15 plates

[darksprezzatura]

Can you elaborate? I'm not understanding how this works.

You say you're in the top 1% of your country's workforce and vastly supersede all these women you meet when it comes to finances, yet you're somehow in ruin.

Furthermore, you say you're busy and that your work doesn't put you around women, but have the time to meet, approach, and sleep with dozens of women in a month, after meeting hundreds. I don't even SEE 20 women I want to sleep with in a month. Beyond that, it sounds like you're having threesomes with these women as they offer their friends up too.

I read the reply that you're 6'2", jacked with tattoos, extremely good-looking, and a musician, so maybe you have the rockstar persona going for you. Otherwise, I do not understand these women being content with multiple different women you're sleeping with being present at your place with them at the same time.

Are you able to share how old you are, how much you make, or how many women you think you've been with? Maybe that'll put some of this into perspective because I don't see how anybody would have the time.

I work in a classified profession. I have security clearances. I have next to nil social media presence. I am very private and don’t care if that hinders my game. It does make me a mystery sometimes to some women. I work maybe 1 hour a day, I study maybe 12. I have a patent in my name in tech as well. I am very honest about what I want and often lose potential lovers because they don’t want what I honestly have to offer. Often some women might want something else, but they still like me because I’m honest and it’s refreshing to them. I am unapologetically honest, something I’m trying to calibrate better these days as I’m growing older. I’m in my early 30s.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Currently I’m in a five star taking a dump writing this with two cute women outside, one of them bisexual - really just a genuine friend though. The other I slept with last night after meeting her for the first time. My battery is 1% I’m gonna dip. Be back later

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Sorry guys. I haven’t been active here at all, I don’t remember if any of the OGs still hit this place or if anybody even remembers me.

I just came here for a quick update, or maybe to keep this post as a journal for myself.

This might seem like humble bragging, and maybe partially even is.

I work remotely, and I am sleeping with over 15 girls at the same time.

I travel different cities to sleep with a new girl, and then they tend to chase a bit even travel over to sleep with me.

In the last one month, I’ve slept with over 20 new girls, some of which don’t want to see me again, which is fine. But most are open to regular sex.

Now I have issues remembering their names and locations and their stories and who they are or what they do etc.

We have chatter about abundance, but for me, managing so many women is draining a lot of time and energy. It’s not how it looks like.

The chaos makes me drink way more regularly, I am not as focused on my work as I used to. Now I’m often happy if a woman cancels on me as that means I have time for myself or other women.

I want to go back to my dialled in headspace, focused on work, workout, health and diet. Getting some sun, good sleep. Make a new resume, leverage better income, build a business, invest in financial instruments. But I feel like I’m procrastinating and pvssy is my escape along with alcohol.

What I feel like doing is get some therapy, this is not a good way to live as other parts of my life are getting affected. Having options is great but there’s diminishing returns as well as a downward trend to quality of life after one point in time.

Well chase your own excellence not ***** cats. Makes your life more interesting, balanced and sane.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Okay so this girl is going, another girl is downstairs waiting in the lobby so I need to book this girl a quick uber, I’m sort of anxious.

But always err to the side of caution and don’t **** it up, make them wait instead of showing your cards, because you gotta protect their heart too even if you’re honest about being a player and telling women that you’re unattached and not in a relationship w them

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Interesting, as molly is an internal change. Does this mean that the secret is internal. I mean, why would molly help.

What is ECSTASY/MDMA?
Ecstasy/MDMA acts as both a stimulant and hallucinogen, producing an energizing effect, distortions in time and perception, and enhanced enjoyment of tactile experiences.
Adolescents and young adults use it to reduce inhibitions and to promote:
• Euphoria, feelings of closeness, empathy, and sexuality
Known as a party drug, ecstasy comes in pill or powder form; pill has a variety of logos and colors.

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However if you get the same from just change location, then it is more than internal....

The problem is that a lot of things are internal but its more complicated then that. Drugs can make almost any situation more interesting and fun. On meth, you might be able to enjoy long boring discourse on accounting for example. On molly, you could enjoy certain women more, hell, you could even enjoy sitting in a dentist's office on molly.

If you rely on super elevated neurotransmitters to do something then that means that the natural chemistry is not really there which is why my final conclusion is to find a place where you have natural chemistry with the people and environment.

Also, yes, if you have way more euphoria, it is easier to do better with American women but when you are being natural, you quickly notice how rude and uncharming most women are here. If you could somehow not notice how rude and uncharming women are here and just push through that then in theory you could get laid more but it might not be a very enjoyable process. Kind of like wading through a pile of sh1t to get to the gold.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Now I’m waiting for the fourth girl to come to the same room tonight. She’s travelling for an hour to sleep with me. I’ve booked a $400 room today, to sleep with multiple girls.

These girls are all 22-28. I’m just drinking right now, trying to get housekeeping to clean up my mess asap. A big problem is to handle timings, that one girl leaves before the other arrives on time

 

[darksprezzatura]

A big fvck up was, one of the girls left me a love letter and hid it, and I didn’t know and the third girl saw it and knew I’m upto no good. I had to deny all of that saying she’s just a friend. All of that. I did tell her I sleep with multiple girls but girls take a huge hit if you tell them that you had sex with 2 other girls a few hours ago

 

[BPH]

No I believe you because I lived like that for years before deciding to get my sh1t together and moving out to live on my own (your sex life will get a lot better. Trust me). As an honest person yourself, you can't comprehend why someone would go to such lengths to fabricate made up fairy tales for male readers online. I've just been around long enough to notice the red flags that it's just laughable to me.

Still, I understand that not everyone has been around long enough as me (read: naive), and can't discern fact from fiction, so it does me a disservice to not call it out when I see it.

I'm starting to see your point here...1 hour of work, 12 hours of studying, somehow has time to meet hundreds and close 20+ attractive women per month.

 

[plumber]

The problem is that a lot of things are internal but its more complicated then that. Drugs can make almost any situation more interesting and fun. On meth, you might be able to enjoy long boring discourse on accounting for example. On molly, you could enjoy certain women more, hell, you could even enjoy sitting in a dentist's office on molly.

If you rely on super elevated neurotransmitters to do something then that means that the natural chemistry is not really there which is why my final conclusion is to find a place where you have natural chemistry with the people and environment.

Also, yes, if you have way more euphoria, it is easier to do better with American women but when you are being natural, you quickly notice how rude and uncharming most women are here. If you could somehow not notice how rude and uncharming women are here and just push through that then in theory you could get laid more but it might not be a very enjoyable process. Kind of like wading through a pile of sh1t to get to the gold.

yea, I get it.

I was thinking that the affect is to make us more social, less filter, more bold, and attentive. This happens naturally in when in an environment that we perceive self as important.

Our view of self, gets projected. Women respond based on our self projection. Or something like that....

the rub is that women in west can be very charming if they are interested and eastern can be very nasty if they are not interested.

 

[DJ Novice]

The more women you gave in your life, the less time you have, the more complicated the logistics will be, the more money you spend, the more exhausted you will be and the more drama you have.

If you are just after different s*xual experiences then eventually the pursuit of hedonism will become unfulfilling and empty as it is a bottomless pit you can never fill. Dan Bilzerian has spoken about this.

Like most things in life the law of diminishing marginal returns also applies to women.

I still work full time and for me seeing 3 women at a time is too much. Two is plenty. If you are retired or travel a lot like the OP then maybe you can handle more.

 

[Solomon]

Hi Solomen,
"For work-life balance optimization, two Strong Plates and a Floater work best IME. However, if you have these options, get rid of all them and just make the best one your girlfriend."Pretty much agree with the "Flying Dutchman"here,it also seems contradictory...I am also puzzled by the term"Floater"....Is it analogous to having an understudy in the wings?

Floater= A woman who you see once or twice that isn't around to long not usuaslly by choice but circumstance i.e. she

Hi Solomen,
"For work-life balance optimization, two Strong Plates and a Floater work best IME. However, if you have these options, get rid of all them and just make the best one your girlfriend."Pretty much agree with the "Flying Dutchman"here,it also seems contradictory...I am also puzzled by the term"Floater"....Is it analogous to having an understudy in the wings?

Floater= A woman you go out with or hang out with usually once or twice

These women tend to not last long enough to write home about

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

These girls are all 22-28. I’m just drinking right now, trying to get housekeeping to clean up my mess asap. A big problem is to handle timings, that one girl leaves before the other arrives on time

Ah, that's why you call them plates. Break one and you have to buy her. Something.

A big fvck up was, one of the girls left me a love letter and hid it, and I didn’t know and the third girl saw it and knew I’m upto no good. I had to deny all of that saying she’s just a friend. All of that. I did tell her I sleep with multiple girls but girls take a huge hit if you tell them that you had sex with 2 other girls a few hours ago

So you first lie to them, and then you overshare? Why would you tell them?

 

[darksprezzatura]

Ah, that's why you call them plates. Break one and you have to buy her. Something.


So you first lie to them, and then you overshare? Why would you tell them?

I don’t know, I don’t want to hurt them and don’t want to completely blindside them either.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I don’t know, I don’t want to hurt them and don’t want to completely blindside them either.

You're being duplicitous because you do know. You don't want to hurt them, but you do and you don't seem to care enough to stop your behaviour. And you don't want to completely blindside them, but partially blindsiding is fine. The problem is that you take 'game' too seriously as a game and you're using dehumanised women as pawns. And you should own up to that. If not to them, at least to yourself.

Like I said before, back in my teens and early twenties when I was called a 'social butterfly' and my relationships with 5-10 women were casual and quite superficial by necessity. And I admit to being selfish and not spending much time on the women I had sex with.

And I quickly realised that if I wanted to have more satisfactory sex, I had to invest more time in my lovers, so I scaled down to 2-3 lovers and had longer lasting relationships with them.

However, to have deeper relationships also required being more forthcoming in the beginning so women know without a doubt that you're not exclusive and not looking for a committed relationship. The upside is that you don't need to cheat; you don't need to be worried about your 'timing'; and you don't have to keep track of all the lies you need to tell them; when you stop being duplicitous.