a woman should cook for her man

[Giovanni Casanova]

Re: AFS ALL OVER THE SITE

Originally posted by tiburon
Tiburon who loves cooking but its not an AFC

It's humorous to me how you feel the need to specify how much of a DJ you are and how much of an AFC you're not over and over again in thread after thread.

Originally posted by eyecandie4ya
GIO, you stated on another post that you had family members who were married in long-term relationships(30 years) ask them what kept them together so long? I'm sure the woman and the man weren't battling each other like the way they do know. The woman FOLLOWED him because he is suppose to lead the family.

Actually, you're wrong. In my grandparents' case, my grandma cooked most of the time because my grandfather was in the Navy and was gone for long stretches... as a result, all of the household responsibilities (cooking, cleaning, mowing the lawn, fixing the furnace) were handled by my grandma. My grandpa may have been in command of many men at sea, but my grandma was in command at home, even when my grandpa was there.

My parents, married 26 years, have an equal partnership. Both of my parents cook, but if anything, my dad cooks more. Both of my parents worked, both did stuff around the house. There were no arguments about who did the cooking. If my dad felt like cooking, he would; if my mom felt like cooking, she would. If neither of them felt like cooking, they'd order pizza or something. If the day ever came when my father said "Cook me a steak now, subservient woman! Submit to me because I am man, the ruler of this abode!" it would be the last day my mom would ever cook him ANYTHING.

catastrophobic

Why don't you go look that word up and tell me what it means.

Also, I don't agree with your belief that women are inferior to men.

 

[tiburon]

LOL this guys cries like a girl

DEAR CASANOVA WANNABE:

Man the more i hear form you the more i realize you are just a stupid arrogant AFC....

Man i do what ever i want and my advice is solid...and unlike you i dont get blinded by woman and have to go running erasing post so my women doesnt get angry.....or uses it to her advantage..YOU ARE A WUZZ AND AN AFC...and if you think i emphasize i am a DJ to often or tell people about their AFC attitude...that is because i CAN...i fit my shoes well something you will never be capable..BECOME A MAN FIRST..then talk to me kid..

Tiburon THE CUBAN DJ

(one more time so you recognize )

THE CUBAN DJ

(one last TIME)

EL MUJERIEGO CUBANO

PEACE

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Originally posted by HeyPretty
Actually... I can protect *him* better than he can me. Not to bring up what I've accomplished, because it's not like some Dj's crow like a cvck about they do, but I do kickbox competitively. And any man's house I choose to sleep at, I feel safe.

That's your thing but you still a woman. Scenario: Let's say your at man crib and you two are upstairs in the bed. Suddenly, both you hear a noise coming from downstairs. Your man say" II'm going downstairs to check it out". Would you stop him and tell him to stay in the bedroom and you will go downstairs to check it out since you take kickboxing? Yeah right



Well, maybe it's because we want to re-educate people like yourself when you make incorrect statements.

Misinterpreting questions the individual that answers it with boasting instead of backing it up with facts. Common sense(reality) is not taught in school, my dear.



"Checkout the definition of "equal" <--- Last time I checked, def.'s of words was pretty pertinent to the english language.

The question was: What is the definition of "equal"? Not what language.


You know, EyeCandie... (aside from objectifying yourself in your Dj name, thus, perpetuating the cycle of "in-equality towards men in America *stifling laughter*) maybe I've misjudged you. I like my men like I like my coffee. Bitter. We should talk.

You say that I'm bitter because I speaken from a reality standpoint. Your insults tickles me.


I suppose I'm just always gonna be a trouble maker, refusing to play into the archaic 'status-quo'. I don't accept anything at face value- much less antiquated gender-roles that men defined in the first place.

What comes out your mouth and what you do are two different things.

 

[iggybrazil]

I suppose I'm just always gonna be a trouble maker, refusing to play into the archaic 'status-quo'. I don't accept anything at face value- much less antiquated gender-roles that men defined in the first place.

Ha ha what a funny thing for a woman to say!!!

What I think is that you are fighting against the very thing that you really want in the end. Really you don't want to dominate a man....not a real man because it would be degrading to him and boring to you ultimately. What you are searching for is a man you can't dominate, a strong man that will educate you in how to please him and make him proud to be with you.

You, like a lot of young women are confused as to what you should be doing with a man. You should be supporting and helping him suceed in life, you see that is the natural way of things not turning him into some kind of she-male by kick boxing him to submission. You should be taking cooking classes!!

Try to learn what pleases a man so that he is happy and go out and slay the dragons of life for you and your children. That will make him and you truly happy. IggyI suppose I'm just always gonna be a trouble maker, refusing to play into the archaic 'status-quo'. I don't accept anything at face value- much less antiquated gender-roles that men defined in the first place.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
If a woman has to leave her family to work because the man was forced(drafted) into the service then her hand was "force" to work.

Not any more so than you or I. You're not forced to work, but if you don't you and your family will starve to death and be homeless (probably not in that order). If the women didn't work, they and their families would starve and lose their homes the same way as if men didn't work. All things being equal, I'd rather not work. But yet I do work. Does this mean that I'm forced? No, it means that I want to eat next week.

You need to read what question I gave them regarding a woman making the house a home. That answer came from Hey Pretty response of sleeping at her boyfriend's place when I ask them to tell me of a man who made a house a home without a "woman's" touch

I read your question. Hey Pretty answered your question by saying that her father (a man, presumably) made her childhood house a home. You told her that didn't count because she lived there, and that she would have to cite an example of a guy's house where she felt comfortable enough that she fell asleep. She then cited her boyfriend's house, but that wasn't good enough either. Apparently you've changed the rules to mean that she has to provide an example of a guy's house that felt like a home to the extent that she was comfortable enough that she fell asleep, where the guy that owns it was a complete and total stranger unknown to her.

Check the definition!!!!!!! Not if it's the English Language?:

I don't have any clue what you're saying here. You told her to check the definition of a word and she told you that she has an extensive background in English (where most people know the definitions of common words, like "equal").

One example: The blowing up of Mother's Day compare to Father's Day.

I hope you've got better examples than that, because that's pretty lame. You're making a big deal about how much better women have it than men and when I ask for an example you tell me that Mother's Day is a bigger day than Father's Day?

If women are so "equal" than why do their nature go for the dominant man and not the feminine man?

All of that depends on a number of things, not the least of which is your definiton of "dominant". If "dominant" means holding a belief that women are inferior, I don't believe that most women go for that at all.

That being said, people can be different and still be equal. Why don't YOU go look both of those words up.

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Re: Re: AFS ALL OVER THE SITE

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova


Actually, you're wrong. In my grandparents' case, my grandma cooked most of the time because my grandfather was in the Navy and was gone for long stretches... as a result, all of the household responsibilities (cooking, cleaning, mowing the lawn, fixing the furnace) were handled by my grandma. My grandpa may have been in command of many men at sea, but my grandma was in command at home, even when my grandpa was there.

Same with my grandparents. The information is what I've learn came from them.

My parents, married 26 years, have an equal partnership. Both of my parents cook, but if anything, my dad cooks more. Both of my parents worked, both did stuff around the house. There were no arguments about who did the cooking. If my dad felt like cooking, he would; if my mom felt like cooking, she would. If neither of them felt like cooking, they'd order pizza or something.

This is good.

If the day ever came when my father said "Cook me a steak now, subservient woman! Submit to me because I am man, the ruler of this abode!" it would be the last day my mom would ever cook him ANYTHING.

No offense but you sounding like a feminist with that statement


Why don't you go look that word up and tell me what it means.

Terrible disaster

Also, I don't agree with your belief that women are inferior to men.

If that's the case then why do women go for the dominant man.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Re: Re: Re: AFS ALL OVER THE SITE

Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
Terrible disaster

No, you're thinking of "catastrophic."

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

GIO,

You are a feministic male. You're becoming very emotional over things that not in your control. Anything women has said that men do or say you try to validate. This is not good my friend. Talking to you is like to the wall, it's not getting anything done. That's why I will not continue to beat the dead horse with a stick. It's useless. I will tell you like I would tell a female in any arguement: YOU WON!!!!


You are entitled to your "opinions" but if it goes against "reality, you will lose.

 

[tiburon]

lol

i ll give you the fact that your engilsh is pretty good but thats about the only thing...

Tiburon

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Re: LOL this guys cries like a girl

Originally posted by tiburon
Man the more i hear form you the more i realize you are just a stupid arrogant AFC....

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=34973

Read it. Learn it.

Tiburon THE CUBAN DJ

Saying it a whole bunch of times still won't make it true.

By the way, I must've really hit a nerve with you. You should really learn to get a better check on your emotions.

 

[tiburon]

lol

you are a kid and i enjoy seen your arrogant A$$ cry like a girl...

BE A DJ not a wuzz son..

Tiburon

 

[Howie Farkes]

Somewhere between DJ and AFC

Originally posted by tiburon
Man i do what ever i want and my advice is solid...and unlike you i dont get blinded by woman

You've expressed the view that each woman fits into one of two categories. Sluts to play with or angels to love and marry. That seems pretty blinded to me.

I'm quite amazed at all the anger directed towards Gio on this site at moment and can only think its because he doesn't preach the "girls are only good for fukkyn and are all liars and cheats and once you realize this you'll be happy" dogma thats getting championed aggressively around here.

And then the term AFC is cast upon anyone who doesn't act like a "DJ" as if that's worst insult ever. Well I make no claims to be a DJ but I'm definitely not AFC. I'm not Average, Frustrated or a Chump. So I think I'll label myself ECG - Exceptional Contented Guy.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

These kids crack me up. Come on in here...throw a bunch of the don juan terms around ("DJ" "AFC") and all of a sudden they are winners.

Give me a f*cking break.

Listen, i have no love for stupid manipulative b*tches who like to play games with guys minds, and i am advocate of a LOT of the ideas presented on this board that can be beneficial when "Dating, Meeting, and Attracting women"

However...it irritates me to no end when people go overboard and think that women need to be treated in a dominant fashion.

This is Bullsh*t.

Women and Men are equal..granted there are things both genders can do better than the other but in the end i believe that a women is meant to compliment a man..and vice versa.

That said..lets talk about this issue of cooking. Yeah its nice when a woman cooks for a man..but as Gio said..do you expect her to cook for you..when in all probability, she will be working as many hours as you? B.S Call me a feminine AFC...but if you do that..then I truly sympathize with your f*cked up attitude.

A REAL man respects his wife/girlfriend meaning that he doesnt expect her to wait on him hand and foot..its called EQUAL PARTICIPATION..its quite simple..you treat how you would want to be treated. Some jobs are better suited for men and others for women. i completely agree. But in todays society, cooking CAN be shared.

REALITY says that oppurtunities and social roles are expanding for women...so if your spouting off reality sh*t then you better be prepared for a nasty wakeup call.

GRanted there ARE some girls, living in a backwoods amish colony who would be glad to serve you hand and foot. Keep in mind they have a grade 9 education, and probably dont know any words longer than 3 syllabulls.

So..if a REAL DJ is a closeminded lazy ass mottherf*cker who just sits around and snaps his finger for his B*tch to bring him a drumstick..then congratulations boys, you graduated from "sosuave 101" with flying colors.

And..if you are against the idea that a REAL "DJ" is a self confident man who respects women, and acknowledge that they are actually human beings as well..then by all means do whatever it is you're doing..like i said be prepared for a wakeup call.

Its not a complicated thing..SHARE THE DUTIES

If the day ever came when my father said "Cook me a steak now, subservient woman! Submit to me because I am man, the ruler of this abode!" it would be the last day my mom would ever cook him ANYTHING.

What the hell is so feminist about this statement. Please Explain that one to me. I'm dying to know.

I completely agree..if my Dad said that to my mom He'd be going to Wendys down the street.

Some people just dont get it.

 

[tiburon]

Howie there are different degrres

Dear Howie Farkes:


"You've expressed the view that each woman fits into one of two categories. Sluts to play with or angels to love and marry. That seems pretty blinded to me."

In life there are different degrees of everything. There are different degrees of love, of interest , of attraction, ... ect. It is not about categories.There are different degrees of sluts and nice girls aswell. Me personally i am really picky when i think of relationships and a future wife. She has to have a super low degree of being a slut, and a high degree of being a nice woman.
Honestly if i ever get married i am going to marry someone i have no doubts is an exceptional person , if not ill place my bets in alot of sex with sluts. Also realize that if in my mind a girl has enough of a degree to be called a slut , she is only good for fun and games and alot of sex , and not to waste my time. Realistic Howie, just realistic. I understand that there are alot of different point of views from mine, because most of you guys were raised in the US or Europe and sluts is what you have been seen since the day you were born and wouldnt know any better and you see some sluts as normal girls or good girls . Well not me, i had the luxury to be raised by three very decent woman, and i dont aim lower than the morals they so highly emphasized. A normal girl to you is a slut to me...this is probably true...and a stupid girl who is into her books and family and believes in sex only for the true love when she gets married ..well thats a nice girl to me. We were raised differently so i dont expect you to agree with me, but maybe understand were i am coming from as i do understand were you are coming form.

Tiburon

 

[Howie Farkes]

Re: Howie there are different degrres

Originally posted by tiburon
We were raised differently so i dont expect you to agree with me

With that I will agree.

But for some of the other stuff I'm quite astounded at your hypocricy. You want to one day find a "stupid girl who is into her books and family and believes in sex only for the true love when she gets married" and yet you have no problems with sleeping around with as many "sluts" as you like until you find her (and I use that term reservedly as according to you many of what I would call normal girls are also sluts). Well this potential wife of yours would have to be stupid to save herself sexually for someone who's dipped his wand in god knows how many skanky holes but expects her to be chaste.

 

[tiburon]

lol

you guys dont seem to know the meaning of hypocrecy

I dont claim to be fair.....but i claim to be a good MAN. Meaning thats what i look for in a woman, and i have alot other good things to offer. Woman and men do their own choosing, and fvcking sluts is a risk i am willing to take and then be turned down by the woman of my dreams if one day she was to come by.But if she comes by i wont cheat on her because a stupid temptation.

Nevertheless that doesnt make me a hypocrite, maybe dominant, machismo type attituted , but not a hypocrite, i dont claim to be a saint and in reality be a devil. I dont hide my true self.

Let me add that i know very well myself , and me fvcking hoes at an early age, is just for two reasons. I know i love women and i am addicted to them and i get tempted easily, but fvcking sluts everyday gets boring. The problem is i am too youg to be bored.
I have made the decisions that i am going to get all my temptations out of my body so that if one day i do get married i dont ruin it like many man that get married without feeding their hunger and then are easily moved by temptations destroying families. The day i get marry i want to be able to say even if britney spears was infront of me : "been there done that, not a big deal". Because i am honest and i dislike cheating to be done to me so i dont do it to others.

So please dont call me a hypocrite without proof...

Tiburon

 

[Howie Farkes]

I see hypocricy as "expecting or demanding behaviour from other people that you are not willing or able to demonstrate yourself".

You want to sleep around before you find the right girl and marry her (something I neither comdemn nor condone) but label any girl who has sex before marriage as both a slut and not marriage material.

There is my proof.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya

Originally posted by HeyPretty
Actually, we worked for *the* force. And we weren't forced to. We took up the jobs left behind when the men were sent to the front lines.

Check history, sweetheart. Women were "forced" because they had to leave home. This cause major problems because the oldest of the kids were left to raise their siblings with no experiece in parenthood(latchkey kids).



My boyfriend's house, actually. The first time I went over there.


That's your boyfriend's place where you will feel protected. If he live in his car you would go to sleep because you are around him. I'm speaking of any other male other than someone you screw.



I have a BA in english, and I have been a professional writer for over 6 years. I believe I have a fairly adept grasp on the english language. But just for you:

What do this have to do with the price of tea in China. Why do some women always bring up what they accomplish in school when they are challenged? I made no statement about the english language.



What is so monstrously difficult about treating each other with respect, and making each other happy?

The playing field is not even and you know this. Most things in America accomodates the woman.

I have no problem cooking for my man. Just like he has no problem cooking for me.

Good! Keep it up!

It's a relationship. Not a plantation. Learn the difference, baby.

Submissive= Sub:backup, partner Missive= Mission, goal

Accept your natural role. Period

well put.

A BA in english usually means that you are an educated bum. Everyone i know with that usless degree is working at blockbuster video.

 

[MetalFortress]

Dark, you are flawed on one principle: AFCs do not treat women like equals. AFCs treat women like SUPERIORS. Jerks treat women like inferiors. DJs treat women like equals.

Anyways, I'd definitely rather be the breadwinner, and want my (in the future) wife to be a stay at home mom when we have kids, although it wouldn't matter as much before the kids. Cooking should be something she enjoys doing though, for example, one female friend of mine loves cooking for other so much that when she had me and 3 other friends over, we had to hold her to the couch and restrain her to keep her out of the kitchen! And cooking together is definitely a good option.

To others, if you're going to argue about the point, keep it on topic and stop making really dumb attempts at psychoanalysis (E.G. assuming that Giovanni Casanova is getting emotional and being a crybaby over this, when in reality he is calmly presenting his argument to you angry wannabes)

 

[Helter Skelter]

Expecting too much from a woman is not reasonable. You have to pick someone based on what things are most important to you. If having a woman who cooks for you is a top priority than I'm sure you can find one. It's not high on my list, but if she can, that's great.

Finding someone who loves oral sex for me is of higher importance than cooking. Everyone has their thing.

You can always eat out. No pun intended