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Thanks SamSpade. Live and learn! I know exactly the errors I made now, and I think the insight you just wrote about a dinner date being exciting for a single mom to tell her friends about is EXACTLY right. I'm walking away from this one. But it still hurts. Bad. The two that I am having...

Thanks SamSpade. I know your advice was good but I officially F'd it up. I didn't keep my nerve and I blew the whole F'ing thing up today. I texted her today at 630 saying "Only 2 more sleepless nights! (she works nights and has gotten a new job - her night job ends this week). Can I take...

thanks for the compliment but it isnt how I feel. I really really want this girl #1 and it is driving me bonkers.

not true. I know a lot about her family and they are highly educated and successful people. I am 100% sure of this.

why was that weak? It was related to something we had been discussing. She didn't answer, probably because she was driving, and I didn't leave a message. I don't understand what you mean by saying I care too much. What did I do, besides the phone call (which she doesn't even know the...

How strange I just got back from the dinner. How odd. She greeted me with a hug, and we had a great 2 hour conversation over dinner (that she paid for), with lots of eye contact and smiles at each other. Then she had to go home for an hour nap (she works the midnight shift). I walked her...

I really am having sex with 2 other girls. I didn't make that up.

I am going on a 4th date tonight. She is taking me out to dinner for my birthday. 1st date was fun, but no kissing. Second date was dinner and some pretty good kissing. Third date was dinner and movie followed by kissing. All of the kissing was in semi-public places. She hardly ever...

The equation just changed. This is not a fantasy. It really happened. Today. I suggested the tuesday afternoon time with me. She said no, because she works nights and needs her sleep. She said she can only do dinner. I accepted. (I actually do think that need for sleep is a legitimate...

So now she texted me yesterday and wants to take me out for my birthday this coming week Well, here is the situation: She is in the last few weeks of her job working nights. She is working S, M, T, W, Th nights this week. She works from 10:45pm to around 7:45pm. So, when she texted me about...

No, where do I find those?

What do you think about this? Next time (likely tomorrow) that she emails me and says what a great time she had with me and wants to see me again, etc., I just say "OK" Nothing more. And then go screw this other girl

of course i have oneitis It is very obvious to me. I have fallen into the trap. I am 95% sure that if I can get her alone we will have sex. But she is avoiding it and only limiting our interactions to once a week. Why would she keep leading me on like this? Why is she playing this...

i will admit that i sometimes look at her in a "longing" way, but i have tried very hard to NOT say anything needy or clingy. I really just want some clarity / resolution. I almost asked her tonight "what are you thinking about us?" But held back with all my power and did NOT ask it.

frustrating How can I force the issue by telling her "I want to see you more - in fact, tonight (tomorrow - Saturday)"

oneitis I have a 3rd date tomorrow night with a girl that I am very very sure I can screw. 99% chance if I want to that I can do it. Even though it doesn't feel like it at the moment, I am sure that would take my mind off this one for awhile. But I really do like this girl. I am willing...

What do you mean by pull back a little? Here is what will happen: She will send me an email tomorrow saying that she had "such a great time" and wants to see me again in 7 days. I am thinking of replying with only "OK" and seeing what happens. She doesnt even text me or call during the week...

Thanks for the reply man. I'm really hurting tonight. Just feel like sh*t It's been 2 weeks ago today that we went on our first date. We are both divorced and both have children. She 1, me more than 1. This makes it tough to coordinate schedules, find a private place, etc. Although, if she...

Went to dinner and a movie for our third date. I picked her up from her hair appointment and she looked smoking hot. Then in the car, it was nice, good eye contact, smiles, etc. Then dinner, where we had good conversation. I held her hand on the way to the show. Then during the movie, for the...

Extremely frustrating - what the hell is going on here? Went to dinner and a movie. I picked her up from her hair appointment and she looked smoking hot. Then in the car, it was nice, good eye contact, smiles, etc. Then dinner, where we had good conversation. I held her hand on the way to the...