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    The road to oneitis

    I hear what you're saying about loosing the fear of rejection. I've been working on that. Problem was, I wasn't mentally ready for what happens when you're successful. To help, I'm working on getting more plates spinning so I won't have all my eggs in one basket. To that end, last night...
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    The road to oneitis

    Solid advice as always guys. Thanks. I've got this new knowlege in my head but it hasn't made it to my heart and soul yet. I'm hoping with practice it will become more reflexive instead of having to constantly be on guard against the inner AFC. After my post, I went back to bed and slept...
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    The road to oneitis

    So I'm sitting here at 3:30AM typing instead of sleeping. Last Saturday I took a big step toward joinging the DJ Brotherhood by landing a hot little HB8.5 at a wedding reception. A little CF, attention mixed with ignoring her, even had her bringing me drinks from the bar. Lots of guys hitting...
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    Funniest or most embarassing moment with a new girlfriend

    When I was in the Marines I came home for Xmas and went to dinner at a former gf's house. We hung until everyone headed to bed wanting to fool around a bit. While we're killing fime in the family room I saw a basket of chestnuts and thought "chestnuts roasting on an open fire" that would be...
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    Kinky Sex

    Don't forget guys, women are verbal creatures. Try to spank her and you don't know what you'll get but it probably won't be sex. But spend half an hour telling her how your going to spank her and she'll be jumping your bones. Think of the old radio shows. They painted the scene with words...
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    Introverted & Submissive Female

    It's not clear that this girl is submissive. She may just be shy or insecure. I would recommend a couple of quick test that might give you a clue. First, try giving her a direct order. My favorite is to change the way she's wearing her hair. You can do this anywhere. If she's wearing it...
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    Foreign Girls

    You're in her life and at the end of her leash. What next? "If you see so-and-so again, I'll kill myself." She wasn't trying to hurt herself when she cut her wrist, she was trying to hurt you. If you care about her, get her some help and cut off any contact.
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    wow, revelation on the role b*tches play in our lives

    I grew up watching my dad try to keep Mom happy. I spent years trying to keep my (now ex-) wife happy until she dumped me. Why would a woman dump a guy who's totally devoted, loving, and all that crap that women say they want? Because I was BORING! It's all in the DJ Bible and I for one...
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    Is your ex really that great?

    I haven't had any contact with my ex-wife for ten years. Saw a recent picture of her last summer while visiting my former mother-in-law and thought "Man, what happened to her?" Apparently the pedestal I had her on all went to her ass. :D
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    Banging my head....

    Hey man, I feel for you. I'm only a noob DJ but definately a grand master at heartbreak. Here's some advice (FWIW) from my experience: Take responsibility for your part of the breakup. She must have been a great gal for you to commit but she wasn't perfect. You weren't perfect either...
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