I just avoid the topic for as long as possible.
When it cant be avoided just tell them your not after anything serious, at this point they can take it or leave it, but if you give them mindblowing sex, they'll keep coming back. Some of them will see it as a challenge to 'convert you'.
Nothing wrong with them thinking your gay, it allows you to slip under the radar for a surprise later!
One of the best players i know comes across as gay, when we're out girls often ask me 'is he gay?'. I just tell them no, but they usually find out soon enough.
When i was younger and didnt know what i was doing, i'd have a limit of 2 months.
Now, 2nd date or approx 6-8 hours(of time together, can be spaced out over days/weeks).
I've found quite a few girls with boyfriends are willing to cheat and are quite easy to pick up.
I'm still undecided as to why this is. Either:
A) They are easier because i dont care if i fail
or
B) Girls are just as slutty as i think they are
By working other girls in front of your 'friend' shows you have value.
It may work in turning her, by creating jealousy, but I wouldn't give her the chance. It feels good to tell her 'you just want to be friends'.
"Hi how are you/Hi, having a good night" does NOT get you blown out.
People seem to forget the importance of body language and high energy level.
What you say is only 1 part of the equation.
People throughout history have gotten laid without asking girls about their friend who has a jealous...
haha well at least it was the other way round for once.
Since you stood her up, have you heard from her? I'm assuming not.
As for rescheduling, i guess it depends on how high her interest levei in you is. The most you can do is apologize and try reschedule.
Failing that, move on.
I find his method has its uses, but Mystery is a showman at heart, and basically turns the process of picking up a chick into a show.
You can fast forward the process by just being more direct. Never underestimate the power of suggestion!
At least your being a little bit more positive and trying to take a step in the right direction.
What you need, is a real genuine, indirect, canned opener. It will at least take away the thinking of what to say aspect of the approach.
You could also just APPROACH. It doesn't matter how many openers you've memorized or how many journals you've read.
THERE IS NO MAGIC FORMULA.
You have to approach, and you will crash and burn a few times, GET USED TO IT. ENJOY IT.
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