15 plates

[BeExcellent]

Ok. So here's something else to think about. If in time you'd like to settle down & do the family thing, think about this:

What kind of partner are you? This is the main reason I'm suggesting you carve out some alone time. What thoughts come up from inside you? Create. Write. Pour it out. Rediscover yourself and the music written on your soul, you are having fun certainly but you are also blotting out pain from somewhere inside.

Get out a mirror & dissect yourself. Find that wound. Heal.

You have come a long way and are having experiences many can only dream of. Awesome. But you still have to brush your teeth, work out, and other things that only you can do. Sure its nice to be spoiled. It will also make you selfish and lazy if you are not paying attention.

Part of your success derives from the fact that you adore women. Many men here hold women in contempt, harbor a dislike or hatred for them because they cannot manipulate successfully due to creepy woman hater vibes. You have the opposite issue. You love women and women adore you for that. I have the same thing where men are concerned. Love men. Men feel that in the way I interact and get very attracted. It is a type of magnetism and it will help you immensely.....

But what is the woman who eventually wins you, what is she winning? Who is the man she gets as a prize? Are you a prize worthy of a lifelong partnership with a woman who could chose most anyone? Are you willing to give, to care, to invest, to overcome your insecurities, to help, to love?

First you gotta love you. Then you gotta start looking at the women you come across with the same filter I suggest you apply to yourself: A character filter.

Character is not about looks. Its about who you are, and who you are when nobody is looking.

A friend of mine in an internationally famous band just married his long term fiance. Not fancy or fussy. At a courthouse without fanfare. Very private. They are a really fun couple, very dynamic. They are also disarmingly normal. Nobody is blown away by who he is as a performer (and he's incredible), he's just himself. She loves him and knows his nerdy quiet side & his quirks....he is smitten with her. They are very kind to each other and they treasure each other. He does music for a living. He's very humble & frankly gets uncomfortable socially if someone gets overly giddy about his music. That's the music but its not him as an entire person. And sometimes his wife comes to stuff without him if he's touring. It's like "yeah he's touring through XYZ place...." no different than someone else saying their spouse is on a business trip, because it IS a business trip.

Character. Yours and the character of the woman. That should in time become your focus if you'd like to find a good life partner.

Meanwhie manage the crazy and have fun but be careful out there.

Cheers

 

[Bokanovsky]

OP, it sounds like you are carrying a heavy burden. Having to sexually satisfy 15 women in different jurisdictions and all the logistics and planning that come with it cannot be easy. Even Muhammad, the great Prophet, only had 12 plates. Out of curiosity, are you doing this for humanitarian reasons?

 

[darksprezzatura]

I'm not going to write you off as a BS artist because I don't know you well enough. Plenty of people think I am, so I'm sure it's possible you're achieving what you say you are.

I'm curious though, what allows for this? Do you make really good money? Are you really attractive? Does your work naturally surround you with these women (photographer, p***star, etc)? I don't care how much "game" you have, sleeping with some people's entire life's worth of women in the span of a single month is pretty insane...especially if they're all "new".

What exactly do you do/are doing that you're able to achieve and maintain this?

I am in the top 1% of the country’s workforce. I spent the last decade with studying what I do.
I’d say I’m above average in terms of looks.
I don’t work around women at all.

I do play the numbers game. It’s possible that I’ve approached over a hundred women last month itself. A paltry 20% success rate is nothing, means 4 out of 5 women rejected me, didn’t meet me, left me on read or friendzoned me. It has happened, I won’t lie. Yet 20% of a 100 is still 20 women who liked me enough to sleep w me.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Ok. So here's something else to think about. If in time you'd like to settle down & do the family thing, think about this:

What kind of partner are you? This is the main reason I'm suggesting you carve out some alone time. What thoughts come up from inside you? Create. Write. Pour it out. Rediscover yourself and the music written on your soul, you are having fun certainly but you are also blotting out pain from somewhere inside.

Get out a mirror & dissect yourself. Find that wound. Heal.

You have come a long way and are having experiences many can only dream of. Awesome. But you still have to brush your teeth, work out, and other things that only you can do. Sure its nice to be spoiled. It will also make you selfish and lazy if you are not paying attention.

Part of your success derives from the fact that you adore women. Many men here hold women in contempt, harbor a dislike or hatred for them because they cannot manipulate successfully due to creepy woman hater vibes. You have the opposite issue. You love women and women adore you for that. I have the same thing where men are concerned. Love men. Men feel that in the way I interact and get very attracted. It is a type of magnetism and it will help you immensely.....

But what is the woman who eventually wins you, what is she winning? Who is the man she gets as a prize? Are you a prize worthy of a lifelong partnership with a woman who could chose most anyone? Are you willing to give, to care, to invest, to overcome your insecurities, to help, to love?

First you gotta love you. Then you gotta start looking at the women you come across with the same filter I suggest you apply to yourself: A character filter.

Character is not about looks. Its about who you are, and who you are when nobody is looking.

A friend of mine in an internationally famous band just married his long term fiance. Not fancy or fussy. At a courthouse without fanfare. Very private. They are a really fun couple, very dynamic. They are also disarmingly normal. Nobody is blown away by who he is as a performer (and he's incredible), he's just himself. She loves him and knows his nerdy quiet side & his quirks....he is smitten with her. They are very kind to each other and they treasure each other. He does music for a living. He's very humble & frankly gets uncomfortable socially if someone gets overly giddy about his music. That's the music but its not him as an entire person. And sometimes his wife comes to stuff without him if he's touring. It's like "yeah he's touring through XYZ place...." no different than someone else saying their spouse is on a business trip, because it IS a business trip.

Character. Yours and the character of the woman. That should in time become your focus if you'd like to find a good life partner.

Meanwhie manage the crazy and have fun but be careful out there.

Cheers

Yes, absolutely spot on. I do align with what you’re saying. What value I bring to the table, and being clear about my expectations from my future partner is a good way to look for my partner.

Increasing standards and backing off from those who don’t align is a good way to filter through too many people taking up my time.

Time is all we have.

I take notice of how my date treats people who can do nothing for her. How she talks about people who aren’t there. How focused is she about work, career and her passions.

I like women who have clarity in their thought process and don’t need to emote all the time.

I have certain goals in life and certain traits which I’d like to see my partner align with. And maybe it’s better to not pursue an entanglement the moment I believe they are not aligned. It’ll save me time and allow me to invest it elsewhere.

 

[jhonny9546]

I want a woman who is empathetic, caring, emotionally stable/string, has a high libido, tall, has things to do as in a life, career and so on. A strong family background is beneficial. These are gems. Physical standards are the same as regular guys, this waist big boobs, nice ass, flawless skin. This is a ten in my opinion.

I know one which is all this but she is a 6, but she have a lot of drama..
It's really hard to find one as you described

 

[Divorced w 3]

This has to be razor Rambo

 

[Divorced w 3]

You're just jealous because he's:

but you should not forget how the description ends with:


So, nothing to be jealous about.

So you remember him too. I may have been a lone voice on here when a lot of people were following that pied piper so to speak, but I was right and this writing style is like he was resurrected from trailer park purgatory. It certainly wouldn’t be the first time a troll or catfish jumped back in here under a different handle. I could out another catfish right now; I won’t do it. I don’t know why the need to change handles? At least have the good sense to run the text through ChatGPT and get a different tone to it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

This dude was already around by the time Razor came out as a poser, so I doubt if it's the same dude.

VPN?

 

[jhonny9546]

It is clear that, with your gaming experience, you have reached the top. I try to learn new things every day, and the journey never ends.

Usually, there are two situations when interacting with women, and I can never understand which one is the right approach. Perhaps this is something you have experienced as well.

You know, when you are talking to a woman, I have identified two distinct patterns:

1) the conversation flows naturally. You laugh genuinely and feel involved; things happen automatically. For example, if she is doing something, you lend a hand without her asking, and vice versa. It feels like you’re engaging with a close friend (male). There’s no friction, and sexual tension could still arise. The mood is almost always positive and filled with smiles.

2) the interaction feels more distant and formal—almost as if saying "I don't like you." Tasks done together become challenging, leading to misunderstandings such as "I would have done it this way" or "No, it was better this way." There’s a lack of understanding, yet sexual tension could still arise.

I’ve always wondered which of these two approaches is the right one to determine if someone is suitable for us, long term. Version 1 certainly sounds more appealing, but "nice guy" version.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

You have come a long way and are having experiences many can only dream of. Awesome. But you still have to brush your teeth, work out, and other things that only you can do. Sure its nice to be spoiled. It will also make you selfish and lazy if you are not paying attention.

Part of your success derives from the fact that you adore women. Many men here hold women in contempt, harbor a dislike or hatred for them because they cannot manipulate successfully due to creepy woman hater vibes. You have the opposite issue. You love women and women adore you for that. I have the same thing where men are concerned. Love men. Men feel that in the way I interact and get very attracted. It is a type of magnetism and it will help you immensely.....

Cheers

Quick sidenote: I have had a lot of success with women but mostly abroad. I do not enjoy American women for the most part even though I've tried many times but there seems to be no spark. I think part of that is because I've developed mild disdain for most American women over time and I feel like they can sense that. However, when I take molly and go out in the US, women all of a sudden LOVE me, it's insane the difference in my game. It's like I have total control. I have this effect naturally when abroad... Just interesting sidenote... Its very difficult to switch on the "woman adoration mode" for me these days in the US unfortunately...

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi DarkSprezzatura,
For those too lazy to Google it:"Sprezzatura is an Italian word that describes the art of making something difficult look easy, or appearing to perform complex tasks without effort".To acquire a new word is to gain a new concept,this grows your intellect....I am both astonished and amazed at your achievements take a bow!

 

[Clockwerk50]

Could be that he had several accounts dormant, of course, but I don't feel like detective work. As it is, most people's stories and field reports and whatever are rarely congruent and either embellished or outright fantasies.

I never take anything anybody says at face value - people rarely say what they mean, so I make it a challenge to myself to try and figure out their motivation.

That's also how I can work with the PTSD women I counsel - I don't judge true or false, I merely look for congruency. Most people cannot deceive very well and they reveal themselves in their incongruities.

This is also an important skill to master for men who complain about women 'sh!t-testing' them. What women do is basically the same thing I do, testing for congruency. And the more your behaviour and action and speech and expression are congruent, the less you will be tested.

Beauty is the wrapping, not the gift.

To all the men here chasing 'hot' women, beauty is the wrapping, not the gift. My neighbour commented today on a young woman leaving my house yesterday and called her gorgeous. Delilah is, indeed, gorgeous. Tall, raven mane, cat eyes, hawk nose, cupid lips, slim and fit, reminiscent of a...

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[BPH]

I am in the top 1% of the country’s workforce. I spent the last decade with studying what I do.
I’d say I’m above average in terms of looks.
I don’t work around women at all.

I do play the numbers game. It’s possible that I’ve approached over a hundred women last month itself. A paltry 20% success rate is nothing, means 4 out of 5 women rejected me, didn’t meet me, left me on read or friendzoned me. It has happened, I won’t lie. Yet 20% of a 100 is still 20 women who liked me enough to sleep w me.

Can you elaborate? I'm not understanding how this works.

You say you're in the top 1% of your country's workforce and vastly supersede all these women you meet when it comes to finances, yet you're somehow in ruin.

Furthermore, you say you're busy and that your work doesn't put you around women, but have the time to meet, approach, and sleep with dozens of women in a month, after meeting hundreds. I don't even SEE 20 women I want to sleep with in a month. Beyond that, it sounds like you're having threesomes with these women as they offer their friends up too.

I read the reply that you're 6'2", jacked with tattoos, extremely good-looking, and a musician, so maybe you have the rockstar persona going for you. Otherwise, I do not understand these women being content with multiple different women you're sleeping with being present at your place with them at the same time.

Are you able to share how old you are, how much you make, or how many women you think you've been with? Maybe that'll put some of this into perspective because I don't see how anybody would have the time.

 

[Velasco]

I'm not understanding how this works
I don't see how anybody would have the time

Getting warmer...

 

[BPH]

Getting warmer...

I realize there's a strong chance that he's exaggerating or straight-up lying. But considering a lot of people think that I lie about my sex life, seeing as I live with my parents, I'm trying to keep an open mind to the possibility that he's also being truthful.

 

[jhonny9546]

There is no 'right approach' only an 'appropriate approach', since 'women' are never the same. Something that works with one woman doesn't necessarily work with another woman.

Maybe I explained it poorly, but I wasn't talking about an appropriate approach; I was referring to the ideal feeling you should have with a person who claims to be a great partner for you in the long term. Many relationships consist of united individuals, but I don’t see them collaborating with each other. Even when they do, they often blame one another or frequently get angry and argue. It’s more about "living together" than just an "approach."

 

[Velasco]

considering a lot of people think that I lie about my sex life, seeing as I live with my parents

No I believe you because I lived like that for years before deciding to get my sh1t together and moving out to live on my own (your sex life will get a lot better. Trust me). As an honest person yourself, you can't comprehend why someone would go to such lengths to fabricate made up fairy tales for male readers online. I've just been around long enough to notice the red flags that it's just laughable to me.

Still, I understand that not everyone has been around long enough as me (read: naive), and can't discern fact from fiction, so it does me a disservice to not call it out when I see it.

 

[BeExcellent]

He's been around for years. Pops in & out. He's stated in years past that he's a handsome dude.

Sometimes men are THAT attractive. Before I started dating my first husband I dated a man who was the most beautiful man I'd ever seen until my second husband...He was a male model who did runway in Milan, catalogue and fragrance (the Holy Grail of male modeling) and other stuff. Women flocked to him; it made him uncomfortable all the attention. When I met him he was literally surrounded by 6 attractive women vying for his attention. He waved me over. I laughed, waved him off and kept walking. He deserted those other women and followed me outside, he wanted MY attention. He was an intelligent, ambitious man. He felt trapped at times in his body because he could not escape attention from women, most of whom he didn't find attractive & most of whom wanted him as a trophy.....

So ya its possible.

 

[Solomon]

If you got 15 women you are now in a place where you can be picky, I'm assuming these women aren't whollymammoths, Perosnally I would norrow it down to the hottest, kindest, and most submsivvie

The chaos makes me drink way more regularly, I am not as focused on my work as I used to. Now I’m often happy if a woman cancels on me as that means I have time for myself or other women.

I want to go back to my dialled in headspace, focused on work, workout, health and diet. Getting some sun, good sleep. Make a new resume, leverage better income, build a business, invest in financial instruments. But I feel like I’m procrastinating and pvssy is my escape along with alcohol.

What I feel like doing is get some therapy, this is not a good way to live as other parts of my life are getting affected. Having options is great but there’s diminishing returns as well as a downward trend to quality of life after one point in time.

Are these 15 women all pretty/cute/hot? cause if they are kudos if they are all middies and fatties lmfaoooo

Moving on This is easy cut every girl and keep the hottest, most submissive, cooperative girl(cooking and cleaning should be mandatory) around, scale it too 2-3 and then take it from there. From Personal experince anything above 3 plates is to much time management unless you have some leeway i.e. one plate lives 2 hours, another plate works overnights etc

For work-life balance optimization, two Strong Plates and a Floater work best IME. However, if you have these options, get rid of all them and just make the best one your girlfriend.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Solomen,
"For work-life balance optimization, two Strong Plates and a Floater work best IME. However, if you have these options, get rid of all them and just make the best one your girlfriend."Pretty much agree with the "Flying Dutchman"here,it also seems contradictory...I am also puzzled by the term"Floater"....Is it analogous to having an understudy in the wings?