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Nice posting, 00Kevin.
I say that because it's well-written and thoughtful, inciteful, and true in many respects.
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That said...this quote best sums up my thoughts:
Son, we live in a world that has walls, and those walls have to be guarded by men with guns. Whose gonna do it? You? You, Lt. Weinburg? I have a greater responsibility than you could possibly fathom. You weep for Santiago, and you curse the marines. You have that luxury. You have the luxury of not knowing what I know. That Santiago's death, while tragic, probably saved lives. And that my existence, while grotesque and incomprehensible to you, saves lives. You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall, you need me on that wall. We use words like honor, code, loyalty. We use these words as the backbone of a life spent defending something. You use them as a punchline. I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom that I provide, then questions the manner in which I provide it. I would rather you just said thank you, and went on your way, Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon, and stand a post. Either way, I don't give a damn what you think you are entitled to.
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Why that quote?
Because, to me, since early memory serves us correctly, men are "assumed" to be the sacred protectors of society. Really.
Take away men, and tell me what % of women would be happy with society.
Tell me, how many WOMEN assume that men are still supposed to pay for the date, fix the car, help them in a jam, have the primary job to afford a certain lifestyle, help her achieve orgasm, lead the family, make plans, know about taxes, file taxes, do financial planning, buy the car, set up the computer network???
You might find a girl who can put up a network.
And maybe one who can deal with a used car-salesman.
Perhaps even one who knows taxes.
But is there ONE person, ONE woman, that ENCOMPASSES all these capabilities, like some FOCUSED resource??? Like a library of social knowledge and wealth???
Men are the geese laying golden eggs because of our FEARLESS ability to take on new tasks, our ability to work under pressure, through pressure, and thrive in pressure. Because of our ability to earn more money. Because we create a plan, and work that plan and a woman tags along on the RESULTS.
Seriously.
The corporations standing tall, enabled women to be admins, secretaries, sales-women, even cleaning women.
The freedom fought by our fathers and grandfathers, gave them the freedom to condemn our ideals, values, and rights. Gave them the right to vote against, to take half or more of our assets in a divorce, and a sounding board to complain about the only free society afforded them through the blood of their OWN fathers, grandfathers, uncles and brothers.
We enabled the creation of society that is free for them to voice and sound off their opinions of a less than perfect world, NOW we complain about how we got there. About how many millions of people DIED to get us here, about the methods used to get them minimal jobs in banks, in corporations, or in schools.
I am no hater of women, I am a realist, that men in and of themselves are a specific resource, because as a man, I can say honestly, that we, I, have the emotional control and intelligence to pick up any new or old skill and craft it to my will. To profit by my mind. To think for myself and think self-reliantly, not using another man, OR woman's resources to subsist. I applaud the risks my grandfather's and great-grandfather's took to provide a free society, and most books do no justice to paint the real picture of the vices and virtues born by them.
People, society, women, and some men, cannot face the grueling truth that our nation was born of candy, birds, puppies, rabbits and cats. It was born of blood, bigotry, slavery, thought, logic, talent, all by men crafting an ideal to create a near paradise while subsisting amongst a host of egos trying to kill, maim, or destroy us, our lives, our women, our assets, and resources.
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THIS has been forgotten, for the political correctness jammed down our throats by ungrateful generations of youth who get more than they deserve, have more than they worked for, and borrow more than they will ever make.
THIS has been forgotten by women, because men afford them the time and patience to get them off the hook, to let them slide, to enable bad behavior, and to not realize who's made the greater sacrifices.
YES, men need to be born of women. But under the guide of a father, a mentor, a male family figure, a MAN can LIVE, thrive and succeed in solitude. He will not crack, he will not wilter, and he will not fear, anything. Most guys DO live alone, in society nonetheless, more now than ever.
Because guys live afraid of who they are, afraid of speaking out, of being angry and letting it be known. Afraid of following dreams because everybody judges, from teachers and some coaches and parents, to win and some friends. We live alone with greater dreams than we are inclined to follow. We live alone, in solitude, behind screen names that sound cooler than we might be. We live alone mastering the most inconsequential of activities. Our talents lie dormant, like some ultimate machine beneath the earth until such time as we are called forth to reek havoc upon any transgressions or transgressors.
THEN, when war strikes out, or society crumbles, or a family is in crisis, man springs to action. Like a police department, or fire deparment, or lawyer, or the military, or the last minute sports hero. In the shadows these men, us, hide. And right now, everyone lies dormant, forgetting what it is that got us here. Allowing women, and PC groups, and Fat Groups, and Gays to dictate society, and what's good for the WHOLE.
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*****s, bytches, slvts, tramps, whoring, porn, hookups, skanks...all used to be hidden vices. They were back alley hoes. Or late night hoes. Or hidden escorts. They were not visible on T shirts, or in colleges, or at parties, or at clubs, or even at malls. They were just spoken about, and rarely seen, like a falling comet. NOW, it's more prevalent than ever. It's everywhere. And it's being allowed by such communities that allow the pursuit of slvtty women to continue. The more men PUA women, the more women are bred to follow that personality type and trait. As that pool grows, so, too will women that fit that mold.
As the hidden, unspoken PROTECTORS of LIFE, not just society but of life, (because it was men protecting women in tribes that enable us to speak now), men must stand up and realize the only blame to be paid is to ourselves for not putting our foot down. Instead of complaining about what's going on, it mandates action. And now. It requires men to take a stand and realize the aimlessness of women, is the result of non-existent men. Men who are ashamed of speaking up. Who will be ostricized for speaking up.
I care NOT for what is believed, but for what is true. Now AND going forward, men are the greatest resource to women, and women are the greatest reward for our hard work, valiant efforts, and creation of life. IT IS A SYMBIOTIC RELATIONSHIP. Men seek to protect, women seek to nuture and BE protected.
THE ESSENCE OF LIFE DOES NOT CHANGE. If this was true, we'd all be evolved, gay men, or we'd all evolve into ONE sex. WELL GUESS what...ONE SEX DOES NOT WORK and is an immediate case for life failure. The unification of ONE sex wreaks havoc, because the introduction of poor genes would IMMEDIATELY kill us off. And 3 sexes if at all possible would be too complex for procreation and GROWTH.
NO 2 IS THE MAGIC number. That's it. TWO. Any woman denying this union, denys her
OWN EXISTENCE. Just as any man denying this would DENY HIS OWN EXISTENCE. There's no 1, and no 3. There's only 2.
All women thus far surrounding us, have been cluttered by BS, that has stifled her off from her SOURCE of femininity. If you look at any large group of girls, 50, 100, they're IDENTICAL. Same purses, shoes, style, same average breast size, tan, make-up, general hair style, etc. THEY have molded to become what society desire, because her physical self is
disconnected from what she was born as. Instead, society has interjected what she is told to be, told to be a model of.
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The greatest argument provided in return to what I posit is that...
*Feel this way and you'll end up alone and cranky.
*Feel this way and you won't reach your goals.
*Feel this way, and face the backlash of PC groups, your family, or the law.
BULL-crap. They're so loaded with programming they can't see it. They can't see how GOOD life is underneath the THIN venear that has been made to sound sweet. It's the call of they SIRENS (greek mythology), and everybody is bedazzled, but I'm not buying it. Life is as perfect as make our minds to be and choose to be. I have chosen my own path and will continue on it, because it makes me happy. Each day has clarity and view. It's all our own to disagree. BUT...
As stated, life in it's basic form SOUGHT for there to be only 2 Sexes. Not 1, not 3. As the secret, yet assumed protectors of life, men have faltered because we've been told to BACK off. That the liberal society is best. That has been done is done so that things may BE as they are. However, seek any woman out and you will know in her mind, all that she seeks is provided for by men DIRECTLY or INDIRECTLY. Let men walk away from what we did, have done, and will do, and we shall see what % of life continues to progress. Let women do the same, and see if men ENJOY life so fully as they would without them.
A-Unit