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For those interested - a few days ago, on her Facebook, she listed herself as in a relationship. So obviously I will not pursue like a chump after a girl who is advertising her unavailability. It's lame that she couldn't have just told me that before.

Too true. Dating a girl like this would probably be near impossible.

I appreciate your comment as well as all of the others in this thread. What makes this situation particularly difficult for me is how a) we had a lot of unique interests in common (fav. author, movies, just read the same book, both lived in Spain) & b) how she was the one eager to meet in...

Thank you for the detailed reply. What I'm taking away from it is: - Be more decisive, set the time and location beforehand - Don't leave a VM - Don't Facebook - Don't Text I have to ask a few more questions though/add a few more comments: Re: Set the location/time beforehand The...

Internet Dating is not stupid... but I can understand why you'd think so. She sent the last message on the online dating site, which was after I had left a voicemail. Since then I have sent her a message that day on facebook, and today via cell text. So I wouldn't say I've been 'raping...

Here's the sitch: - Found a cutie online, exchanged several messages. At one point I mention a book I just read, which was the book she just bought, and she offers up the idea of meeting up on Thursday. - I agree to meet up, tell her I'll call her that afternoon. - She doesn't pick up. I...

You will *never* feel complete. That's the point. Happiness doesn't come from more ***** or more money. It comes from within. Be happy with what you DO have, which sounds like a lot. If the only thing stopping you from being happy with what you DO have is your inability to talk to strange...

Squirrels, thank you for *owning* me in that reply. Everything you said was deserved. I absolutely agree with all of you saying or thinking that facebook stalking is creepy. The reason I did it was because nothing was going to happen if I didn't, and all I risk by doing it is coming off creepy...

"on To The Next One"

Here's the result thus far, she seems kind of like a flake...You guys have any opinion on what goes on in here so far? I'm not going to ask her to meet up after this interaction, there is no attraction coming from her end, just curt, kind of weird answers. Jenny, I don't know you personally...

Thanks for the reply DJNiceGuy, but unfortunately a) I didn't catch up with her (we never really hung out in High School or after High School, but since everyone was from the same school at the bar, faces are familiar)

There was a high-school reunion of sorts last night. People from every year were in this crowded bar in my hometown. I got pretty sauced, was having a jovial time saying hello to lots of old friends that I hadn't seen in years. Well anyway, there were 1 or 2 younger girls who graduated a...

She's on the pill and I always pull out and decorate her stomach. :P Sinistar, thanks for an awesome response. I need to correct a few points. - My immediate response wasn't delay. I blurted out "No, no I haven't." Then when she backpedaled and talked about condoms, I asked "What about...

Re: Condoms - "Why are you not using condoms with someone you're not exclusive with?" Right now she is the only girl I'm having sex with. I don't know if it makes it any better, but if I were to have sex with anybody else right now, it would be with a condom. Re: Reflecting on Guilt I...

Good afternoon guys, I have been dating the same girl casually for about 4 months. We would meet once a week, and then for the last 2 months or so, we'd meet about twice per week. We get along alright, we mainly have sex and sometimes go out for a movie, a walk in the park, etc. As much...

My results are up and down. Sometimes this stuff comes okay to me, and other times it's as if I have no idea of what I'm doing. This past weekend I'm at a bar with some friends, enjoying myself, and a good looking girl hits eye contact with me. We hold for a couple of seconds, I think we...

Yeah, that sounds like a good one, the more playful and 'off-the-wall' you can be, the better. But in my case, there are times like last night when I am not feeling playful...perhaps I shouldn't have gone out, but I'm hopeful there can be success even when you're feeling low energy or shy.

Okay. I need default openers because I am totally locking up in bars, in the subway, on the street, when I see a girl I'm interested in. I will get eye contact, but unfortunately usually be in my head & not feeling playful. That's why I need some tips or canned openers that don't suck. I...

I should also add in the issue with isolation - the venue was a small area in front of the bar, the lights had been turned on, and the group was a bunch of co-workers. I know this shouldn't make a huge difference, and it sounds like I'm just making excuses - but I feel things would have been...

Hi all, I've come to the harsh realization that when I go out, I am all fun/"woo" and no intent. Last night I was at a bar and was dancing with the off-duty waitresses which was a lot of fun, but in the end left with nothing. No #s, nada. I need quick help. Any words of advice or kicks in...