a woman should cook for her man

[Dark Nimbus]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
That's like someone 50 years ago saying, "You guys need to ease up on these ideas that blacks and whites should go to school together, because there will NEVER be equality between blacks and whites."

There's a BIG difference between your example and equality between the sexes though.

Unlike the blacks who wanted change, most girls don't want equality in a relationship. All of sosuave is basically founded on the idea that you have to judge a woman by her actions and not what she says, because women don't know what they want. Those guys that listen to women and do what they want we label AFC's and they come here crying how they can't get anywhere with girls. These guys listen to girls spew their BS and are educated by the media as to how a relationship should function, and treat women like equals and then wonder why they get be-friended or dumped when the relationship gets stale and boring.

Regardless what women say, we all know they want a man's man in the end and with that concept comes the idea of making the decisions and being in charge. So as a man, I expect my woman to know or learn how to cook for me, as it's one of the decisions I've made about what I want from my girl.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

To each his own, I guess. Personally, I prefer equality to antiquated, stereotypical gender roles.

 

[princelydeeds]

I can cook fine for myself. I will often cook when a woman comes over my house. If Im living with someone I honestly believe a woman should do most of the cooking. I would never ask my wife to cut the grass, change the oil in the car, or cut the shrubs. Those would be my jobs. Cooking is her job. Now cooking on a grill, thats men's work!!!!

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Dark Nimbus, you never answered this:

So dark, you expect that both you and your GF will work 40 hour weeks, and when you both come home she's gonna cook your dinner while you watch Sportsline?

Seriously?

 

[Dark Nimbus]

Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
Dark Nimbus, you never answered this:

So dark, you expect that both you and your GF will work 40 hour weeks, and when you both come home she's gonna cook your dinner while you watch Sportsline?

Seriously?

Seriously, yes, not every week but unless she's wiped out on certain days I'll want her to cook for me if it's only me and her (no kids). I'll keep her company while she cooks but the bottom line is yes I want her to be cooking for me.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Dark Nimbus
There's a BIG difference between your example and equality between the sexes though.

Regardless what women say, we all know they want a man's man in the end and with that concept comes the idea of making the decisions and being in charge. So as a man, I expect my woman to know or learn how to cook for me, as it's one of the decisions I've made about what I want from my girl.

I agree. women don't know what they want.

When women talk about equality it's all about forcing you to do the house work, forcing you to taking care of the children, and cook the meals.

A woman that cooks for her man has accepted the fact that she is a woman. This is the only type of woman that deserves a ring.
If you put a ring on a womans finger that isn't this way you are asking for a world of problems and most likely a divorce.

Men are natural providers and women are natural nurturers. These are not socially constructed roles either as the media would have you believe. These are biological traits that women and men have.

A group functions at its peek when roles are allocated to the person that is the most specialized to the task. This is true in a family as well. If the woman is better then the man at looking after the children (multi-tasking )and cooking meals then that should be her job.

The fact of the matter is that men are not multitaskers and we are therefore not able to deal with many small things at the same time like women can. On the other hand women are not all focused thinkers and are not good at being in charge.

Now these are all generalizations, but the point I’m trying to make is that the person that is best able to should do the cooking. In most cases this will be the woman.

As for the 40-hour week issues where both people are working. If you are not bringing in enough cash to support her then you are not the man.

 

[DJjazzyJeff]

Originally posted by princelydeeds
I can cook fine for myself. I will often cook when a woman comes over my house. If Im living with someone I honestly believe a woman should do most of the cooking. I would never ask my wife to cut the grass, change the oil in the car, or cut the shrubs. Those would be my jobs. Cooking is her job. Now cooking on a grill, thats men's work!!!!

Well put.

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
I agree. women don't know what they want.

When women talk about equality it's all about forcing you to do the house work, forcing you to taking care of the children, and cook the meals.

A woman that cooks for her man has accepted the fact that she is a woman. This is the only type of woman that deserves a ring.
If you put a ring on a womans finger that isn't this way you are asking for a world of problems and most likely a divorce.

Men are natural providers and women are natural nurturers. These are not socially constructed roles either as the media would have you believe. These are biological traits that women and men have.

A group functions at its peek when roles are allocated to the person that is the most specialized to the task. This is true in a family as well. If the woman is better then the man at looking after the children (multi-tasking )and cooking meals then that should be her job.

The fact of the matter is that men are not multitaskers and we are therefore not able to deal with many small things at the same time like women can. On the other hand women are not all focused thinkers and are not good at being in charge.

Now these are all generalizations, but the point I’m trying to make is that the person that is best able to should do the cooking. In most cases this will be the woman.

As for the 40-hour week issues where both people are working. If you are not bringing in enough cash to support her then you are not the man.

I totally agree with this.

It's funny with all the technology we have the laziness of humans in doing specific things. No wonder only 20% of women have a chance of getting married compare to 65% back then. If your woman was unable to work and you took on the bills only to come home to nothing but microwave dinners, you all would be pist(unless that's your thing).

It's funny because men don't complain about the woman not helping with the outside chores and we still have to work! Can you imagine men complaining and protesting about women helping with the outside duties. AAAUUUUUUUUGH!

I don't know about you all but my woman and I BOTH need to cook for the kids and the sake of expenses.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
I totally agree with this.

It's funny with all the technology we have the laziness of humans in doing specific things. No wonder only 20% of women have a chance of getting married compare to 65% back then. If your woman was unable to work and you took on the bills only to come home to nothing but microwave dinners, you all would be pist(unless that's your thing).

It's funny because men don't complain about the woman not helping with the outside chores and we still have to work! Can you imagine men complaining and protesting about women helping with the outside duties. AAAUUUUUUUUGH!

You see out door chores does not have to be done on a daily basis or changing the light bulb, whilst cooking does. If the woman is working full-time, its only fair that both do the cooking

 

[00Kevin]

what the hell happened to the poll! it is reversed now!

did a bunch of women just jump on this and start voting? lol

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
You see out door chores does not have to be done on a daily basis or changing the light bulb, whilst cooking does. If the woman is working full-time, its only fair that both do the cooking

Cooking doesn't have to be daily if it is done properly. Just admit it that ladies of today are a lot more LAZY than women back then. And for the record, a lot of women want to stay home/ or work part time because they are tired of working. Believe it or not but this true. Reality sets in when dealing with the harshness of the job world . That's why most women want a man that make a decent salary so that if she decide to quit then she can keep her lavishing lifestyle.

Mysterywoman answers this question honestly:
How come a man can't make a house feel like a home like a woman?

 

[deelite15]

I love cooking for my BF, but that's because I can cook. and enjoy the "art" of cooking. Do I want him cooking for me? yes, but eating hamburger helper is not what I usually have in mind! So when I feel like cooking I will, and if he's hungry, well there's always hamburger helper! But, do I think a woman should cook at all times, no. Why? if you're with a woman so she can pick up after you and cook for you etc.. well you need to get the bottle out of your mouth; I do believe in gender roles to a certain extent, there are some physical things a woman just cannot do, as well as some physcial things a man cannot do. But when the sterotype of "you should cook for me because I am MAN" well then you're just taking all the fun out of spoiling your man.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
The more i date girls and DJ them, the more i'm starting to realize that girls that cook for their man are the type of girl that I want. they deserve respect.

I've also noticed that Italian girls like to cook for their man because most of them are trained to be that way. Most hot chicks will not cook a meal for their man.

Do not forget about the senoritas. I have dated both Italian and Spanish ladies who were fierce in the kitchen. In my younger years I would sit in the kitchen asking tons of questions and looking over their shoulder. I was learning while they enjoyed the attention

My current gf takes directions very well so she helps me while I cook. When we do dinner parties all of her friends are envious of her because of my many talents . All the attention is great for the ego too. Plus my gf always shows just how appreciative she is, big bonus

What I am trying to say is that being with someone good in the kitchen is a very good thing for both men and women.

 

[Dark Nimbus]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
what the hell happened to the poll! it is reversed now!

did a bunch of women just jump on this and start voting? lol

Obviously someone's messing with the poll... or this thread was linked to some feminist site (Great, that's all this place needs, more female input ) Pretty soon I think I'll put up a poll if this site's name shouldn't be changed from sosuave to "Puzzy Palace"

 

[00Kevin]

WARNNING THE POLL IS BEING MANIPULATED BY WOMEN. THE REAL VOTE WAS ABOUT 80% Aggree / 20% disagree

when you tell it like it is women just can't handle it.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
Cooking doesn't have to be daily if it is done properly. Just admit it that ladies of today are a lot more LAZY than women back then. And for the record, a lot of women want to stay home/ or work part time because they are tired of working. Believe it or not but this true. Reality sets in when dealing with the harshness of the job world . That's why most women want a man that make a decent salary so that if she decide to quit then she can keep her lavishing lifestyle.

Mysterywoman answers this question honestly:
How come a man can't make a house feel like a home like a woman?

If women are suppose to be cooks, than why the hell are most chefs men?

How come a man can't make a house feel like a home like a woman?

Because their mothers spoilt them. Gay men have no problems doing this. I think I am going to marry a gay man.

Actually I am quite shocked with the guys responses, my dad cooks as often as my mum and he is fifty six

 

[HeyPretty]

Just admit it that ladies of today are a lot more LAZY than women back then. And for the record, a lot of women want to stay home/ or work part time because they are tired of working. Believe it or not but this true. Reality sets in when dealing with the harshness of the job world . That's why most women want a man that make a decent salary so that if she decide to quit then she can keep her lavishing lifestyle.

Mysterywoman answers this question honestly:
How come a man can't make a house feel like a home like a woman?

Ladies WORK now. Back in the 50's, women weren't allowed in the workforce after the War ended. We're not lazy, we're gainfully employed. *gasp*

I have my own 'lavishing' lifestyle as you word it. I support myself. And I don't *want* a man to do that for me. I like being equals in a relationship. I suppose that's a little too 'feminist' for you.

And I was raised by my father, in a single-parent household, and my childhood house always felt like a home.

It's not what's under your clothes that determine ability. What's so hard to understand about that.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
If women are suppose to be cooks, than why the hell are most chefs men?

How come a man can't make a house feel like a home like a woman?

Because their mothers spoilt them. Gay men have no problems doing this. I think I am going to marry a gay man.

Actually I am quite shocked with the guys responses, my dad cooks as often as my mum and he is fifty six

What we are saying here is that a good woman cooks for her man. we are not saying that women are better cooks then men are.

Gay men are AFCs. that why so women like them just as much as a nice guy.

 

[MysteryWoman]

I'd choose them over you any day

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
I'd choose them over you any day

now that is really funny. no guy will ever put a ring on your finger.