How to handle blatant comeons..yeah its a problem !!

[tantrumboy]

Hey guys...
i am sure everyone knows abt the various and innumerable 'crap tests' girls have to judge a guys viability. One of the tests i am sure everyone has run into a lot is the 'blatant come on' which is basically a girl being very outrageous and transparent in her flirting. e,g like giving numerous aggressive tight lenghty 'boob press' hugs and gratuitious touching.

Now i am sure it sounds fun but its a double edged sword..if you take that as a green signal for anything and go for the kiss and then she pulls away it makes u look like an ass..if u dont do anything, then one has regrets.

Pretty stupid rant..but just wanted to know whats the best way to deal with obvious 'take me' flirting...ignore it to build intrigue..play into it (cld be playing into the chump trap)...or just let it be. What do u guys do ?

 

[Macgyver]

Whenever a girl comes on strong (such as physically touching you) ... well I'm gonna let Admiral Ackbar from Star Wars: Return of the Jedi explain:

"It's a Trap"

 

[smoke city]

yes usually those girls are so good at touching because they've done it many times before to many guys. they do it because they know it GETS ATTENTION. and if they have your attention, and have created ANTICIPATION, then they have a tool with which to manipulate you. the natural question is: how to keep from being manipulated?

the only answer is to not give her more attention in the first place. It is a typical DJ move to run your own game, and assume she's interested even if she's not giving you IOIs. But you should also abide by the converse of that rule: this girl trying to push you out of your frame by giving all of these bullsh!t buying signals...because she knows it makes you vulnerable. If you stay in your frame, and don't let it affect you then she can never control you. how do you keep this crap from affecting you? i mean...she really knows how to make a guy feel good with this sh!t, right??

the answer is to NEVER desire these signals from her in the first place. Just pay no mind to it, because you don't care if she's touching your arm or brushing her t!ts against you or flicking her hair or dancing all up on you or whatever bs antics she's pulling that day. Now this will have a VERY powerful effect on this type of girl.
She will do one of 2 things:

1. pursue you REALLY hard (unlikely) or
2 . give up on you immediately and completely (likely)

I know a few girls like this, and I made a decision not to take their sh*t anymore like the other drooling idiots they have hanging around. They stopped speaking to me almost immediately. It was as if I didn't even exist for them....really funny sh*t. But hey, the problem is solved from my end!!!
You will learn with more time that there are girls who just need this attention and will do whatever they can to get it. that includes playing their "friends" like pawns in their own personal drama game. You'll learn which ones to steer clear of.