Yeah I TOTALLY AGREE. The Beard is the sh*t. (literally) Did you check out his patented hairy pidgeon maneuver? OH!! It was a thing of beauty. He used it to pick up these 2 hot smoking 11s. And guess what??? THEY WERE SISTERS! How cool is that!!??Espi said:
I've been a single mother since 1994. I've NEVER had to cancel my plans for lack of childcare. I have had to postpone plans due to being called in to work, though. Women without children have to postpone and cancel plans just as much due to work. So do men for that matter.
Never had this happen either. I have been interrupted by phone calls and knocks on the door, though. Women AND men without children also deal with those kinds of interruptions.
I've never allowed my ex husband or my 5 year old's father to interfere in my relationships. Again...this has never been an issue. I've dated men with psycho ex girlfriend's though. One of them actually was afraid to let his ex know he was involved with someone else because she would harass him even more. I've found that ex girlfriends are actually far worse than ex husbands or ex boyfriends when it comes to attempting to interfere in relationships their exes get involved with. So yet again...this is not an issue reserved exclusively for single mothers. Everyone can have this issue pop up.
Now this one is just plain retarded and insulting. Sure...all single mothers troll the streeets looking for some strange, random guy to be a daddy to her kids. With all the perverts, pedophiles and psychos in this world, single mothers are more concerned with protecting their children from possible predators than finding someone to play daddy. Get a damn clue!
This is in direct conflict with your last claim. If a single mother doesn't want to bring strange men around her kids then how on earth can she also be trying to make this same guy the new daddy?
This is the only issue I won't argue with. It IS difficult on both men and women who get attached to the child of someone they have a relationship with. However, if the single parent is a good person they have the best interest of their child/children at heart. A good parent would not cut you out of the life of the children. I would never do that to any guy who got attached to my kids and who my kids got attached to.
Never had this happen either. I make it clear to my kids that they are to respect adults...and if I'm involved with a man they are to view him in the same regard as they would their aunts, uncles, grandparents, teachers or any other adult. I also explain to the man that there will be no arguing in front of the kids or allowing them to try to pit one against the other but that I will have final authority as they are my responsibility. That being said...I have never and will never allow my children to disrespect or mistreat any man I get involved with. Neither will I allow any man to disrespect or mistreat my children. That is how it should be and it works quite well.
Erm...why are you not taking full responsibility for your own protection against unwanted pregnancy? It's quite simple to prevent, afterall. If you refuse to have sex without using a condom then the chance of an unwanted pregnancy is extremely low. Bottom line...if you don't want a child it is up to YOU to take the proper steps to ensure it doesn't happen. That means don't have sex at all. If having sex is not something you are willing to avoid then you assume certain risks. One of those risks is an unwanted pregnancy. There are things you can do to protect yourself against that risk and intelligent men use condoms. In the even that protection fails...you knew it could happen and are equally to blame and must be a man and take responsibility for the outcome. A lot of women view abortion as murder, like I do...and will not murder their own flesh and blood. That is a risk you take and you know that everytime you have sex...whether protected or not. Deal with it.
Sometimes that can be the case, but sometimes it's not. In my case, I was very young, was a virgin, didn't have any experience to speak of and married a man who was very good at hiding his true colors. The second I married him he began to change...and was very abusive. I take responsibility for the mistakes I made and have not ever repeated them. Some women get cheated on or left. In some cases a woman ends up a single mother because their partner died. Let us not forget that men also have the habit of getting involved with bad women just as frequently as women get involved with bad men. If that were not true there would be no need for sites such as this. You don't have to be a single mother or even a woman to be a bad judge of character. Each and every one of you on this site have been a bad judge of character at one time or another. Should all women steer clear of you because you have made mistakes or been fooled before?
Again...this has never happened for me, either. If I take my children on a family outing I pay the cost, period. That is my responsibility as their parent. Not only do I not want some guy to pay for my children...I wouldn't allow them to do so even if they wanted to unless I was married to the guy. Since I have no interest in ever getting married again, this will never be an issue.
You're never number one with women without kids, either. In fact...you're actually likely to be higher on the list with a single mother than you would with a woman without children. People are selfish as a rule...and single women without kids are some of the most selfish people out there. At least single mothers are used to and comfortable with being selfless much of the time. Yes, a single mother's first responsibility is to her children...as it should be. However, that doesn't mean that by taking on that responsibility that she won't have anything left to give to you. On the contrary...since single mothers are so accustomed to giving to her children it's actually both easy and natural for her to be giving to the man in her life as well. So you might have to wait your turn...big deal...because with a single woman who is responsible to no one you'll be the one doing most of the giving since more often than not...the single women without kids are very demanding and like to take, take, take.
Please cite the law and even one actual case of this happening. Sorry, but this is just a complete and utter load of BS. The ONLY case where this would ever happen would be if the man and woman were married and the real father were dead or in prison or something and the non-father had either adopted or signed a legal agreement to be financially responsible for the kids. You make it sound like a guy dating a single mother or who lives with her for a few months can be forced to pay child support for her kids and that's a load of BS. There would have to be very unique and special circumstances for that to EVER happen.
Des, there are plenty of single mothers very much like me. In fact...most of the single moms I know are really great people who have just had lousy luck. Yes, some of them have made poor choices as well...but in many of those cases they were fooled.Desdinova said:
friv was moaning because of the dildo in his arse....typical said:
I know u were joking, but her post was more of just commen sense.
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