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I was reading your post and thinking "Now, here's a guy who gets it." Age is just a number. Without sounding too granola, it's all about your energy. Women love love love good energy. I always keep my wedding ring on, but I also have a claddagh ring on that a girl I was recently seeing gave...

I was going to respond to your post when I first saw it, but that first sentence up there really made me think and I had to bounce it around in my head for a little while first. I never really considered it, but there is some merit to what you say. I've been with my wife for 10 years, married 5...

Absolutely correct, and my point exactly. Men need to understand that by doing everything to keep her happy, they end up achieving the the opposite effect. My best friend of many years has this exact problem, and I've seen it happen with him time and time again. Before he's dating a girl, he...

I have 3 sisters, 2 mothers, 12 of my peer-aged cousins are female, and because I was raised by my stepmother, during the summer it would be non-stop women coming and going with visits all over the place. I definitely know what it's like to present an unpopular case to a bunch of like-minded...

There's a guy where I work that's about your height. He's a very soft-spoken, walk-all-over-me type that also has these issues because he's about the same height as you. After talking to him about it, I've taken under my wing to help him with some of these problems. I'll tell you what I told...

Interceptor, I see what you're saying, and even agree - up to a point. In my experience, a woman will want you 100%, many times to the detriment to everything else in your life. At that point, it gets to be too much of a good thing, and the relationship sours. What Heretolearn was asking is a...

Sorry for cutting up your post, but I don't know how to meet guys that are good with women because I've never really tried...they just seem to be around. How do you meet any guy and end up becoming friends with them? However, I had to laugh when I read these last sentences. One of the biggest...

Personally, I liked the movie "Alfie". Granted, he was a caricature with zero boundaries, but it's a great movie for a study in body language.

It's a bit hard to say without more information. For instance, was this guy friends with the other girl's new boyfriend before she started going out with him? If so, how long? If they were friends before they started going out, then I'd say communication would be the key. Your friend needs to...

I don't understand why people are telling Brian to get his PhD first. From the Marines website: They don't have ages on the website for officer training, but what I'm reading seems to indicate the age restrictions are the same. I don't know if Brian wants to do that, but all he needs is at...

I can't speak to the conditioning you get in the African culture because I'm an American, but I think I would explode if I didn't get to speak my mind on something like this. When I'm challenging a woman on a double standard or a ridiculous feminist ideal or what have you, I speak from the heart...

QFT. Most of the guys I talk to, as they get closer to that magical age of 30, start to wonder if they're "too old" for this or that. I went through it myself. It seems to be an in-born mental wall that most guys seem to have - I'd even go so far as to say it's the male version of feeling...

Do you run this every year? I just found out about it because I just joined, but I definitely want to do this next year.

Marlborough, MA here, too. My wife doesn't feel like being my wingman anymore, and I've been cooped up too long....