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Thanks Thomas. I'm actually not hanging on this girl...she's just the most recent. Essentially everything has happened within the past 4-5 days. My plan was to try to slowly work my way up, while DEFINITELY pursuing other things. A lot of her behavior actually was a big turn off, though. I...

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I can't think of a title for this...just read please. :yes: This week I made a move on a girl that had a crush on me for the entire year. She had just broken up with her boyfriend, so I figured this was a decent time to start something casual. Things started, but then she left abruptly. I...

I made a thread a while ago about going out alone. I've found a likely alternative with a group of "buddies" (a group of mostly acquantices). One is a handsome guy from what I can tell and is pretty cool, though some of the other guys in the group are rather...lame, for lack of a better word...

Cool, well...it's only 9 now, I'll be heading out in a few hours. Any suggestions, stories, tips? When I go out with friends I use them as a social cushion, I suppose. We all know how that works though...how does one go about their business without that type of cushion?

I had a recent post-hook up rejection (ie. an hour ago) that's pissed me off. I'd like to drink a beer or two, go out to a bar or something, and try to pick up a girl. I'm not really full-on depressed...the emotions are just dull (dulled emotions from constant shallow interactions has become...

Heh, thanks for the non-retarded reply. But like...can you re-read it and see if you can answer my question. I'm not really asking if I have to be an *******, I'm saying that like...that's already my kinda personality, so what do I need to do to make it work for me?

Do you speak English?

It seems that being an a-hole, paired with some attractiveness, is the way to go as far as getting girls. However, I can't really seem to get it to work that great for me. Note, I'm not an a-hole in the sense that no one likes me...I in fact have quite a bit of friends. However, I mean...it...

Well, the night has passed, and boy did it turn out crap. It started off excellently, and if you asked me then whether I thought I'd hook up with her, I'd have probably said yes. However, as the alcohol wore off, she became more cold and more of a *****. After dinner, it pretty much just...

So, my date for prom is a junior. She recently got a boyfriend (ironically only a couple weeks before I asked her :-( ), but he lives 2 hours out of town. In fact, I don't believe they've even seen each other for like 4 weeks. He's not really an issue aside from that she feels she's obligated...

Okay, so day 1...I've got a better idea of the 'videogame' viewpoint. It seems like you have to dehumanize people you aren't interacting with. It sounds bad, but I simply mean thinking of them as an actual...character, and not as a person with opinions. In other words, imagine that you're...

I'm breaking down my progression from AFC to DJ in a few phases. 1) No longer caring. I'll do this as long as it takes, as it's one of the more important aspects. This encompasses the mindset that it's all just kind of a game, and that you'll mess up, but it's as easy as trying again...

I'm thinking that instead of trying to read a whole lot of **** and incorporate it all at once, I need to do it progressively, and focus most of my attention on the individual skills, as I'm learning them. Like, so I think I'll try to go out more frequently at night (parties), and each time...

Ah, what's the reasoning behind a short date (regardless of attraction)?

Via myspace, a friend of one of my friends added me, we've talked a bit on AIM, soon on the phone, and we'll be going out to meet up soon. Her pictures are those annoying type where you can't really get a good, normal view. However, she does appear to at least be decent looking. And...judging...

Do you think such a thing could be a benefit? Say you walk into a club or a party with the 'owning the place' attitude. Your not isolating yourself...you know people there, you're not just some random jerk loner with a bad atittude. However, you do make yourself hard to approach (but you are...

DAY 1 Well, today was Day 1. I did go out to a few stores earlier, but my focus wasn't females. I mainly was trying to get into the mindset. Not particularly difficult...(if I didn't say this in the first post, I have strong narcissistic, even sociopathic tendencies to begin with) I...

Haha, awesome. Some good replies after some of those initial ones. So...to the guy whose friend tried it...basically he came off as too condescending? "sh1t grin" Well, I didn't really envision Bateman as being a blatantly condescending guy to everyone. To the prostitutes, those who he...

I am attractive (probably in better shape that you, and most people you know, and not perfect facial features, but attractive nonetheless), though no, I'm not a rich powerful white guy. The various psychotic things he says in the movie, people don't notice. It's a satire detailing the vanity...