Alex DeLarge's College Approach Journal.

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #31

Approached a LOT of girls tonight in a club and on the street. It was great! This was really the first time I employed the "Don't give a sh1t" mindset and it worked pretty damn well.

I was saying ridiculous things to women all night in this club (All 9 or above). Staring them right in the eyes and saying "Excuse me young lady, could I possibly have this dance?" (With a desperate wimpy voice tone). This made lots of them crack up! haha. I'd say other stupid stuff I thought up right on the spot like "Hey I'm an ugly guy, you're an ugly girl, let's get to know eachother."

Danced for a while with an HB9.5 and her 9 friend. My buddy was saying "Dude you could probably bring the both of them home tonight!" So then i told them "Hey let's go back to my place and chill for a bit". Turned out their sober girlfriend found them and got them away from me lol. Chick was kind of obnoxious. I definitely didn't want her in my apartment!

Struck up a convo with an HB9 outside. She had a really b1tchy look on her face but it was like a "I look like a librarian but fvck like a pornstar" b1tchy face if you catch my drift. I approached her, had a short conversation with her.. Then sh1t kinda hit the fan when I went for the digits haha.

Me: So do you meet a lot of guys here?
Her: Yeah we (her and her friend) come here pretty often
Me: How about you let me get your number and I can be guy #489 (wink)
Her: (Looks to her friend) WOW! THIS GUY IS REALLY TRYING TO PICK ME UP RIGHT NOW! (all in front of everyone
Me: (Looking at her in the eyes in front of everyone being sarcastic yet truthful) Yeah I am trying to pick you up. You look kinda hot. Why are you yelling about it?

This girl who's dating a guy that I know at the club actually said to me "That was hilarious! You have a lot of balls saying those things to those girls" I just said "Why? They're just people being disrespectful, I'm not going to let a person walk all over me just because they happen to be a hot girl." She gave me a hug.. I think she wanted me wicked bad, but I knew the guy she was with and didn't want to get in the middle of that.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #32

Started reading "The Game" the other day. So far I like it a lot and it has really inspired me to up my game a bit. I've been lacking lately and just sticking to my own social circle and not working outside of it. This can lead to a "eat where you ****" type of situation.. I've been experiencing this nearly all this past summer from drunken make outs with two girls I had been great friends with for 5-7 years who are also pretty good friends with each other. This situation has been nothing but terrible for me, It's time to branch out.

Today I did my first day time cold approaches on girls in my university. I had never done ANY daygame whatsoever.

Girl 1 : HB8.5

I had met this girl a while ago at a party, I wasn't sure if she remembered me or not. I awkwardly asked for her number after I had been AMOG'd by another more outgoing alpha dude back in my AFC days (before I knew any of this stuff). I figured "fvck it, I'm going for it." No script or anything, just winged the conversation.

Me: Hey! What's up, you look insanely familiar
HB8.5: Hey! I remember you. You came to my birthday party last year!
Me: (Not even knowing that was her birthday party) Yeah, I had a great time there. What have you been up to lately?
HB8.5: Same old thing, just working and going to school
Me: Yeah me too, well hey! At least the semester's almost over right?
HB8.5: Yeah totally! I can't wait!
Me: Me either.. Say, I just moved out here a few weeks ago and I'm looking for some cool bars and clubs to check out with my roomates.. Any suggestions?
HB8.5: Yeah, I live right by this place _____.
Me: Oh ____ I've been there before, I like that place.. I actually have a crazy story about there!

(Told her a story about how my friends and I got thrown out of there for being too rowdy and how a week later I went back and befriended the bouncer.. Now I always get in before the big line outside blah blah... True story)

Her : Wow!

* around here I could tell she wanted me to NC her.. But a friend of mine told me she had a boyfriend, so I didn't really feel like it. I probably should've just done it. I was making great eye contact, getting her laughing and all of that.. Despite the lame conversation I could tell she wanted me.

Me: Yeah, well hey.. I gotta run to class. It was nice seeing you. Take care!
Her: Yeah you too.. Hey maybe I'll see you down at ____ sometime. Just don't get me thrown out with you.

Ugh.. I was so in. But I don't want to date a girl with a BF. Sh1t just isn't kosher to me.


Girl 2 : HB7

* I was standing in line waiting to get a coffee at a local cafe by my college campus. I noticed this pretty cute girl who I had class with last semester there. She turned around toward the clerk counter made some brief eye contact with me, turned around and started twirling her hair. IOI. I got my coffee and sat down at the table next to her.

Me: Hey, did you have ____ class with ____ last semester? You look kinda familiar
HB7: Yeah I did, I remember you.. You had a lot of interesting things to say in that class.

*Major IOI that she even remembers what I had to say in a class from last year

Me: Thanks a lot. Are you a ____ major as well?
HB7: Yeah I am, and I'm minoring in _____
Me: Wow, me too. What a coincidence. What's your name again?
HB7: _____
Me: I'm Alex DeLarge, nice to meet you. (shake her hand, and hold it.. Not like a man to man handshake.)
HB7: *chuckles
Me: So do you live out here? I just moved out here a few weeks ago.
HB7: Yeah, I was living 2 hours away and going to a different school in ____ a few years ago. I decided to transfer here because it's closer to home.
Me: Well that's good. It's nice to be around family, but sometimes you need to get away and experience things on your own.
Her: Yeah I totally agree

*I go into a story here and share some experiences of being on the road in my rock band from when I was 19. I felt it was truly my right of passage and transformation from boy to man. Shared some funny experiences as well that could make the most serious uptight b1tchy woman laugh.

... This girl was close to tears laughing at my teenage wanna-be rock star stories.

Me: Well hey ____ it was great talking to you.. I have to run back to campus for my night class. I'll see you around down there.
HB7: Ok ____ see you around.

Could've easily NC'd this chick too. I don't know why I didn't. She was totally smitten. I really need to sack up and just go for it. Fvck. I mean, these were my first attempts at day game, but they could've gone so much worse.

At least I'm overcoming this hurdle I've avoided for so long. The only time I've ever done cold approaches is when I'm hammered in a bar or night club lol. Any suggestions or tips would be appreciated. Thanks to anyone that checks out my journal!

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

A mack gets the number within the first conversation of a girl. Make your intentions known.

 

[Doctrine Dark]

Good stuff, Alex. These entries are nice to read. Makes me want to step outta my comfort zone more often.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #33

I really fvcked this one up. Damn! This total babe approached me today in the cafeteria. HB8.5. I had just got finished at the library doing about 2 1/2 hours of catch-up on some calculus homework so I was totally out of my zone and exhausted mentally..

HB8.5 approaches me while I'm grabbing some sushi..

HB8.5: Hey! Whats up?
Me: oh uhh.. Hey not much just grabbing some food. (really passively)
HB8.5: Oh.. Sorry if I'm interrupting you?
Me: No ehh it's fine.. Just kind of out of it right now.
HB8.5: Okay.. Well see you later.

... FVCK!

I'm pretty sure I met this girl before somewhere too. Just the type I'm into. Petite, kind of a hipster/indie girl, some piercings, tattoos.. DAMN!

We can't win 'em all right? I have to stay alert at all times.. Who knows, she could have been my ticket to losing my v-plates.

To make up for this, I plan on sarging HARD tomorrow. No limits on how many approaches I do. 3 second rule in full effect here. If I see a hot girl.. I'M TALKING TO HER. Nothing's gonna stop me. I'm on a mission man, a quest toward quality women.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #34

Was outside my apartment building having a cigarette, two chicks came up behind me outside. There was an UG4 and a HB6.5.. The 6.5 could've looked better if she lost a tiny bit of weight, but anyways onward..

I didn't really want to talk to them, but I figured it would be good practice. I was eavesdropping on their conversation and heard them talking about working in a nursing home. I remembered the mystery method for opening up two sets so I went with that charade.

Two-set

Me: Oh do you do CNA in a nursing home? I was just eavesdropping.
UG4: No I'm an art therapist.
Me: Oh cool, my friend ____ does CNA in a nursing home.
HB6.5: Do you live here?
Me: Heh, no I just stand out in front of this building everyday and smoke a cigarette. I'm guessing you do the same?
Both: (laughing)
Me: So do the both of you go to school out here?
HB6.5: I go to ____ and she goes to ____.
Me: Oh cool. I go to ____. It's kind of a hike from here, but I live here with friends so I like it.
UG4: That's cool. Are you from here?
Me: No I'm from ____ a state over from here. What about you two?
UG4: Well, I'm from ____ and she's from ____.
Me: Cool! I have family down in ____.
Me: Well I'm gonna go back inside, see you guys around.
HB6.5:Hey What's your name (Another thing I remembered from the mystery method.. Let her ask the name.)
Me: I'm Alex, and you?
HB6.5: I'm ____ and this is _____. See you later!

The HB6.5 seemed totally receptive to me since I focused most of my time on her ugly friend. Again, I didn't really want to talk to these girls.. They were kind of unattractive and a bit dykey looking, but I figured I'd break the silence and practice my game at the same time.

About to go check out a local rock concert tonight with an HB9.5 friend of mine who denied a kiss-close from me a year ago despite giving me countless IOI's lol. Having her as a pivot/winggirl tonight should work out well.

EDIT:

Just got back from the rock concert.. Yeah you guessed it. I'm posting on this board so soon so I didn't get laid. I keep getting all of these IOI's and I just don't act upon them. I have no fvcking idea why!

I'm just frustrated right now. These hot girls that I would totally bang give me signs to DO THEM. But I just don't react. And I know I'm not gay because the thought of slipping my **** into another man's ass makes me cringe. No disrespect to the gay community.

I saw this hot hipster girl with dreads at the bar of the concert I was attending. She looked over at me, made prolonged eye contact and I gave her the eye contact back with a "sup" head gesture (like the one you do to your friends before you give daps or a handshake.) She responded by doing the same thing. *mirroring*. She was with what looked like a boyfriend, so I didn't want to move in, because I'm morally against that. The way I look at it is.. Why would I want to pick up a girl that I cannot trust to go out on her own.

I have to say, I'm proud of myself though. I'm putting myself more out on the market and avoiding the social circle game that I've relied on for so long. I've picked up random girls before in the night scene, but it has never been anything special. Just another case of myself trying to lose my V-card. But I know if I keep at this, I will be a pure don juan. An irresistable man. The man WOMEN SEEK.

Until that day... This journal will not stop.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #35

Today I was walking to my last class and ran into a pretty sexy foreign exchange student in the class from Eastern Europe. This girl has the body of a 10 with the face of an 8 and a whole lot of intelligence thrown in and a sexy eastern european accent so I'd call her an HB9.5. She could play the part of a sexy librarian in a p0rno movie.

Just so happens she was in a group for this project we were working on. I said a simple hi to her and she asked if I was going to the library. I said back to her "We have class in 15 minutes", but she said she got an email about a group meeting right before class to get our stuff all together. So I went with her.

I just made some fluff talk about where she's from and the differences in America etc.. Then we were waiting for the elevator in the library..

HB9.5: Do you have a phobia of elevators?
Me: (sarcastically) Yeah, I'm scared to death of them.
HB9.5: Hehehe, I actually am!
Me: That's too bad. I hope this one doesn't break while we're in it!
HB9.5: I think I could trust you to save me (giggles)
Me: (sarcastically) I think you'd need to save me! I'd be curled up in a ball crying. (Probably should've done some kind of kino here.
HB9.5: Oh I'll try (still giggling)

* In my head here I was thinking "This is the moment.. I'm totally putting the moves on this hottie in the elevator. She totally wants it!"

Elevator comes.. Fvck. There are people in it.

The thing that confuses me about this girl is that I could swear she told me she had a husband before. I don't want to fvck anything up in relationships that are all ready happening, but this seems to keep happening and guys always try to get with whatever girl I'm seeing too. Maybe it's time to stop giving a sh1t.

It's hard to really pull myself to do anything, I have strong morals against interrupting current relationships, but most times when a girl is in one and unhappy, she'd rather be unhappy with a man by her side than be alone and lonely. Branch swinging theory.

What do you guys say about interrupting relationships? I mean if this girl was being super flirty with me she obviously wants me. I just don't think I can cross that moral boundary of mine and instigate cheating.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #36

Wow, last night was a sh1tload of fun! Pretty sh1tty with my sarging attempts, but I still went forth with them..

Started out the night going with my roomate to his GF's house. All of her roomates are 7's or higher, but they all had boyfriends.. Regardless of that, the boyfriends weren't around and an HB7 was totally kicking it to me.

I was doing some C+F with her while building rapport and fluff talking. She seemed into me, told my roomate's girl that I'm "really cool blah blah".. But at the same time I felt like she was using me for validation since her BF wasn't there, so I was keeping my options open for the evening.

We left the house and went to a party. This party was LOADED with chix. A good 30% guys and 70% women. I noticed an HB9.5 there who I went to school with. I walked up to her and introduced myself, built some conversation around school, but it really went nowhere. For some reason I couldn't build attraction with her.

Went back to the HB7 and conversed with her more. We danced a little bit and she was grinding on me I worked some kino in and was touching her hips and moving up her torso. I even noticed before hand, she was leaning on me with her breasts pushed up against my torso. She wanted it... And I wasn't going to give it to her because I don't want to interrupt a relationship. She lives with her BF too.

I approached a few other random girls at the party, but it was all packs of drunk obnoxious girls acting incredibly inappropriate to me with their big dumb drunk jock friends who don't get to fvck with them trying to start fights with any guy who approached the girls.

Then I was just checking out a girl, and some douchebag with a napoleon complex (he was a short guy with that "I'm gonna kick your ass" attitude to everyone.. completely insecure) comes up to me and says "Yo dude you got a problem?" I say "No why? What's the issue?" He says "That's my girl you're checking out." "Oh really? I thought it was this girl ___ in one of my classes at school. Is that her name?" He said "No it isn't". I just walk away.

On my way back I was feeling kind of ****y and leading the pack of my friends. I saw 4 really hot asian girls and approached the set. I don't even remember what I said cause I was kind of drunk.. I think it was something like "Hey girls which way to the party we're going to now? These are my friends (introduced them all)" They just ignored me, giggled and walked by.

Overall, it wasn't a great night.. But I think I'm getting better with this. I'm getting more confidence in the approach, being more alpha with leading my friends etc..

 

[Racecar]

First of all, great journal. I admire your consistency, honesty, determination and charisma. This serves as good motivation to get back in field and step my game up.

What do you guys say about interrupting relationships? I mean if this girl was being super flirty with me she obviously wants me. I just don't think I can cross that moral boundary of mine and instigate cheating.

Having a strong set morals is very important. I've noticed you've consistently respected GFs of friends or girls in committed relationships. This is good.

I've been that guy once before - half naked laying in bed with a girl while she tells her guy she's alone in her dorm room studying. It's kind of degrading. It gives you a unique perspective on relationships, that's for sure. Ever since then, I've become slightly more paranoid, cynical and I've definitely lost some respect for women in the process. Though I've only done it once, I think the more you do that, the blacker your heart becomes. Not a good look at all. :nono:

That said, the girl was in an bad relationship, her guy was mentally abusive and she was smoking hot. I convinced myself this situation was the exception, but justifying that sort of thing will lead you down a slippery slope...

Like you said, there are plenty of singles out there. Keep at it, good luck and I'll be pulling for you!

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Alex keep writing buddy! Hah, great journal some interesting reads you've made some incredible progress, just even in your confidence levels!

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #37

Today, I was at school. I have a class with a girl who is a legit HB10 for me. Incredibly sexy, incredibly intelligent, kind of quiet but in a cute way. We talked once for about 5 minutes after class.

She held the door open for me as we were exiting our building and gave me an excited "Hey how's it going?!" I responded by saying "I'm doing well, how are you?" built some fluff convo over our upcoming final exam.. She seemed nervous talking to me.. But a cute kind of nervous. Like that hot girl in highschool that doesn't know she's hot nervous if you catch my drift.

Anyways the convo lasted about two minutes before she said bye. But she continued walking behind me which I thought was kind of strange. I highly doubt I creeped her out or anything, there's really no way I could've. I have a huge fvcking crush on this girl and have barely even spoken to her.

I plan on inviting her out after our next class together. I can't let myself pass her up. This girl is 100% adorable. If she says no, then that's okay.. But I'm not going to let myself strike out without swinging.

Later on I had band practice after class. Got done with that and a few hours later took the subway back to my apartment. I noticed an HB7 on the train with a cello. We got off at the same stop.

I was being a total pvssy about approaching her at first. I was thinking in my head "I wonder if that's a cello she's carrying?" So then I was like "BINGO!"

Me: Excuse me? Is that a cello you have there?
HB7: (aloof) Yeah it is.
Me: Cool, what kind of music do you play?
HB7: Classical music.
Me: Nice, I play guitar myself.
HB7: (no response)

I know that I didn't go about this cold approach the best way possible, but she just seemed to be really unreceptive. Maybe she had a boyfriend, maybe she was tired, maybe she was stressed, maybe she was nervous.. Who knows? Sometimes I wonder if women actually feel intimidated by attractive men chatting them up. I've seen female friends talk smack about random dudes hitting on them in the city or at a bar, but I feel as though those female friends do that for validation and bragging rights. Hell, we do the same thing on here with field reports and lay reports don't we?

I'm starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel with the cold approach. I'm beginning to notice that all unresponsiveness is not out of being "creeped out" or me being ugly from a woman's point of view. There are so many factors that come into play. Maybe she had a bad day at work, maybe she has a boyfriend who she loves, maybe I don't fit her mold for an "ideal guy", maybe the hot girl walking two blocks over who I will never meet in my life finds me to be that "ideal guy".. I'm beginning to not be so disappointed with rejection.

Like Joe Dirt says "You just gotta keep on keepin on."

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Reflection

Today, I was just thinking deeply on the train as I returned to my home from band practice.. I was thinking about how I had been pvssying out from asking the hot HB10 from my class out. Then I came to a realization..

Why am I not doing what I want?

I want to play in a band, so I do. I want to go to school, so I do. I want to hangout with the HB10 girl, so I WILL.

The thing that's tough for me is the approach. I just plan on saying to her casually (like I do to every girl I ask out) "Hey you seem interesting, let's exchange numbers and chill sometime." The only thing is, I don't want her to get creeped out and ruin my name around the campus.

Now, I know I'm not creepy. And even if the HB10 did this to me (which I doubt).. Why the fvck should I care? Why should I desire the respect of a person who won't even see something from my perspective (especially a person with the intelligence to be in a college course). Plus, she could even give me a lame excuse (fake boyfriend, busy with schoolwork etc..) to not have to hang which would be a totally polite thing to do, and passive so there's less confrontation if they're uncomfortable about those things.

I'm gonna man up and do this sh1t tomorrow. I have to man.. I can't let a 10 get away without taking a shot!

Also, I'm starting a new diet plan consisting of whole foods only.. No more eating crap fast food or drinking soda.

 

[BongDuy]

A mack gets the number within the first conversation of a girl. Make your intentions known.

Getting a number is always something we should go for, but only when its appropriate. without going into too much detail, in my opinion, if i don't reach a certain level of chemistry ( comfort ) i don't bother. The cute girl you just met probably has met a dozen guys already, so if you don't stand out, she probably won't even remember your name the next day.

 

[AAAgent]

i haven't read any number close attempts or attempts where u asked them out. I think that should be your next hurdle as you've overcome your fear of approach.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

i haven't read any number close attempts or attempts where u asked them out. I think that should be your next hurdle as you've overcome your fear of approach.

Yeah it's been a while since I've done a number close. For a while I was just really busy with school work and wasn't even thinking about sarging.. Or women for that matter. This is my last week of class, so I'm gonna step it up over my winter break.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #38

So this past weekend, I met an HB9.5 at a party who I go to school with. Totally cool girl, she looks Italian and sexy as hell, artist too and seemed very intelligent. I was with a bunch of friends and we were heading to another party so I invited her. She said "no thanks" so I figured there was no interest there.

Well I was walking with a friend who I fool around with sometimes (Another HB9) and the HB9.5 from the party said hi. We all conversed for a bit and went our seperate ways. Afterwards I was saying to myself "Fvck! If ___ Wasn't there then I would've totally number closed this girl!" Then I was pissed at myself a second time cause I though "Well, if I number closed this girl in front of the HB9.. Then that would've been awesome. The HB9.5 would think I have balls for doing that, and the HB9 would get jealous and try to win me over somehow.

I didn't see the HB10 from my other class today, but maybe I'll catch her on the next class.

As for other stuff.. I've been doing the 8 week bootcamp posters had been talking about lately. It's week 1, so I'm making strong eye contact and saying "Hi" to people when I'm in a close perimeter to them. Possibly having a short conversation to. It's good practice for getting out of my comfort zone.

This coming weekend, I'm going to hit the night scene with my friend. He actually told me he had been reading "The Game" (He doesn't know I know about PUA stuff) and I told him I've heard of it and we'll be eachother's wingman. Should be fun stuff!

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Reflection

So I've come to the conclusion lately, that a lot of attraction is in fact based on looks and being comfortable with your sexuality. Now I'm not Mr. Tall dark and handsome (Well, I am a bit darker in skin tone and pretty handsome, but certainly not tall.. I'm 5'9").

But from what I learned throughout life, is that you always aren't gonna get a good hand of cards. But you can still play a bad hand of cards and win if you have the mindset of working with what you got.

Here's a few things that I plan on starting Today.

-Going vegan. I've always wanted to do it because I feel passionately about animal rights as well as for environmental reasons. Plus you just feel a lot healthier. (I went vegan for a month in the past, then vegetarian for 5 months after. Felt great!)

-Working out. Now a lot of people think "How are you going to build muscle when you don't consume any meat or animal byproducts?" Well there are ways to do it! There are plenty of vegan bodybuilders out there if you google the subject.

-Doing awesome in school next semester. The semester ended for me today, and I didn't do so well. I spent too much time goofing around with friends and reading up on seduction material.. I came to the conclusion that if I'm going to cut my studies to read seduction material, I am still desperate for a woman.. Which I should not be! Women should be desperate for me, thus putting this plan of self improvement to action.

-Being more comfortable with my sexuality and with approaching. I am still uncomfortable with cold approaching women. I rarely go for a number close, and even more rarely follow up with dates. It's strange because I feel completely comfortable around women that I know, but feel no desire to get to know new women.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #39

Went out to a bar tonight with an HB10. Yep, she's a 10 for me. Perfect curvy body, gorgeous wavy brown hair, big brown eyes, and beautiful tan skin complexion. Everything went great.. I teased her a bit, initiated a little kino, and she maintained eye contact with me all night.. She even brought me back to her place!

Then sh1t hit the fan..

She said "You can crash on my couch"

WOW. Lol.. You know I can just walk back?

Well anyways I was lying on the couch for a bit, just reflecting on what happened.. And then I said "I'm not going to devalue myself to this" got up and left. I don't blame the girl here.. When I say HB10.. I mean it. She was a 10 in looks and personality. I feel like she's the type of girl I could fvcking marry.

I didn't escalate enough. We were at the bar having a great time, I didn't kino at all until the walk back to her place. From what I understand, kino is key to make a girl not only attracted to you but comfortable as well.

We were standing on the end of her street conversing over our cigarettes. Then I said "Hey is it cool if I crash at your place? The busses stopped running." She agreed, and we went.

At this point, I put my arm around her. She seemed pretty comfortable with it, yet I felt like she was sort of hesitant... Right here, I realize I should've kissed her.. And I'm a fvcking idiot for not doing it.

This girl's an HB10 man.. A fvcking 10! I realize I fvcked up tonight.. But I'm not letting this one get away. I know she's attracted to me. She's beautiful, she's totally chill, she's not a wh0re, she's intelligent, and a million other great things. I've known her for a while now.. Never hungout with her 1 on 1 but we always conversed at parties.

My band is playing a show in about 2 weeks. I think I'm gonna try and initiate here. I need to. I'm not desperate, but I can't let an HB10 walk away from me without saying "no" first.

I don't give a fvck if anyone thinks this situation is completely out of hand. I will make it happen. Mark my word!

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Entry #40

Went out to catch a friend's band play tonight at a house party. The show was pretty much a sausage fest. I just watched them play, then I left. I thought "Damn this night is going to suck" then I got a phone call from a good friend about a party down the street. So I headed down there.

I go into the party and it seems pretty lame. Lots of boring "artsy fartsy" type dudes trying to talk each other up. I was about to say "fvck this" and leave, but then I noticed a pretty cute HB7 giving me some eye contact, then she smiled.

I went over and introduced myself.. Then some dude came out of nowhere, could be a boyfriend, could be a "friendzoned" dude, who knows.. Anyways, I struck up a conversation with the both of them. We chatted about music since the dude commented on a band tee shirt I was wearing. It was a pretty good conversation overall.

Then I told the both of them I had to leave, I got up and started walking away, then my friend and his girlfriend were drunkenly arguing holding things up, and I realized I left my hat back in the other room. I went to grab it, and the HB7 was alone. Time to strike.

HB7: "Hey! I thought you were leaving!"
Me: "Yeah I am, just forgot something though"
HB7: "Oh ok.. Hey, I meant to ask you, where do you live around?"
Me: "I live around the ____ neighborhood, what about you?"
HB7: "I live in ____ but I go to school in your neighborhood"
Me: "Oh nice, let's exchange numbers and chill sometime"
HB7: "Ok!"

Number close. This girl seemed really into me, I don't know why. I feel like she has some good potential. I'm gonna be busy tomorrow, but I might give her a call sunday to see if she wants to chill.

I felt like kind of a d1ck with that dude being there with her. He definitely had feelings for her, and he was definitely insecure about me talking to her. It kinda sucked, but this has been happening to me with EVERY girl I talk to lately. I'm just realizing that every girl is going to have that "mr. nice guy" friend, and I can't let it get in the way of my own pursuits. I've been that guy many of times before in my complete AFC days, who knows.. Maybe those experiences will finally make that "mr. nice guy" realize who he really is, thus beginning his transformation.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Follow Up

So I sent a text to the girl I had met this weekend. Didn't call her cause it's not really the norm to just call a chick in her early 20's. I feel like it's better to just text first.. There are all sorts of arguments on here about this, so I'll continue here..

Me: "Hey ___ what's up?"
HB7: "Not much, how about you?"
Me: "Nothing really, just hanging out. Long day. What're you up to tomorrow? I have the day off and was thinking we should hang."
HB7: "I went home today for break"
Me: "All right, well hit me up when you're back"
HB7: "Ok sounds good"

The problem with text is that I cannot decipher the linguistics outside symbolism. Emoticons can usually help in this area, but I never send those. She didn't seem too interested, but I guess I can just wait right? For now, I'm just going to forget about this one until she gets back to me and continue to sarge.

I met her on friday, but I really don't care about the whole "3 day rule" thing. I prefer to wait a day, then follow up as soon as I have time.

Any criticism here? Maybe I should just say "fvck it" and start calling. It's easier to understand people via phone call rather than text.