Capodeciña
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 21, 2009
- Messages
- 167
- Reaction score
- 4
It became apparent to me recently that most of the lays I've had have occured mainly due to my online interactions with women. Having been in two long-term relationships with women off of the internet, I've longed to find more interactions and success out of the online fatwa. The internet and online game is my current crutch. I hate it. I feel cheated or feel as though I'm cheating. The reason I haven't done so for so long is? Because I'm actually too LAZY to do Cold Approaches.
Not only that, but I find excuses to delay it. I'll get rejected. It'll ruin my reputation. It'll ruin my reputation if I do get rejected. It's socially awkward. I'm not ready yet. I need to read more theories etc. I have very little approach anxiety, but very high outcome-dependency expectations.
So without further ado, I must nail this inner-demon of mine in the buttocks. Guys, you're more than welcome to chime in, give feedback. (I will not be including success in other areas such as online or social circle or girls I already know).
Destination checkpoints:
- Ability to approach a woman of my preference at any given time
- Eliminate my outcome-dependency
- Ability to follow through (conversation flowing) after opening
- Get double or eqally as much hotties than online
- Eliminate my fear of rejection or/and leaving sets too early
- Acquire more dates from cold approaching
- Acquire or/and get a lay by getting the number FIRST, before moving on to SDL
- Becoming flooded with interactions (dates) from cold approaches
I've done too much reading and very little practical. That time I've been holding off for too long, I'm treating this as a blood oath. It's just gotten serious. Time to punch in.
Not only that, but I find excuses to delay it. I'll get rejected. It'll ruin my reputation. It'll ruin my reputation if I do get rejected. It's socially awkward. I'm not ready yet. I need to read more theories etc. I have very little approach anxiety, but very high outcome-dependency expectations.
So without further ado, I must nail this inner-demon of mine in the buttocks. Guys, you're more than welcome to chime in, give feedback. (I will not be including success in other areas such as online or social circle or girls I already know).
Destination checkpoints:
- Ability to approach a woman of my preference at any given time
- Eliminate my outcome-dependency
- Ability to follow through (conversation flowing) after opening
- Get double or eqally as much hotties than online
- Eliminate my fear of rejection or/and leaving sets too early
- Acquire more dates from cold approaching
- Acquire or/and get a lay by getting the number FIRST, before moving on to SDL
- Becoming flooded with interactions (dates) from cold approaches
I've done too much reading and very little practical. That time I've been holding off for too long, I'm treating this as a blood oath. It's just gotten serious. Time to punch in.