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this sounds like a good plan. try also to eat *more often. You will get better results if you eat like 5-6 small meals a day (e.g. a salad or tuna sandwich+fruit) rather than 2-3 larger ones. Don't wait until you get super hungry and don't snack too much. just eat something reasonable...

You are seeing what many of us have discovered the hard way -- that looks really don't matter all that much. sure you'll hear all the time about girls who think you're "really hot" but that doesn't necessarily (i.e. almost never does) convert into RESULTS. It is your interactions with women...

i agree with the other guys above.. generally problems with that sort of thing are related to your nervousness or discomfort and aren't a big deal. you might also consider your diet/exercise/stress level. last year i had occasional sexual problems during a period of high stress/no...

yes usually those girls are so good at touching because they've done it many times before to many guys. they do it because they know it GETS ATTENTION. and if they have your attention, and have created ANTICIPATION, then they have a tool with which to manipulate you. the natural question is...

That's good when you're 15. dice: best to just be honest with the girl and whoever asks you about it. just don't use the words "fvck" or "bang" or any reference to sex. I usually just say: "She's not my girlfriend, but we're hanging out and getting to know each other" Do it in a...

thats a nice offer there otter -- swedish girls have quite a reputation over here :yes: fellas if we're smart we'll take him up on it!

Compliments are fine...in moderation. I do know people who give out compliments very liberally and it DOES seem insincere and slippery sometimes. better to just show a genuine interest in people, and remember things about them...what's better than a compliment? Something like this: "Hey...

absolutely not. I'm in my late twenties and lots of guys my age are losing their hair. It doesn't affect my game or that of anyone else i know. In fact, the most successful dj i ever met was 30 and bald. if you don't think of it as a weakness then it won't be. Use it to your...

man, shock the truth is you can't trust HER. she is behaving in a way that makes you uncomfortable, and she knows it -- for what? purely for her own selfish motives [probably because "Joe" is offering her drugs] THERE IS something she could do. She could stop seeing him. period. she's...

this is the fvcking stupidest thing i have ever seen. man, i think it's pretty clear what she's saying...she wants to keep fvcking you and getting validation while looking for another guy. when she finds one, she will dump you in a millisecond, with ABSOLUTELY NO REMORSE. what are you waiting...

Leave you because you have too much confidence? I don't think so. Leave you because she thinks you're a player who's not really interested in her and just wants to play stupid mind games with her? possibly. one of the downsides of using some of these techniques before it's totally...

when it comes to dealing with a woman you'd like to keep around a little longer, i think fash has it mostly right. i go as far as saying something like "don't apologize -- just don't do it again." A firm, but calmly delivered statement of that nature lets her know that yr keeping tabs on her...

flexion has a point. you should consider your own motivations...if you're thinking of making this into something other than a friendship, you shouldn't. and you should get the hell out.

monster squad. you're supposed to be her FRIEND. she's going through a difficult period in her life...so she's probably going to be a little less attentive to you -- and probably needs support from you. The "next!" or "get out now!" bs advice you'll get here doesn't apply. Would you "next"...

do you think the guys who are out there curing cancer and building skyscrapers and sending rockets into space give a sh!t how many girls they fvck? the answer is that some of us have better things to do than b!tch and moan like your friend. men who strive for greatness and change the world...

right on cactus. i'm actually the same way, which is why i was able to pick up that nuance in your post. i find it's good to remind myself that there are REALLY only two variables that i can control/care about in any relationship. the first is my own values, and the second is the way i view...

date other women. ignore this girl for a while and let her think about it. maybe she'll come around, but maybe you'll be having such a great time that you don't even care!

don't be so sensitive -- I am offering you productive advice, but i'm not sugar-coating it or telling you what you want to hear. Yes, i DO think you're being a pvssy. the "LJBF" thing was 'not to be rude'? so you were doing her a favor by letting her be your friend? what a joke! If you don't...

Your problem is that you're acting like a teenage girl. Why the hell are you telling a girl "LJBF" if you want nothing to do with her? The whole purpose of the phrase was so chicks could break up with guys without feeling bad about themselves. Do you feel bad about yourself? As far...

How about this? "Don't do that again." But seriously Jababa, I'm making it a point of replying to your question because it's something I'm going through right now with my girlfriend...well, soon-to-be ex-girlfriend! There are two categories that unacceptable behavior from your...