Once again, I would highly advise against a permanent move to some 3rd world country. If you’ve got the means to travel and experience, like some guys on here have, including my self, please do it! It’s a great experience and you can have a thrill doing all sorts of things, yes, including picking up chicks! Lol. I’ve literally walked around with a damn dictionary in countries where I didn’t speak a word of their language and approached women or groups of people asking them how to pronounce random sh*t.
I have met many cool people and if you’re outgoing enough and take care of your self and your body, and are stylish, you will get women that will get a kick out of helping you and will laugh their ass off as you’re trying to speak their language. I have also looked up for ways to ask them to hang out one on one, and have been successful closing the deal as well. You will also meet many English speaking folk (albeit broken English at times) who will look at you as an expert and might want to learn from you.
Some countries are more friendly then others. I was hanging out in France with two fellow Americans and we actually got kicked out of a pizza restaurant because we were Americans. It was nuts, lol, they literally told us “you guys from America? We have no room”, and we were like “well, there are some open tables over there”, and there are like “you Americans? We have NO ROOM”, and then my buddy was like “we can wait, it’s ok”, and they once again said “sorry, we have NO room for you guys”, and we finally got the hint and walked out lol. I mean, if someone had told me that, I wouldn’t have believed it, but it happens.
I found France to be the toughest for running game, but it was winter-time and very cold, and not as many people out and about. The rest of Europe is much friendlier from my experience.
Ok, now, the horror stories. I have friends that came here from different countries and what not, and some of them returned back to their native country before they got their American citizenship or green cards or whatever it is they need. EVERY ONE OF THEM has tried to come back, with no success. The story is almost always the same: “There are no jobs, no opportunities, sh*tty outlook and kids with college degrees can’t find a decent job (I know US is not perfect now, but we’re much better off, and if you’re educated and look hard enough, you’ll find something. Also there are just so many different business venues that you can start up part time as well).
There are also MILLIONS UPON MILLIONS of people that would sell their soul to devil himself just to get a chance to move to the United States. Also, there are plenty of foreign women in the US and many also that keep their cultures and traditions as some hang out primarily within their own groups and have parts of town that are developed heavily with that influence.
Some of them DO keep their old school values. I’m sorry, but I know this AS A FACT. I know this from personal experience, so there is no way that someone can convince me that EVERY single girl in the US is trash. This is just not true. Are they hard to find? Yes, by all means, there’s a lot of “easy/party” girls out there. And you know what? This makes for a PERFECT BALANCE for many of us, as you can create your self a rotation of MANY girls, and live a pretty damn happy single life if that’s what you’re into at the time. Or you can also find that one girl that’s a little different and you can chose to be exclusive with her.
There was a time where I kept a rotation of 10 girls lol, no joke here. And I kept meeting new girls and pretty much would add a better looking girl to a rotation by stopping my “relations” with a less good looking girl. In other words, only the best 10 looking chicks would stay in the rotation, and I would still meet other girls constantly. I was mainly dealing with these “10 girls” on a Monday through Thursday basis, and on the weekends I would be out and about, partying, hanging out with friends, clubbing, meeting new girls, getting one night stands, whatever the case may be. Some of these girls I would only see once a month, or once every two months, but if the sex is good enough, this was very possible.
Sometimes they would go away for a while, maybe they meet someone and date for a while, but many of them came back later on when they were “single” again, and I would get plenty of texts outta nowhere from girls I havent’ seen in months lol. This is why every time I get a serious girlfriend, I change the number, no stress and no drama that way.
Oh, and in order to do this, it helps to live in a larger city. Maybe for some of you the better answer would be to move to a bigger city in the US. You also get to sort of “start over” and you can become whoever the hell you want to be there. Some of you “nice guys” out there are still in the same town, and people have this perception of you from ages ago, and it is hard to change that opinion, not impossible, but hard.
If you “learn game”, and work on your self, work out, improve your body, whatever it is that you need to do, get your money going, and you’re stuck at rock bottom, move to huge city and start fresh there with your new game and IMMEDIATELY be that person that you know you can be. Start off like this and you’re 10X better of. You never get a second chance to make a first impression, so go there BEING this new better person, and start off strong, sexual, alpha, go out and meet girls, go have fun with people, meet friends, party, do fun things, like is to damn short not to, this will eventually bring girls into your life as well.
Go out and kick game at least a few times a week and keep meeting new girls. Eventually, if you run through enough girls, you’ll start meeting some that you “really like”, meaning you can see your self dating them and having a relationship. But for a change, you’ll actually HAVE this girl, and do things with her, and have her LIKE you, unlike now, where she is only a pipe dream. You DECIDE that she is good enough for you, because when you see many girls, you’ll feel better about the choices that you have. You’ll be more confident. You will place LESS IMPORTANCE on girls, and as a result, have them be into you more and respect you more and intuitively realize that your time is valuable and that you are a high valued male.
I’ve been to huge cities as well as smaller ones, and it’s TONSSSS easier in bigger cities. A lot of smaller towns have the same crowd that grew up together since grade school. They have the same little cliques and social groups and everyone knows everyone. A lot of times in places like this people get married very young, sometimes right outta high school (also very high divorce rates lol). Seen some horror stories. But also, if you grew up in this smaller town/city, chances are, people already have their opinion of you about as firm as it will be, almost no matter what you do. If you were a wimp growing up, chances are, those girls are always gonna think of you that way, no matter what you do, they’ll think you’re “faking it”. GET OUT!! LOL, just move to a bigger city man, find a better job there, and be the man you know you can be, start IMMEDIATELY using all this game there and just be that person. Don’t be a pushover to anyone.
Keep in mind, this may not be for everyone of course. Some guys are quite satisfied and have excellent lives in the city where they grew up so if you’re one of those, keep doing what you’re doing obviously. Don’t’ fix what isn’t broken. However, for those of you who complain “I’m giving up, it’s too hard, I’ve been on this forum for 10 years and still can’t get a second date, no girls like me”… this is for you, move somewhere else in the United States and GET BETTER! You have to actually BECOME a better person. Force your self if you have to.
I’ve listened to some great business tapes by Brian Tracy. And there is one excellent quote that he has that can apply to almost anything in life, and not just business. It’s his “definition of success”. This is it:
“Success is doing what you have to do, when you have to do it, whether you feel like it or not!”
Read that again. And think about it. This about it each time you say to your self “you know what, I don’t ‘feel like working out today”, and apply that damn quote and make your self do it. This about it if you hesitate approaching a girl, and make your self do it. Think about it if procrastinating on doing your homework, and make your self do it.
Ok, I have much more to say, but I’ve gotta run now, lol… hope that helps a bit…
