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It plays a huge role. If there is/was no father figure she is always going to be seeking out the approval of the men in her life and constantly trying to gain new male figures in her life. Fear of adandonment by the main male figure (i.e. boyfriend/husband) comes into play if her dad split on...

This girl is just too nice and will be everybody's friend, which gets her into trouble as I am finding out. I definitely need to put a stop to it and let her know that it won't be tolerated. She's never been in a 'real relationship/LTR' before and is not totally sure of what to do or not to...

My gf was hanging out with a friend of hers and this friends FB (a guy). Anyways, I asked her if she got hit on by anybody at the bar (jokingly) and she says that her friends FB was hitting on her but she told him that she had a boyfriend and wasn't interested. She gets a text last night and...

I definitely agree. And it probably is more about the lack of a father figure than just the divorce. Some marriages just end but the father was always, and continues to be, there. Without the father figure they are constantly seeking the approval and acceptance of men. I speak from...

You're only anticipating a call/email, but it hasn't happened yet. As someone else mentioned you must secretly be hoping for it to happen. Who cares, move on. This same exact thing just happened to me this year. The ex and I finally decided to end things for good after 9 years of an on...

I know one of the main rules/requirements of being a DJ is to have the attitude that there is no other guy and that you are the only guy that a chick wants to be with, and any other guy is nothing compared to you. However, the situation is bound to come up every once in a while. This one...

It seems like unless some chick psychologically re-trains her brain to identify and shoot down any kind of DJ 'moves' then there is nothing to worry about. If you're trying some canned pickup lines or something someone else said then you're most likely going to be labeled a phony anyway and be...

Even though it is just a tv show there are a few good DJ vs. AFC observations that are made. Jerry mentions to George about putting chicks on a pedestal in one episode and also I think there's something mentioned by Elaine about some guy she digs who is so mysterious and how it drives her nuts...

I'm a newbie and definitely getting myself on the RAFC road. I feel that I'm already starting to 'get it'. Looking back on my most recent AFC short circuit I can see the mistakes that I made, and the stupid things I did. There's no need to make myself available 24/7 to be some chick's chump...

Thanks for the advice. All good points and well taken. A kick in the head is exactly what I needed.

I'm new here so excuse any stupidity. I met this chick on match, everything was going good. We were having good conversation and things were clicking. After about a week and a half of phone talk we met up for some drinks and ended up staying out half the night. Got a kiss and everything...