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/this will sound paranoid, but i'm not, k? :) well i just got back in town and i found out that she planned a long trip for vacation... leaving tomorrow. She knew exactly when i was coming back and i told her not to plan anything so we could hang out before she leaves for college. I think she's...

Here are some great tips from the bible: http://sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm#CHH i think the consensus is to cut down a bit on the "mysterious" part in order to build trust.

sounds good. thanks for the advice!

great journal! don't mind if I steal some ideas, do ya? =D

I wouldn't say i was *blindly* following jeffthecheff... haha =D.. but point taken. I was thinking of doing exactly what you wrote in your post. I think it will be a hybrid response (between your ideas and those of jeff) if i tell her what i think straight up because that will be talking to her...

beef jerky is a really good source of protein. I will warn that you need a lot of water too because there is a ton of salt as well. The best part (aside from it tasting good) is that there is BARELY ANY FAT. the fat is what makes meat go bad, so it makes sense that in making it they try to cut...

nevermind, you don't have to answer that =D I'm just going to have fun on our last date and then not think about her again. Tons of fish in the sea...

I see. Should i avoid her when she comes back for winter break/summer break, etc.?

sorry, i misunderstood what you said earlier. I thought you were saying not to mention breaking up at ALL but really you mean just not to mention it before and during our date, correct? otherwise it just be kinda like a cliff-hanger without any closure. either way i totally know what you're...

well i'm not worrying about it that much but shouldn't we atleast be on the same page about long-distance relationships before she leaves?

the reason i'm asking is because Jeff's suggestion mentions hanging out when you get back, which is what my initial idea was, but after that DJhero said not to mention it. I see this convo being before AND during our last date. which is better? to have our last date knowing its our last from...

thats what i was thinking. thanks for the reassurance! Just to be clear, I should NOT say anything overly *heartfelt* or be like "I'm going to miss you too much if we stay together overseas" or would that not be too bad?

I've been dating a girl this summer, and we both really like eachother. sadly, she is going to college overseas. I don't want to keep it going over such a long distance, though. I don't have one-itis; I will be able to move on easily in the short term, but i like her more than any other girl...

i did I asked her out an we went on 2 dates already! I'm glad i did because things are going well. Maybe she wasn't trying to reject me completely earlier, or maybe she is just being mysterious on purpose.

today: smiled at her in the hallway, she smiled back. during lunch she came over to our table and chatted with another guy at the table. She glanced at me a few times but i didn't know what to do so i just continued my convo with another person i was talking to. she then went to a nearby table...

well, i trust him. they've been friends for years

I asked a girl out at the beginning of april. she ambiguously and confusingly said what i figured was "no" and i just moved on (something i'm kinda proud of =D) even though i really liked her. now her best male-friend is telling me that she only said no because she had an awkward prom date...

btw *slightly off topic* is it weird if i want to wait till... later... to lose my virginity? Am i gonna lose a lot of girls?

she asked me about really early - like 1.5 months before prom. I wasn't thinking about it much (though i did have some girls i was thinking about)

Wow she is super into me i guess... Within this weekend she asked me to go bowling and to go to church with her. I suppose ill tell her I'd rather be friends and just have a good time at prom?