I understand what you said. What i don't understand is why you women say you want one thing and go for another? If this is the case why don't you go for the nice guy? is that what you want an AFC? Go on tell all the guys on this board that you have nothing but respect for the AFCs that feminism has created. Tell them that you want them.
My goodness, don't get so upset. I feel like a witch at the stake here. I must confess, I don't even know what "afc" means, so forgive my ignorance. I have nothing but respect for people who respect me. Why are you demanding that I admit to wanting many men? I'm not on these boards to pick men up; I'm here to talk with anyone who wants to, in an intelligent and calm manner, and hopefully, learn more about the male perspective so I can improve my communication skills.
There are some women on this site that i think are great. The guys on this site are just sick of "nexting” girl after girl. The fish in the sea have been poisoned with bitterness, uncertanty, and confusion. All of which has been created in women and men by feminists such as yourself.
I don't have animosity towards females if you read my other posts in this thread you will see that. I think that women should be treated with respect etc... I just don't like the crap that feminists are up to. Their ways are manipulative and they are using the media to as an agent for social change.
Again, I don't understand how teaching women that they are equal members of society, and capable of doing anything in this world that anyone else is, corrupt's women's beliefs towards men. Most often I find, personal experience with nasty people will lead someone to avoid nasty people. Male or female.
As for 'nexting' girls, perhaps these women just weren't right for the men? There's very few people in this world that one person is compatiable with in a long-term way. If it was any different, I'm sure therapists, romance novels, and Valentine's Day would be a thing of the past.
Why don't you ask him how hard it was? I never said that a man can't raise a child. What i said was that the job is easier for a woman because biology is on her side. Taking care of children is a multi-tasking operation and thats why women are good at it. Men are able to focus and therefore are better at being a provider and a protector. The problem is that you have been told that this is wrong and that raising childern is on a lower level then providing for a family. If anything it should be on a higher level. So don't follow the herd think for yourself on this. what i don't understand is why women are so unhappy with it.
I never said that my father didn't work his butt off. As for multi-tasking, well- my father was also a Junior-High School Industrial Arts, Math, Social Studies, and English teacher as well. If supervising 35 fourteen year olds doesn't count as multitasking, I'm not sure what does.
And I haven't been told that raising a family is lower- I can't begin to imagine the work that the house-parent has to do on a daily basis- thankfully, my mother was also a Professional Nanny for 10 years before she met my father. So I have her lifetime of experience to elighten me that raising children is an involved rewarding, and hugely commited process.
I'm not unhappy with women raising children. I'm not unhappy with men raising children. I just think, each parent should do their share- whatever the couple decides upon. If that's tradional- go for it. If it's more modern, go for that too.
lol. that isn't even an argument. Where did you get that fact out of? For every creature you can come up with I can name 100's that gender roles are the other way around. It cracks me up every time i hear about women who study animals to justify their arguments. What is even worse is that you just stated previously that humans are not like animals anymore.
Women who think this way are dreaming about being something they are not. They are looking for external sorces to make them feel good because they can't accept what they are. I should let you in a secret there is nothing wrong with being a woman and accepting the natural gifts you have. A woman that can do this deserves respect.
Here's some information on Male-Parents in the Wild
Animal Super-Dads
In nature, the single-parent family is the overwhelming rule -- and that parent is almost always female. From building a nest and gathering food to giving birth and protecting their young, females do it all. Male involvement rarely extends beyond the moment of conception.
There are, however, a few notable exceptions to this rule. In 90% of bird species, the male provides some form of parental care. In fishes, males occasionally take on a custodial role at the nest site. And for animals living in harsh environments, the efforts of two parents are often required for the young to survive.
If you want more info. on the male parents in nature- here's the link!
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/seahorse/superdads.html
I've never said anything about not accepting my female 'gifts'. I said, I can still change the oil in my car, cook a strawberry cake, and play football with the gang- and be a woman.
I'm not going to forget that you are girl. Why do you want me to forget that you are a girl anyway?
Well, if you did stop treating me differently, perhaps all the accusations and hidden barbs would cease, and we could have a discussion; instead of me defending myself?
No i wasn't trying to bait you. I just wanted to understand how you thought and that required a few jabs. (can't say i'm not impressed though).
What's the difference between baiting and jabs? Both are intended to ellicit a response.
umm.. ok i'll accept that position cause it's fun.
Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to come across with any flirtation. It was simply a referrence to my home town. Sorry again.
