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Thanks for the responses so far. The purpose of this thread was, however, not to discuss ways of overcoming LMR because, as kingsam rightly points out, there are loads and loads of articles on various PUA sites to that effect. The question was more: how do you avoid getting LMR altogther? - if...

Hi guys, just wondering if anyone could share any insights into LMR with me. I've noticed in the last few months that every single time I have a new girl back in my room with me and I make some sort of move in her, I will ALWAYS get some form of last minute resistance. Examples that I can...

I really don't think this is the case. To elaborate on the details I gave in the original post, she texts me a lot: these texts range in content from wishing me good luck with my exams (we're both at college), to begging me to go out clubbing, to telling me she misses me all the time. One night...

Yo people, I'm in quite a bizarre situation with this girl I've been gaming on and off for the last couple of weeks or so. For the sake of context, we've had one proper date where we made out quite a bit- so I'm pretty sure she's into me. She keeps initiating contact and basically asking me out...

A question for you guys: do you adjust your strategy for gaming women according to the intelligence level of the particular plate you're spinning? Do you play things differently (eg time until you sleep with them, time spent in comfort, types of mind games played etc etc) with a more intelligent...

In varying ways, depending on their own status as males. Most of my closest friends are AFCs, so they've just passively accepted the fact that I take the lead in conversations now, have a large say in where we go out etc etc. With the guys in the year below (I'm in college), I have an even...

Hi guys, Just an observation about the changing ways women react to my presence now that I've started putting some of the advice on this forum into practice. In the last fortnight alone, I've had comments on: 1) "a very different tone of voice for you" when I tried to be subtly sexual with a...

Freestyler, I agree with all the advice that has been given to you about making yourself the prize. In the short term, you should be telling yourself how amazing/ good-looking/ talented (in whatever sphere) you are on a day-to-day basis. I found writing a list of reasons "why I am awesome" on a...

Somewhere on this site I'm sure I've read the very sensible piece of advice that you can't expect to be amazing at anything in life (unless you're a complete natural, which if you read this site you almost certainly aren't at first) without practising and failing many many times first. The same...

For those of you who don't bother reading the longer thread, the last time this happened we made out for about 45mins in my room- only for her to LJBF me the next day (she has a 'bf' throughout all of this btw).

Just to be clear and for the sake of context, the last four times we have been wasted in each other's company, on two of them she made excuses to come to my room. Excuse: "I've lost my watch, do you know where it is...?"- she then grabs MY watch, jumps on my bed and squeals as I try and get it...

Update: my mate is completely back to normal with me after just one night of being slightly awkward- so I guess you guys were right about everything blowing over quickly. The HB who this thread is about is still doing everything to get my attention- it's pretty pathetic really. We're both going...

My thoughts entirely. This has danger written all over it.

Wow. If anyone was in doubt about how women are socially conditioned to think they should have all the power in a relationship, they should listen to this. Thought provoking stuff.

@ Kailex and PRMoon: You guys are so right, thanks for the advice. To think that a month and a bit ago I was an AFC who only rarely got pu$$y- and if I did, it was by chance, I was grateful for whatever I got, and my so-called "relationships" ended as soon as the girl got bored of me. Although...

Ok, so I've been following your guys' advice to be cool and indifferent and I have some new developments on this one. So, the HB in question comes to my room and begs me (as in down on her knees begs at one point, lol) to 1) tell me where "we" are at and 2) be her "friend" Not that I have...

Hey epic barrels, Pretty much exactly the same thing happened to me about a month ago, so I feel your pain! I'm glad for you that you've learned from the experience that you should never "show your hand" early on in a relationship, certainly not in the first couple of months. It should be up to...

Too right, unfortunately for her. She just indirectly (but unambiguously) asked me to hang out with her again, just the two of us. Errr.... no.

"I want to see you again" sounds very AFC to me. It's the girl who should be constantly thinking about seeing YOU again- you should have other things do to with your time, like spinning other plates and doing what you enjoy(no pun intended;)). "I want to see you again" is a frame that hands all...

Great post. I discovered this site about a month ago at a similar age to you- it's inspirational imagining where I might be 5 years down the line. You follow those dreams, man :)