Making the "being an *******" thing work

[LeMac]

It seems that being an a-hole, paired with some attractiveness, is the way to go as far as getting girls. However, I can't really seem to get it to work that great for me.

Note, I'm not an a-hole in the sense that no one likes me...I in fact have quite a bit of friends. However, I mean...it seems that it's the men that have perfected the art of "a-holeishness" that can get a chick without much difficulty. Tucker Max comes to mind.

Like, could someone break down the aspects of being an a-hole that equate to being good with females?

 

[Royal Elite]

an ahole in america iz a man somewhere elze..

bazically if U care about how 'U' think and how "u" feel u will be labeled an azz hole..but bottom line..women came from uz and 4 uz..even ur own mother cared more about ur feelingz then she expected u 2 care about her feelingz...thuz da term 'mammaz boy'....
YHWH Blezz
royal elite
da kingz in da building!

 

[LeMac]

bazically if U care about how 'U' think and how "u" feel u will be labeled an azz hole..but bottom line..women came from uz and 4 uz..even ur own mother cared more about ur feelingz then she expected u 2 care about her feelingz...thuz da term 'mammaz boy'....
YHWH Blezz
royal elite
da kingz in da building!

Do you speak English?

 

[djbr]

Hey LeMac! I confess, I was guilty of this too... I spent a good amount of my time on this forum with this attitude.

But I discovered that you have to be consistent for anything to work: you have to practice a LOT!

Take something, anything, and run. Try it a lot. If it REALLY doesnt work for you, come back here and take another thing. Rinse and repeat.

As I read somewhere:

"It doesnt matter which road you are following. You will not get anywhere if you don't keep walking!"

 

[Royal Elite]

Do you speak English?

yez...but i speak and write it how i feel..i have grown pazt following da rulez of otherz..i dont follow any human rulez unlezz i chooze 2..i dont like being trainned...

 

[LeMac]

Hey LeMac! I confess, I was guilty of this too... I spent a good amount of my time on this forum with this attitude.

But I discovered that you have to be consistent for anything to work: you have to practice a LOT!

Take something, anything, and run. Try it a lot. If it REALLY doesnt work for you, come back here and take another thing. Rinse and repeat.

As I read somewhere:

"It doesnt matter which road you are following. You will not get anywhere if you don't keep walking!"

Heh, thanks for the non-retarded reply. But like...can you re-read it and see if you can answer my question. I'm not really asking if I have to be an *******, I'm saying that like...that's already my kinda personality, so what do I need to do to make it work for me?

 

[The Truth]

Being an ass hole to get women is just as bad as buying flowers and kissing women's asses. Either way you are supplicating to them and trying to be what (you think) they want.

 

[n00bPimp]

The part of an a-hole girls like is that they are bold and dont give a sh1t about most things. And they say whatever they want even if it makes u feel like ****. For example if you're on date and the girl wants u to do something a real a-hole would either say "no" or my favorite: "ok but you have to give me a BJ in return".

 

[Jariel]

Being an ass hole to get women is just as bad as buying flowers and kissing women's asses. Either way you are supplicating to them and trying to be what (you think) they want.

Right on the money!

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Of course there are some total b!tches that have "manipulating men" downright to a frikkin art,every word they say is a ****-test,being an a-hole to these type of girls gets the best results.

 

[Nighthawk]

Being an ass hole to get women is just as bad as buying flowers and kissing women's asses. Either way you are supplicating to them and trying to be what (you think) they want.

Except one works and one doesn't. Ass hole isn't the right word anyway, who wants an ass hole around? Aim for 'challenge.'

 

[d9930380]

I think someone said it before. It's not being an ******* girls find attractive, it's just not being a wuss.

BTW - I think this also applies to relationships in general, people don't respect needy, NICE guys. They're no fun as everything is TOO serious and they can't tell the difference when it's JUST a joke and not something meant to hurt. Part of creating a bond with someone is being able to rib them harmlessly, it can actually make someone feel more accepted.