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[jhonny9546]

It is clear that, with your gaming experience, you have reached the top. I try to learn new things every day, and the journey never ends.

Usually, there are two situations when interacting with women, and I can never understand which one is the right approach. Perhaps this is something you have experienced as well.

You know, when you are talking to a woman, I have identified two distinct patterns:

1) the conversation flows naturally. You laugh genuinely and feel involved; things happen automatically. For example, if she is doing something, you lend a hand without her asking, and vice versa. It feels like you’re engaging with a close friend (male). There’s no friction, and sexual tension could still arise. The mood is almost always positive and filled with smiles.

2) the interaction feels more distant and formal—almost as if saying "I don't like you." Tasks done together become challenging, leading to misunderstandings such as "I would have done it this way" or "No, it was better this way." There’s a lack of understanding, yet sexual tension could still arise.

I’ve always wondered which of these two approaches is the right one to determine if someone is suitable for us, long term. Version 1 certainly sounds more appealing, but "nice guy" version.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

VPN?

Could be that he had several accounts dormant, of course, but I don't feel like detective work. As it is, most people's stories and field reports and whatever are rarely congruent and either embellished or outright fantasies.

I never take anything anybody says at face value - people rarely say what they mean, so I make it a challenge to myself to try and figure out their motivation.

That's also how I can work with the PTSD women I counsel - I don't judge true or false, I merely look for congruency. Most people cannot deceive very well and they reveal themselves in their incongruities.

This is also an important skill to master for men who complain about women 'sh!t-testing' them. What women do is basically the same thing I do, testing for congruency. And the more your behaviour and action and speech and expression are congruent, the less you will be tested.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I’ve always wondered which of these two approaches is the right one to determine if someone is suitable for us, long term. Version 1 certainly sounds more appealing, but "nice guy" version.

You should ask @darksprezzatura directly through PM, but you've been asking these questions from everybody already.

There is no 'right approach' only an 'appropriate approach', since 'women' are never the same. Something that works with one woman doesn't necessarily work with another woman.

However, women who are attracted to you will not be abrasive or challenging or argumentative; they will be more likely to make it easy on you. So whenever a woman is making it easy on you, you can be confident you're using the right approach for that woman.

You still won't be able to determine if that approach will also work on another woman. You'll have to try and be able to adjust your approach to make the interaction smooth and successful. That's the challenge, but also the fun part of seduction.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

You have come a long way and are having experiences many can only dream of. Awesome. But you still have to brush your teeth, work out, and other things that only you can do. Sure its nice to be spoiled. It will also make you selfish and lazy if you are not paying attention.

Part of your success derives from the fact that you adore women. Many men here hold women in contempt, harbor a dislike or hatred for them because they cannot manipulate successfully due to creepy woman hater vibes. You have the opposite issue. You love women and women adore you for that. I have the same thing where men are concerned. Love men. Men feel that in the way I interact and get very attracted. It is a type of magnetism and it will help you immensely.....

Cheers

Quick sidenote: I have had a lot of success with women but mostly abroad. I do not enjoy American women for the most part even though I've tried many times but there seems to be no spark. I think part of that is because I've developed mild disdain for most American women over time and I feel like they can sense that. However, when I take molly and go out in the US, women all of a sudden LOVE me, it's insane the difference in my game. It's like I have total control. I have this effect naturally when abroad... Just interesting sidenote... Its very difficult to switch on the "woman adoration mode" for me these days in the US unfortunately...