Capodeciña's Cold Approach Journal

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It became apparent to me recently that most of the lays I've had have occured mainly due to my online interactions with women. Having been in two long-term relationships with women off of the internet, I've longed to find more interactions and success out of the online fatwa. The internet and online game is my current crutch. I hate it. I feel cheated or feel as though I'm cheating. The reason I haven't done so for so long is? Because I'm actually too LAZY to do Cold Approaches.

Not only that, but I find excuses to delay it. I'll get rejected. It'll ruin my reputation. It'll ruin my reputation if I do get rejected. It's socially awkward. I'm not ready yet. I need to read more theories etc. I have very little approach anxiety, but very high outcome-dependency expectations.

So without further ado, I must nail this inner-demon of mine in the buttocks. Guys, you're more than welcome to chime in, give feedback. (I will not be including success in other areas such as online or social circle or girls I already know).

Destination checkpoints:
- Ability to approach a woman of my preference at any given time
- Eliminate my outcome-dependency
- Ability to follow through (conversation flowing) after opening
- Get double or eqally as much hotties than online
- Eliminate my fear of rejection or/and leaving sets too early
- Acquire more dates from cold approaching
- Acquire or/and get a lay by getting the number FIRST, before moving on to SDL
- Becoming flooded with interactions (dates) from cold approaches

I've done too much reading and very little practical. That time I've been holding off for too long, I'm treating this as a blood oath. It's just gotten serious. Time to punch in.
 

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good luck cant wait to see your first report.:D
 

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Week 1, Day 1

Absolutely pleased with this approach. It went better than I expected.

First Approach:

Capodecina: Hey. Do you know where I can get those shoes (points at her feet), the Gladiator shoes everybody seems to be wearing these days.
Girl: Yeah. You can get them from XYZ or XYZ
Capodecina: Oh really. Just there, how much are they?
Girl: $8 or $45 from XYZ
Capodecina: Awesome. It's my sister's birthday next month, so I want to get her the most current buzzing shoes about, are you a gladiator. Do wrestling lol?
Girl: Smiles, no, I got loads of different pairs of these
Capodecina: Really, collection of JESUS SANDALS, how spiritual. Nah I'm kidding, sorry my names Capodecina (hand shake), her name.
Girl: What bus are you getting on?
Capodecina: (Bus name), where are you coming from?
Girl: My cousin's BBQ, I'm getting on the same bus as you
Capodecina: Oh My Days, stalking me are we?
Girl: LOL
Capodecina: Gets on bus (talking about where she goes clubbing, her friends, badyboys vs nice guys scenario where I made it clear what side I was on, if she's the leader of the pack, pre-selected male behaviour, celeb gossip and her childhood for about 15 minutes). Noticed her twisting, smiling and playing with her hair alot.
Girl: I want to start driving and get my own place. But I don't wanna leave my mom with my little sister. She's such a b1tch to her. Why aren't you driving.
Capodecina: Umm. Crazy story (Gets into 4 minute story on getting a 3 month Driving Ban over a Road Trip)
I MADE HER GET OFF MY STOP, WHEN SHE COULD'VE STAYED ON TO HER STOP, WHICH WAS 8 STOPS INFRONT.
Girl: You need to get off her, I'll walk you there if you like (smiles)
Capodecina: Jeez, you can't get enough of this, stalking me home.
Girl: LOL. You've got a long way home, I'd go half way with you, but that's sooo long.
Capodecina: (Thinking, he may even get a Same Day Lay), what do you do for fun when you're not galavanting and going clubbing?
Girl: Bla Bla Bla
Capodecina: This is me. My bus. Oh yah. What's a good way of keeping in touch?
Girl: LOL. Phone. Phone
Capodecina: Here. Type it, cos I suck
Girl: (Gives me a long hug and says byeeeeeee)
Capodecina: Oh. I don't get a kiss do I?
Girl: Ohhh. Not this time, maybe next time.

2 MINUTES LATER

I get a text from her. " Do you have credit to text me?" I haven't replied yet, but I'm pleased with this as my first approach into my challenge. I could've done abit more in this approach (more advanced) with maybe suggesting what we could do (date) on a later time during the week, but keeping it simple for now with just attaining numbers worthy of not flaking. Bring on the next! *Plays Guile's Street Fighter Theme*
 
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Week 1, Day 2

****blocked by my own mom.

There's a young girl whose new and works at her desk on temporary basis. I thought since she was kinda cute I'd just start a normal conversation going. I figure I'd just conversate with her infront of my mom and somehow on her break get abit more escalation going. What does my mom do? Doesn't go on her break, stays and listens in on the conversation and then decides to Out-Alpha Male me LOL and lift my skirt up on a few lethargic traits. My mom purposessly stayed in on the conversation, she told me she doesn't want to see that girl at our house. Doesn't like her all that much for some reason. Maybe because she doesn't do all the work and prolongs her breaks. Just the ammunition I need to neg her incase she decides to get uppity.

Saying this, she was very receptive to me. Joking around about how bossy my mom can be with her new management roll. Eventually she had to go on her break and offered me to join her shortly, but I had stuff to do and left. She's not running anywhere, so I think we can get off from an unfinished convo on a later stage. However, I have to be slightly more cautious with this approach as I dont want to jeopardize my mom's position or the girl or get rumours around the workplace as a player or some type of low-leveled rake.
 

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I really like your first approach, it was smooth, easy and confident, good job!
 

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Thanks CaptainJ, pretty much just took advantage of my surroundings and started a normal conversation with an informational opener. Forgot to add alot of my kinesthetics came heavy into play when I asked her name and she gave me this story on her color eyes relating to the name. So I just edged up on her and drew her into me to act like I was scrutinizing to see what color her eyes where.
 

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Week 1, Day 3

Damn it.

Didn't get to approach atall today really. One of the most busiest days of the year. I had a sh1tload of project work to finish, applications to fill out and mock setups for interviews following next week. Essentially, I had no (me) time to actually seperate time to do approaches. I got scammed into 2-sitting meeting at different times which had me running around. There weren't any decent or hot girls worthy of an approach that I saw today either.

Enough winging and moaning though. I did have one short coldapproach, which occured at a bus stop again. I had just gotten out of my seat to figure where the bus was and a 2-set of girls came right up and sat in my seat.

So I confronted them about it (****y way) and had a few sh1ts and giggles. What happens during this time? An old target of mine pops out of nowhere and stands right behind us like a shadow of a grimreaper. So I stupidly left the 2 girls to chat to her. Eventually we got on the bus and had a 15 minute catch-up chat.

Just like usual, she was stand offish about escalating anything.

Enough about her, I lost the 2 set. I probably would've gotten one of their numbers with a better proposition today if I wasn't so desperate to canoodle with old dead sets. Tommorow's another day and it's Friday! Time to gather momentum for a big night and day game session.
 

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Week 1, Day 4

What. The. Fvck happend tonight?

It's been a really strange night. Here goes my First Approach.

So I get on the bus after Soccer training, this is the evening and my first approach for the day. There are 3 girls sat at the back, she accidently presses the bell whilst my hand was there and says "Oh Sorry, LOL" Two of her friends get off. So I sit a seat behind her, and poke my head out and ask?

APPROACH #1:

Capodecina: Wait. Is that you're real hair (smirk)
Girl: Umm. Yeah (Smiles)
Capodecina: Really, you sure?
Girl: LOL, erm yeah (looks around embarrased)
Capodecina: (Changes seats, sits infront of her)
Girl: LOL, what?
Capodecina: What about the back, Oh it moves!
Girl: (Mumbles and looks at her phone)
Capodecina: Thats awesome (s******ing)
Girl: ..... (gets off same stop as me)
Capodecina: Hey, where you going? I didn't get you're name?
Girl: (name)
Capodecina: Oh okay, whats wrong? Are you nervous about something? LOL
Girl: No, I just need to go home
Capodecina: Really, where abouts do you live?
Girl: Just round the back of there (points at houses)
Capodecina: What, those block of houses there?
Girl: No, at the back, anyway I got to go home, I don't want to hear my mom
Capodecina: (body rocks away as if I'm leaving) Oh. Okay, where's you're bf anyway LOL?
Girl: In prison (brushes hair)
Capodecina: Oh wow.
Girl: I'm not interested in this convo anymore, yeah, I got to go home, alright Byeeeeeeeeeee.
Capdodecina: mmmm, (walks off)

Terrible approach. I didn't really care. But I just needed to warm up, it was abit awkward as it was approaching her on the bus full of passengers and then getting off the same stop. Wasn't my best.

APPROACH #2:

Two girls sat at the opposite side of a Bus stop (I need to quit these bus approaches, they're getting lame) One of the girls with nerd glasses says something to her friend and they laugh as I walk by.

Capodecina: Wanna share the joke? (smiles)
HBNerd: Ha Ha, you wouldn't get it
Capodecina: I bet I will, go for it?
HBNerd: Okay, well my friend was meant to get us a ride home, but the guy is being a jerk. He's saying he's not coming to pick us up and she's p1ssed.
Capodecina: Ha Ha! Shame, so you guys are practically stranded?
HBNerd: I don't even know
HBFriend: We got a long way home, I live in (location)
Capodecina: God, (location name)? Are you kidding me?
HBNerd: Yep. Not me though, I live in (location name), why where do you live?
Capodecina: I live in (location name)
HBNerd: Oh just there, I liek you're Vans. I love Vans
Capodecina: Ha, yeah, I've just come from soccer training
HBNerd: At this time!? You're determined.
Capodecina: Oh yeah. I've got alot of energy (eyebrows eybrows)
HBNerd: Ha, Ha. Who do you play for?
Capodecina: (team name)
HBNerd: Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh. Do you wanna play for (team name)
Capodecina: Hopefully. I support them,s o why not, yeah.
HBNerd: What country are you from?
Capodecina: Portugal, you?
HBNerd: Maritius and German (smiles)
Capodecina: OMG, how did that happen.
HBFriend: Ha Ha, I know
HBNerd: (gives illustration of her mom fvcking her dad)
Capodecina: Wow, thats a change.
HBNerd: I know, I know.
Capodecina: Whats you're names btw?
HBnerd: Name and (Friends name) Did you just see that guy who approached us? OMG
Capodecina: Nah. Dude? (smirks) what happend?
HBNerd: He said "You alright Darlinggggggggg.."
Capodecina: Yeah. What's wrong with that?
HBnerd: You alright darling? No. I hate (nationality/country) guys. I think you're hot.
Capodecina: LOL, oh why?
HBNerd: Because they think they're so smooth and hot. Do you think I'm hot (smiles)
Capodecina: (pauses), Um yeah you're okay. Cute I guess.
HBNerd: (chuckles)
HBFriend: Oh heres our ridddddde.
Capodecina: Whose that you're bf?
HBFriend: (looks at me like WTF NO - Nah, just some guy I use)
HBNerd: Yeah. She just uses this guy

GUY PULLS UP OUTSIDE THE BUS STOP AND OPENS THE DOOR

Capodecina: Hey, let me get you're number (goes in bag - BIG MISTAKE)
HBNerd: Oh. No, no, no, no (Waves finger in a patronising way)

These girls were drunk. I'm just not hooking these Bus Stop approaches. Didn't really faze me. As I know, at a better place and time like (in a club or day) I probably would've had more time to qualify her and close.

Thats not ALL. Guess who I see 30 minutes later?
 

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So a group of cluessless skaters turn up at the bus stop. I started a convo with one of them asking them about DC Clothing they had on, then got into "Where are all the Girls tonight Dude?"

Skater 1: I know man. There's no girls out LOL
Skater2: Ha, none about man. I got a girlfriend anyway
Capodeciña: LOL, yeah? Whys that stopping you from approaching other girls? Don't you guys Pick Up?
Skater2: Pick Up, umm yeah, umm yeah, what like weed?
Capodeciña: LOL, nah dude, Picking Up women.
Skater1: LOL Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Nah not really. Theres a time and a place.
Capodeciña: Like now. Time and a place right now bro.
GROUP OF GIRLS GET OFF THE BUS AND ENTRE OUR COMFORT ZONE
Skater1: Oh there you go, theres some chicks...
Capodeciña: Nah dude, not hot.
Skater1: LOL, oh yeah. See what you mean now
Capodeciña: Actually, a matter of fact. Hold that thought.

I GO UP TO THE 2-SET AND LEAVE THE CLUELESS SKATERS IN SHOCK & AWE

APPROACH #3:

Capodeciña: God, are those you're real eyes. Gorgeous (smiles)
HB Green Eyes: (smiles) Umm yeah?
Capodeciña: No way, I've got my contact lense case here, let me take em off for you? LOL
HB Grey Eyes: Ha Ha, As if
Capodeciña: Yeah, anyway, where are you guys coming from?
UglyFriend: Oh friends party, where going home, getting changed and going back out.
Capodeciña: (repeats what she said)?
HB Friend: Yeah, bla bla bla
Capodeciña: Hey, I'm sure I've got you on Face Book, are you going (location name)? I SHOULDN'T HAVE SAID THIS, KINDA CREEPED HER OUT COS SHE WAS ACTUALLY GOING TO THIS LOCATION.
HB Grey Eyes: Umm. Yeah, How do you know that? LOL
Capodeciña: Exactly, how do I know that?
HB Grey Eyes: LOL well you tell me?
Capodeciña: I have you on Face Book and plus I'm Mystiq Meg. I didn't get you guys names?
HB Friend: (name) and HB Grey Eyes (name)
Capodeciña: (high fives them), Awesome.
HB Grey Eyes: (stares at me)
Capodeciña: (so I stare back)
HB Grey Eyes: LOL what? Is there something wrong with my face?
Capodeciña: Erm, not at the moment, should there be? LOL
HB Friend: LOL this guys straaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaange.
Capodeciña: (changes subject quickly) Is that what you guys do, get high or drunk and bounce from a party to get changed?
HB Friend: No, where just going home to get changed.
Capodeciña: Oh ok. Tell me 3 good qualities about you. What makes you so cool huh? (smiles)
HB Friend: (shuts her mouth)
Capodeciña: Hmmm (smirks)
HB Grey Eyes: (Searches on her phone for my name on Face Book). Is that you? Oh it's gone now
Capodeciña: (Looks at Friend and LOL's) What bus are you guys getting on?
THE BUS CAME AND THEY GOT ON THAT EXACT BUS, BUMMER!
HB Grey Eyes & Friend: (wave)

Not my best AGAIN. I just couldn't really take them serious or get really serious. Every set I approached today, had this really weird subtle drunk vibe to them. I guess that could be one of my sticking points (Getting to the SAME vibe as the set).

SO I SEE THE GIRL I FIRST APPROACHED IN THIS THREAD (WEEK 1 DAY 1) AND SHE STARTS LAUGHING AND GET'S ALL TOUCHY


Girl: Ha Ha Ha Ha, it's you, stranger
Capodeciña: Hey stranger, I guess we meet again, should I ssy fate? Nahhhhh
Girl: LOL, you fool. I was just looking and then all of sudden, you're there.
Capodeciña: Yep, back in the flesh baby, did you text me the other day, I can't remember? (puts arm around her)
Girl: Umm think I did. I'm so tired and drunk (TYPICAL!!!!)
Capodeciña: Why are you here AGAIN. same place, same spot?
Girl: Coming from my cousins, shes so drunk, she started falling over, so I just left.
Capodeciña: Hmmmm (looks away as shes talking)
Girl: Where you coming from? (smiles)
Capodeciña: Socccccccccccccccccer.
Girl: You're feet must be reaking, LOL
Capodeciña: You know what, they are. But Ive got you here to sort that out now don't I?
Girl: (lifts nose up and smiles), I'm sooo tired. Every guy is looking at me. Even the Taxi guys driving by.
Capodeciña: Well, you're a cute girl. You love the attention. Stop it. LOL
Girl: No I seriously DON'T! Look at the time.
Capodeciña: Yeah. Yeah. Yeah

THE BUS COMES AND WE GET ON

Capodeciña: I need to get off here, why don't you come chill-out with me for abit.
Girl: BLA BLA BLA, I can't, I wanna go to my bed.
Capodeciña: LOL, dude seriously, there IS a bed, there is a pillow, you know.
Girl: Bla Bla Bla
Capodeciña: Seriously, you're not coming?
Girl: I'm on my period
Capodeciña: Thats even better. I wasn't looking to get in you're pants tonight anyway, not TONIGHT (put emphasis on tonight)
Girl: Hmmm, not ever LOL
Capodeciña: Yeah well, we'll see dude. I'm very charming. Alright LATER!

It's strange that I saw her again, same place, same kinda time. Talk about Deja Vu! Now I have to bring something up about her saying she's "On her period" when there were no sexual inuendos mentioned. However, I reckon I can lay her anytime this following week. How I'll cautiously go about that? I don't know yet. Bring on the next!
 

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Week 1, Day 5

LOL it's been a fun day/night. I AMOGGED the hell out of some guys all by myself. I'm starting to get it moreso now than ever, I'm actually enjoying this sh1t like if I was playing on Xbox Call of Duty :rockon:

So I see a 2-set of girls looking reallllll skimpy, near enough see their nickers. Their dresses where that short. So I walked by, turned my neck and.

APPROACH #1:
Capodeciña: Ewww. What's that smell?
Girl1: LOOL, I don't know, why you looking at me for?
Capodeciña: Well you tell me baby? (sniff sniff)
Girl1: hahahaha
Capodeciña: Wait, where are you guys from, you're not from (location) are you?
Girl2: No. Where from (location)
Capodeciña: Oh, okay, what you doing around here?
Girl1: Shes going to see her boyfriend
Capodeciña: Who? Yeah anyway, I;ve got family in (location), it's soo boring up there
Girl1: I know, I know, we're always down here anyway
Capodeciña: Oh. Thats cool,

GROUP OF ABOUT 5 GUYS COME OVER AND START HITTING ON THEM IN THE MOST AFCISH WAY, SO I ASKED THEM.

Capodeciña: Why don't they like me? I've got NIMBUSSSS!!!
AMOG1: You've got to have game, man.
Capodeciña: (I'm thinking, Yeah if only you knew dude), Game? What do you mean?
AMOG1: You got to ask them what they like
Capodeciña: So if you're boyfriend sees a group of 6 guys around you, whats gonna happen?
Girl2: He won't talk, he'll just be p1ssed
Capodeciña: Oooooooooooooooooooooooo. Scary time, should I pack my things?
Girl2: LOL (smiles)
Capodeciña: Listen, you're cute and I'm gonna add you on FaceBook, type it in because I can't be bothered
Girl2: (types it in)
AMOG1: (Mouth drops).
Capodeciña: (put my arm around girl2), What do you say, we fvck off and lose these chumps and have some babies?
Girl2: LOL (slowly slides off my arm)
Capodeciña: Oh! oh, okay. Fine (smiles)
AMOG1: Okayy, hot boy!

THE GIRLS THEN WALK OFF TO THERE RIDE.
 

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APPROACH #2:

2-set coming back from a Club.

Capodeciña: Hey guys. Do you know where alot of people congregate on, like a Saturday night in (location)?
Girl1: Um. (club name), yeahhhh
Capodeciña: Oh. Just there, have you guys just come from there?
Girl1 & 2: Yeah
Capodeciña: Whats it like in there, I've never been there, always wanted to, it looks alright. I'm from (location) thats why.
Girl! (really surprised), you're from (location)!????
Capodeciña: Yeah dude LOL, why so surprised
Girl1: I really wanna go there!
Capodeciña: Yeah man, you guys should take a trip out there, soon as. So how much is that club? Is it worth it?
Girl1: It's $20
Capodeciña: Oh really?
Girl1: Yeah, theres a special guest appearance.
Capodeciña: I might just check it out, sorry, I didn't get you guys names? I'm Capodeciña (handshake).
Girl1 & 2: (Name)
Capodeciña: Awesome. Why aren't you're boyfriends escorting you in and out of the clubs what is this LOL?
Girl1: Oh mines working.
Girl2: Mines at home, heh.
Capodeciña: (looks away) Booooring, hey before I go, I'm totally gonna add you on FaceBook What is it?
Girl1: It's (facebook name), alright see you thereeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

GIRLS WALK OFF, AND GIRL2 SAYS: "OHHHH (IN A REALLY DISAPPOINTED WAY), HE WAS SO CUTE"

APPROACH #3:

Capodeciña: I'm not following you. I'm just going the same way, heh
Girl1: (smiles)
Capodeciña: Where are you guys coming from, wheres the party at?
Girl1: Oh, just a friends party
Capodeciña: Really, where was my invite?
Girl2: LOL
Capodeciña: (girl2) You got a cute smile, look you're teeth are like rice grains LOL.
Girl2: LMFAO LOL
Capodeciña: Wow, you got a huge laugh, (mimics her),Capodeciña (handshake) whats you guys names?
Girl1 & 2: (names)
Capodeciña: (Mimics name)

GIRL2'S PHONE RINGS, SO I WALK OFF A FEW YARDS UP THE STREET FROM THEM. THEY WHERE JOKING TO EACHOTHER, SO I JUST CAPITALIZED ON IT, SINCE I DIDN'T CONTINUE TALKING TO GIRL1,

Capodeciña: Wanna share the joke?
Girl2: Its a complicated joke (laughs)
Capodeciña: I bet you. Try me. Hit me
Girl2: Nothing (laughs)

SOME HOT HB.9 JUST ENTERS OUT OF NOWHERE, BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! SOMEHOW THEY ALL KNEW EACHOTHER

Capodeciña: Oh. You're cute.
HB9: (headphones on and can't hear me)
Capodeciña: Hello, green eyes?
HB9 (really silent hi)
Capodeciña: (turns back to her and starts talking to girl1 and 2 again)
Girl2: You're being really aggressive. LOL
Capodeciña: Whaaaaaat? Just a minute ago you where laughing at my joke, now I'm being agressive cos I'm stood next to you LOL?
Girl2: (um um um), well you're talking really really loud.
Capodeciña: (turns back to HB9), Green Eyes, do you think I'm being overly aggressive?
HB9: (smiles and looks away)
Capodeciña: See. She doesn't thinkso
HB9: (takes off headphones), can I just ask? ..........
Capodeciña: Sure, you got 1 minute?
HB9: LOL whats wrong with you?
Capodeciña: Nothing, whats wrong with you
HB9: (silence, puts headphones back on)

SO FROM HERE ON, I JUST LOST IT AND BLEW THE SETS RIGHT OUT THE OCEAN, THIS IS ANOTHER STICKING POINT I CAN HAVE, IS GOING TOO "OVERBOARD". THAT HB9 WAS HOT TOO, FVCK

So they all walked down this street together and I think the HB9 felt kinda weird seince she obviously gets hit on differently and was surprised that I didn't care about her beauty. This could just be me being delusional, but I'm sure I felt what she was feeling, and it felt like she was shocked.

I won't bother adding the other approaches. Too tired now and it's far too long to write it out word for word. I got another damn FaceBook Close and a Number Close from an UG that I AMOGGED. So that's 2 Facebook Closes and 4 approaches (excluding the Ug's number).
 

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I'm loving this. You're in England right? Whereabouts?

Damn you're ballsy, your interactions with those girls are pretty funny. You should capitalize on that though and like you said, not go overboard with the ****iness, maybe develop more rapport. Still really good stuff! Looking forward to reading more.
 

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CaptainJ said:
I'm loving this. You're in England right? Whereabouts?

Damn you're ballsy, your interactions with those girls are pretty funny. You should capitalize on that though and like you said, not go overboard with the ****iness, maybe develop more rapport. Still really good stuff! Looking forward to reading more.
Yep. Suffolk County, dude.

Cheers, I reckon I've gotten rid of my moderate Approach Anxiety. How I know? Well I seem to be opening targets more sporadically, we'll see how it goes when I see a group of 9s and 10s though. LOL
 

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Week 1, Day 6

So no approaches today, this is a belated Day 6 (yesterday) btw. I did however arrange a date for today with Week 1 Day 1 girl. So I should be seeing her in a few minutes actually, I need to clear my stuff in my living room, were going to keep this one quiet with a bottle of red wine, some more alcohol and a DVD. She's agreed. Whether she actually turns up? I should fvcking think so.

Other:
Had an interview mock test for a internet database company. I'm actually drilled with the questions they asked, they gave me some feedback and I know what I need to improve on, this could potentially give more credit to my cold approaching program. They said "I need to SELL MYSELF more in-depth".

Will keep you guys posted, hopefully by the nights done :up:. If she doesn't turn up and flakes, I'll just hit the gym.
 

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Week 1, Day 7

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUwrVISlc7s

FLAKED

Text said "I have to come and see you tommorow or something because I just looked at the time, by the time I get down to you it will be time to go"

So I texted back saying, "LOL but I saw you out way later than this .." And she responded with, "Yh but that was when my mom knew where I was" and I responded with "LOL OK"

Man, that song at the top really fits this. :rockon:
 

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Week 1 (Review)

So thats 10 approaches (2 weren't included) and 5 contact details for Week 1. Hell of a good start. I think it's definetly time to up the standard tempo for Week 2. I'm still deciding on what exercise I'm going to try out

Week 1 Highlight

I've just typed this up as Week 1 Day 1 First Approach Girl has left my house (Girl who flaked a day ago). It was kinda weird, because we did fvck but then again we didn't. I had stick and LMR for about 1 hour 30 minutes. I actually thought this girl was more forward when she started all the kino and playful fighting.

So, I done my regular "Come sit here" routine, after about asking her twice if she wants to sit next to me, she eventually did. About 30 minutes later, we're watching Kill Bill Vol.2, so her head is rested on my shoulder, I then put my hands down the back of her trousers, she doesn't budge? Great. I then pull her trousers down a little more, she still doesn't budge. I got to first base with her t1ts and took them out. I thought this'll be EASY.

Then it started getting weird, she started randomly laughing at Kill Bill and making up tactics to try and prolong sex. Eventually, I asked her to stand up and came up with some bullsh1t excuse to see her knickers ("I love knickers, I have a collection upstairs in my room, let me see yours"), So then she pulls them down and I pull my d1ck out.

After about 30 thrusts, she starts acting like she was being harrassed and said "NO, I need to go home" Then she purposely drops her hand beads and bends over right infront of me, what a ****tease. So then I just finished myself off and she put her stuff in her bag and left.

Doubt I'll be seeing her again. She sucked, what a weirdo. Will begin Week 2 updating for you guys. Peace!
 
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