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First of all, my apologies for not posting sooner, but I've been in bed with a bad cold these last few days. Anyway, gentlemen thank you for all your posts. I didn't expect this much excitement - this is going to be one hell of an event! I've read all your input and am in the process of...

Yup. Experienced DJs can opt to use a handicap to make things a little more difficult (and rewarding), but I'll explain that when I finish writing up the full plans. MotU

Oxide, Actually it doesn't matter to me if they see me or not, it's a non-issue. If they see me then I suppose they just assume that I'm a friendly guy, but I've never had a negative reaction from this. I too sometimes take people from one group to another, or merge groups, but I don't...

It's On! My fellow DJs, It looks like there is definitely interest in this challenge, and so it's on! Please give me a couple of days to write up all the details, but in a nutshell here's the mission. Go out and get rejected 10 times in one single day! Now, this is an...

Good afternoon gentlemen, I'm sure few posters here know me, since I originally came to this board about 8 years ago, and have not been posting for the last five years (I was busy moonlighting in a couple of LTRs.) At any rate, I suppose those that recognize my screen name know me as the...

Hi Oxide, it's been a while friend! To answer your question about a base camp, basically my style is to turn the whole club into my base camp. Here's how I do this? As soon as I go into a club, I immediately start talking to whoever I see first, don't matter if it's the hottest chick, the...

Hi NeedToImprove, It seems like you've hit one hell of wall... CONGRATULATIONS!!! Seriously, I mean it. By the tone of your message, you're almost at your breakpoint. This is EXACTLY where you want to be. No real change happens until absolutely, positively, under no condition, can you...

My fellow DJ, I almost always go to clubs and social events by myself. Just like you, I always have the most fun when I am by myself. I've done this hundreds of time, and honestly nobody cares. Most people are too busy wondering what other people are thinking of them, to bother thinking of...

Hi Impact! Yeah, it's been a while... been in a couple of LTRs over the last 5 years, so have been out of this game. Almost got married actually :) But I'm single now, and ready to have some major adventures again... glad to see there's still some old timers around! zekko, There is...

First of all, take a DEEP breath, and relax. Let's see what's going on... A few months ago, I started going after this girl. The attraction phase went relatively smoothly, thanks to all the principles I've learnt from this board and practice. Unfortunately, we broke off shortly after we...

Sure, all women are the same. All women eat, drink, and sleep. So there you have it! Seriously though, going beyond these most basic of all human similarities, it's unwise to make generalities about women. There are two reasons for this: 1) It's not accurate - no two women are the...

1. How long did the sex stay interesting? It differs, I've had relationships where the sex was interesting all the way though, while others where it got boring rather quickly, and others in between. It depends on many factors on your end, and on her end. 2. Was it true for you that when...

Change your perception Good evening, After reading your post, here are my suggestions and what I have noticed. If any of what I say to you registers, then great. Otherwise, take what I have to say with a grain of salt. First of all, honestly I don't think the girl was being that...

Hi squirrels, I'm curious, how long were you with her and to what degree had the relationship progressed? MotU

It gets better... My dearest squirrels, First and foremost, I enjoyed reading your eloquent post. Well written. Secondly, I don't envy what you are going through right now. Been there, done that, put it behind me, and never looked back. The feelings of loss, confusion, anger, hurt...

Don't worry about your reputation. Short Answer: Don't worry about your reputation. Long Answer: Don't worry about your reputation. Seriously... don't worry. The only people who will put you down are those who wish they had the guts to make the approach themselves, or girls who are pissed...

PART II Recently I got out of a year and a half relationship with someone who I loved tremendously. I would say that I followed the path that made me happy, but I faced more of my fears and insecurities following this path than I ever had in my life. And believe me, there were many time...

Good evening gentlemen, It's been quite a long time since I have posted to this web site, and it looks like most of the names I recognize have gone, which is to be expected after several years. Even though I have moved on in my life, and women are no where as important to me as they once...

Hi Reed, First of all, as a preface, I haven't been to this board for probably over a year. As such, this is the only thread of yours which I have read, though it seems there are plenty from what others have posted here. Me not fully knowing the situation is not necessarily a bad thing...

Good afternoon gentlemen, It's been a long time since I've been to this board, but upon coming here again I've noticed that very little has changed. In fact, what I've realized is that something that's taught here is only going to make you a weaker person if you follow it to the letter...