. Majority of the times, these guys are miserable and same can be said of bouncers that work in nightlife. The pay is not that great and you are dealing with drunk idiots, some of whom are financially well off and way ahead of you in life in that regard. As for sleeping around, that does happen but majority of the girls working in nightlife have serious validation and personality issues, not all but the majority. You know the red flags they tell you about with women? Majority of the bottle girls and bartenders are likely to have those.

Does someone working as a promoter, bouncer or bartender get laid more than say your average Accountant or Banker? Yes. However, it is at the cost of their own long-term career. A number of these guys who do somehow get a lifeline have that depressed look on their face when they enter their 30s and are working the same entry level jobs meant for people in their early twenties.

I do however know of guys who put the work in on Wall Street and other big name industries, made a ton of money in their twenties, and are now using their thirties to have a powerful rotation of women in their lives. Some of them own a nice spot in the prime area of town and can easily throw a party which leads to them getting laid. Some of them have an "in" to the social scene and are having girls bring them other women.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I have also been at workplaces where we had guys like OP who were trying to fraternize, call coworkers out for drinks on weekends, and trying to pull you into hanging out on weekends. In startups it can be quite common but even some big companies have departments like this. Most of these guys were trying to hit on the female coworkers and almost all of them ended up in serious troubles with HR or just getting a bad reputation at work, leadership knew about it and rarely promoted them. However, I do have a friend who worked in the marketing department for a large company and only hired attractive women and gay guys in the name of "diversity", so there is an idea for you OP!

All that said, the guys I knew who slept with their female coworkers ironically had a great life outside of work. An old wing of mines worked for a Fortune 500 company, did pickup, got laid a lot, and women who knew him from work would see him out with different kinds of girls. Fast forward a month or two, women were inviting him to drinks with their friends and he was hooking up with his female coworkers. Meanwhile, the guys at his workplace desperately trying to shoot their shot were either getting rejected or going to HR.

So two ways to make it work:

1. Become a boss/leader at your company and only hire younger attractive women along with some gay guys for plausible deniability (so it doesn't seem as obvious that you are just trying to hire women you can screw)

2. Have a great life outside of work to where women at work want to be a part of that life you live