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    how to resolve low IL ldr/ltr

    I see. Thanks for the tips guys!
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    how to resolve low IL ldr/ltr

    alright sounds good man, do I next her by cheating then? Or just tell her straight up that we're done and not to contact me, based on what I *felt*? seems kind of over sensitive
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    how to resolve low IL ldr/ltr

    @iceberg jeez man you're aggressive. I don't think I'm the emotional one between the two of us ^_^ What I meant was that I do care about the situation, just not whether or not we break up. I just want to expedite the process, but I don't have the guts to cut it off myself without confirmation...
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    how to resolve low IL ldr/ltr

    ahh, it's a test. I see now. We'll I'll just continue my nc then (nc for 3 days) . does it mean I have oneitis if I don't want to go on dates while I am in an official relationship? That's the problem: I don't want to go on other dates while we are together so I just want this to be resolved...
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    how to resolve low IL ldr/ltr

    forgot to mention: we planned to see each other again on Sept. 17, a week before class starts.
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    how to resolve low IL ldr/ltr

    I'm suffering #30 from http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=191182 Low IL/Acting distant we were 3 months in when summer came and we decided to stay in relationship despite spending break from uni in different states. Good contact for first two months, now not so much. I think she has...
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    Freedom is the best game.

    Great post. I'm actually thinking this can apply to my ltr/ldr as it will help me stay myself instead of constantly worrying about her. Let me know what you think.
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    I can't gain weight

    thanks for the tips guys. I guess i really do just need to eat more. I think another problem may be how much sleep i'm getting, because i've been staying up later and later each night haha. I'll try to post here what i eat so you guys can see what i'm talking about! I'll also add my amount of...
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    I can't gain weight

    I've been trying to bulk up this summer to get ready for university. I've been working out a lot and eating as much healthy food as possible, but no matter what i've been between 150-155 for the past year. 2 weeks ago i had worked up to 155. We went on a small cruise vacation that had...
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    The Unforgivable Sin: Failure to Physically Escalate

    good post! i like that quote and the way you tied it to relationships.
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    How to make yourself interesting again?

    One time i was in a similar position. The entire time said girl was in the other relationship i tried to stay away from her as possible. That way, you won't be friend-zoned, and hopefully her memories of you will still be sexy. The time for this has probably passed for you, but in the future...
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    Depressed - Advice?

    stuff for fun double post. wups, don't know how that happened...
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    Depressed - Advice?

    stuff for fun There are lots of things you can focus on if girls are giving you trouble. The nice things about these ideas are that they can keep your mind off girls while still helping your value in the future :) -play sports. I play soccer with friends at the part throughout the week...
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    comments: 3-way pseudo date semi-fail

    Cool cool. I wouldn't say confidence is a mode i go into, i just said it because of how proud I am about it. Also, I was considering the same lines about how much kino because it's a group setting. Thanks for the direction arocket, isolate is my plan. P. S. It's a little frustrating to...
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    comments: 3-way pseudo date semi-fail

    weird thread title aside, I was wondering if you guys could help me reflect on my most recent endeavor. At my school we have this club event where we all eat at this restaurant as a fundraiser. Last month I went (I have to 'cause i'm president) and there we two guy friends and 7 girls, two of...
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    How long before you can ask again?

    haha thanks guys. I AM the man, right? right! I guess if i find myself about to do something fun i'll give her the chance to tag along. I'll update here if it's interesting
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    How long before you can ask again?

    i just didn't wanna seem creepy :) but i'm actually really proud of how much i've grown, so it'll be pretty cool to see what happens haha. thanks
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    How long before you can ask again?

    This is actually more of a specific situation than a general rule. I went on one date with a girl sophomore year, and it wasn't too much fun so we didn't do anything else. Easy to move on of course. Now it is senior year and I see her around a lot (similar classes and what not). first of...
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    Muslim DJ?

    not to be an jerk, but the religion is called Islam while it's followers are called muslims :)
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    Is it possible to ask a girl out too early?

    sorry to post without any help, but i wanted to say that I also find a situation confusing when you first meet someone under one pretext (i.e. not interested/friends) and then you want to meet them under another (dating). awkward... no? any help for SteR and me?
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