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It's true that people love to be led, give control over to someone else and simply follow them. It's the inherent laziness in almost all of us, combined with a cat's curiosity of not knowing what's happening ahead, and the attractiveness of discovering something new. To lead, on the other...

So there needs to be a balance of things... Does that mean that LDRs can still work if you go back to visit her frequently (3-4 times a year, each time staying for ~1 month)?

Dude, If the people who you are with don't ask if you want to attend their big social occasions, then you are not considered "part of them", part of their social circle. If the girl doesn't ask you if you want to go, then it's obviously that she doesn't want people to see you as her...

I think the issue here is still rejection, the problem is simple: IF YOU GET THE DATE: Congrats, you're hot, you're wired, and everything is a go-go. IF YOU GET REJECTED: You don't get to see her again, but you want to, but if she rejects you, you're afraid that you'll never be able to...

Problem Hmmm... I see a problem developing here. What are you going to say when you call her? "Hi, this is MattB, we met the other day at McDonalds..." Has a very small chance of working since she sees a lot of people at McDonalds... and, especially since you didn't get to introduce...

There are no feats, either you do it, or you don't. There is no "I'll be really chuffed if I can get her", because then you'll be placing doubt in your mind, doubt that needs not be there. It's either do or don't, there is no try.

No matter Good advice man, good advice. She has decided that perhaps you're not "worth it", not knowing her loss. Well, if she chooses not to find out how great a guy you can be, then it's her loss. Give her half the attention that you used to, and see what goes. Remember:

I think it's more of a change in appearance... supposed you wore preppy every day, and then suddenly you come in and look all smart and stuff, of course people are going to notice. Maybe they've just never seen you so smart before. Suits do impress people, that's why they're worn to formal...

Here's another one of those quotes that make you want to jump up and go do something with your life. It's taken from one of my favourite TV shows, Babylon 5: "So much has been lost, so much forgotten. So much pain, so much blood. And for what, I wonder. The past tempts us, the present...

First of all: bump OK, there was a time when I was alone with this HB at about 4 in the morning, after a night of clubbing, and she was giving me all the signs. I had a hangover at the time, and, back then, being my AFC self, decided not to do anything. Damn...

I'm in the great city of London! Studying at Imperial College and currently living in South Kensington

True, true Lozz, True, true. Everything's easier said than done, it's taking the nerve, saying "to hell with it all, I don't care if I win or lose" and building up the "don't care" attitude.

I think it's what a lot of people here needs. I would be very interested. ------------------ "Nuff said" "Well, don't just stand there, DO IT!!"

Here's a good tip on kino. If you're taller than the girl you're talking to, stop her in mid conversation, inspect her hair as if scruitinizing it and say. "Hang on... Don't move, you've got something on your hair" Proceed to remove the "offending article" and flick it away before she has a...

Usually for me is: See HB, grab balls, image check, approach. ------------------ "Life is a quest for identity, dare to explore" - Chapter3

If you really want to spice up to that badboy/DJ look, I suggest you get a silver chain necklace (medium/thick) and a Bico pendant, they're really weird looking, but chicks seem to dig them. When I lean over to talk to them, it usually hangs out from my shirt, which is great because sooner or...

Yep, remember, USE YOUR IMAGINATION! The answers are limitless. ------------------ "Life is a quest for identity, dare to explore" - Chapter3

Are you nervous to approach good looking women, whether it be on the street, in a store etc...? Then try this. I'm not really familiar with Hong Kong Island, so when I wanted to find an address on HK Island, I would be completely clueless. So this is me, in the middle of HK Island, with a...

Good going, keep up the effort! ------------------ "Life is a quest for identity, dare to explore" - Chapter3 "But Lieutenant! The newbie was on fire when I got here! - Anonymous "then, when you've found the shrubbery, you must cut down the mightiest tree in the forest... with... a herring!" -...

OK guys. I took this girl out on a date, we went to a comic festival (which, I found out later, that she absolutely adored), and then later for dinner at a sushi restaurant. I kept my cool and joked a bit, asked a lot about her, her work and her family etc... I kinoed her a lot but it didn't...