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Thanks interceptor, great reply. I think i put too much value on the girl and the outcome instead of relaxing and enjoying talking to whomever was there. Yes I think i lacked confidence when i saw all the girls, I shouldn't have paid attention to that but i think It shocked me I was the only...

Hi guys, how u doing?. Well tonight it wasn't good for me. (i live in spain). I went to my sister's friend farewell because she is moving, and of course I knew they were going to be girls so I appeared there. Now here is the thing. My sister told me there were a couple, her friend and some...

Thanks a lot guys, this has encouraged me a lot, i know it is hard but i can feel that if i keep on doing it, things will get smoother in a mid-term period. I dont know what the difference between US and Spain is. BUt maybe that can affect too. i'll just keep trying at my best. I have heard that...

damn....well i thought madrid was a little bit easier....but this is hitting my confidence level like hell, even though i know it shouldn't .....

i know man, I dont believe it's me, i consider myself a great catch, sometimes i lack confidence and that is what i think is affecting, S****

hey guys, i am from venezuela but moved to madrid, since i arrived here with no friends I have been wanting somebody, i have done almost everything in my reach, i went to french classes, dance classes, apart from my master's classes, go out with the few friends i have made, just to see if i...

yea I know, but i am asking since i have never tried this, I mean it's not that i am going to be hher friend obviously. But giving her confidence. I dont know it clicked me just some time ago, reading a tip that said something about this. Anyone remember if it was here? thankss

OK I am in Spain, so I dont know how it works in the US. I have one question. Do you guys think it is better to "befriend" the girl, i mean talk to her several times before asking out, I think that gives them a little confidence about you, otherwise, IF only IF you want a decent girl she'd think...

Z MAN. YEs I think that i am focusing way to much on them, dont know why, but I am also studying, investing and working out, going out with friends,batteling my mind with damaging thoughts so i dont know why I focus so much on getting a date when I am always doing something, maybe It can be...

hey guys, i am not here to post that i feel like a failure or anything, BUT i have been through some ****, I was rejected twice by two girls that i loved at college ( yes very AFC behavior)then a managed to get a 9.5 HB who left me for another guy (i almost failed the semester because of her i...

IMO you are right, i go through negative thoughts all the time, and yes teh only way to change is to NOT GIVE A **** about anything, I was very perfectionist and i still am, but i working through it because i created that mentality and once your mind forms a belief it is very difficult to change...

I see...yes it depends in the girl i am in MAdrid, so I dont know how it is over the US, i have also noticed that the girls from universities are the most difficult they seem to get scared or maybe they are just shy well, thanks guys

Hey guys I was in the metro today and saw a hot babe. about 9.5. she was with another guy, then the guy left at another station and it gave me about 3 stations to talk to her, note that just the first trip from the station the guy left to the next was the only one where i could have opened her...

thanks guys....

Hey guys, i post last week about a girl i met. she cancelled me the date we had for sunday, an offer for today saturday. I sent her a message today and she said she had other plans for today (what a crap). asking me if i COuld go out tomorrow at 7. Dont know wether to say yes or not. she...

Exactly Phat Rabit, that's the problem. I see them sometimes So I just dont know whether to go to say hi or not, if they were alone I'd do it but in a group of 3 is more difficult, so i'm stuck there. It scares me. I asked their email because i didnt have the balls to go for the phone that day...

hey guys, a month ago i approached two girls and got the email adresses I couldnt ask for the phone since I thought i would look akward to ask two phone numbers so i went for the email. I sent an email to the girl I liked and added her to the MSN, i have opened a chat with her about 3 times and...

ok Ok i see, I made some mistakes, I didnt offer saturday she did, she text saying "Sorry i wont make it tonight, but if you want we can meet on saturday(next week) and go out" that was the sentence 3 that i wrote above. I didnt tell her to do anything on saturday. after the second message...

Ok ok, I see i think i should wait till friday or saturday to see if i get in call from her otherwise, i will call saturday morning and she if she is up for that night, otherwise, i think it is the end since she is not showing back any good signs, unless she proposes somthing else thanks guys

Yes, i approached her in the metro,open her, got the number, call her,then she said i was really nice(on the text message), and that the phone call surprised her.