well for me, my first real relationship / longterm.. in which i just got out of .. it took me about 5 months.. the girl was stuck on waiting for marriage, she had a long term before me and the guy wanted to bang her so bad and kept using love as a manipulation to have sex with him but she never did. i never mentioned sex. i really didnt want it i was happy enough. but we ended up doin it after 5 months... and like 80 times since.. never once used a condem. i truely believe shes prolly the only girl i can get away doin that with. im sure any other girl would get pregnant the first fck...