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We're on again tonight at 630. All she wants to do is "chill" in her apartment. My plan is to enjoy the sex, be safe, and NOT fall for her. I'm sure it will be interesting.

I'm not making any of this up. I swear. I agree it sounds surreal, especially so quickly on the heels of the 4-date underwhelming chick I had been pursuing so hard. I disagree that this is a form response though. I just think she is being flirty and a bit manipulative. I do agree that she...

she just emailed me I just got the following email from her as if she was contacting me on match.com for the first time: "hi mr hottie.. i'm intrigued by your profile.. i'd like to get to know you more.. would you like to go out with me on wednesday? i'm free and you might be in for a nice...

maybe you're right I do think this (Operation Thrilla in Manila) might be heading in the wrong direction. I did call her today (of course), and left a voicemail. She called me back about 2 hours later while I was taking my kids (i'm divorced with 50% custody) bowling. I told her I was busy...

I'm getting the urge to call her today, and fighting it hard, but I have the feeling I will give in. One of the two other girls I am having sex with is coming over tonight at 6pm and it should be fun. But my mind is on the very sensational sex I had with this one.

Vlad: After all this great advice here on this topic, I am definitely starting to see things your way. I will report back with how this shapes up.

I can't argue with everything you've laid out. It actually does all add up now. Because the sex is so good, I'm going to proceed, but will be extra careful watching the demands/requests for money, and definitely NOT stop seeing other girls, that might be better LTR material.

OK, but why is she bringing up all the questions about exclusivity? She very much wanted to ask and discuss this question. I tried hard to avoid it but it was clear she wasn't putting out until we had the discussion. if she's a first date fvcker, (which i recognize is quite likely) why should...

Here is how she flirted with me: 1. Made rather overt sexual references. First, when i spilled a very small amount of water on her by accident, she said "this early and you're making me wet already?" 2. She stared into my eyes, telling me how attractive I was, and then nestled up really...

Yellow flag I agree that statement (and a few other things I have not mentioned) are big yellow flags. This girl is very very smoking hot (especially for a 36 year old), but I have a feeling there's some sordid past history somewhere. She's from the Philippines. Came here 8 years ago and...

Well, I see those phrases were not ideal, but I will point out that I said both things before she decided to have sex last night. But how do I recover? What next?

Things have turned for the better, ever since I decided to cease contact with the girl that I had gone on 4 dates with and who apparently had lost interest. See post "Would it be a mistake?" On Thursday, a very very attractive 36 year old girl (seriously she is a 9 in the face and a 9.5 body)...

She called she called just now and I answered. It was polite, asking me about my business trip yesterday and a few mundane things. I then told her the (made up) reason for calling her and she definitely bought it. No neediness, no desperation. I then asked her when she was changing her...

Steviecruiser this is genius. I know just the backstory I will use. I'm going to say that I've been talking to a girl I knew from college who is also a nurse and has an interview at a hospital near here (where the girl I was chasing used to work). I will then say I was wondering if she would...

Thanks Steviecruiser. I do agree with you that a little supplications applied correctly is effective. But the problem here is that I slipped up and did some pretty classic AFC stuff. After the blowoff I asked her to talk for 5m and she ignored me until this morning. Now she texts me saying...

continuance Well, this morning at 7:45am she texts me "call you later. Got to get some sleep" I smiled at the message with a twinge of disgust. Over the last night, I've been moving on mentally by contacting other women and I'm now strong enough to not respond to this. In fact, while the...

What are you thinking jophil28? Similar things? But in the beginning she used to talk about "when you meet my brother..." etc. But having 4 dates with never picking her up at her house or her never picking up the phone at home, it's very suspicious. On the other hand (and the most likely...

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well, my female confidant thinks that she might be living with another guy. I know for sure she did in fact get divorced back in April.

believe me....I'm beating my self up many times over right now. But looking back, this one had all sorts of warning signs from the start, even when I wasn't feeling desperate or needy. For instance, her only wanting to communicate by email, her setting artificial deadlines to end dates by...