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From what I've experienced: being a traveler (but also having compelling stories to pair with your trips) is the most "attractive" hobby you can have for picking up women. This paired with something athletic/outdoors-oriented is likely the best combo for boosting DHV and makes you appear to be...

Some women want to run the show + want reliable commitment. For those types of broads: 'weak' dudes tend to make great candidates.

I find the sex appeal of most girls diminishes once I'm in a relationship/seeing them consistently for about 1 year (and definitely by the 2 year mark). Maybe I'm just a hedonist beyond redemption: but the burning desire to get them into the bedroom isn't as exciting as it was in the first 6...

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A logical conversation, structured largely around concrete concepts and ideas (the way you'd talk to a male friend) doesn't do much to evoke interest in women. You can sprinkle some of this throughout, but in my experience. it's better to lean towards the following (especially if you haven't...

Likewise -- but what's your approach once you detect 'the look'?

1. Height 2. Out of shape 3. Lack of style/fashion

This does work (depending on the circumstances) especially if the girl is showing a fair amount of interest and putting effort into the conversation (i.e. you meet her out or for a date). Otherwise (but even in those cases) your lack of 'trying' can be misinterpreted as shyness/not having game...

In today's landscape, I'd venture: roughly 60 - 70% of men are invisible to the opposite sex, and get little to no sex.

To attract hot, young girls In 2024: looks and status trump money. These types seem to prefer a guy with social media clout (celebrity / quasi-celebrity status) and/or is 6 ft+ with a ripped gym-bro physique -- versus the semi-unremarkable dude who makes 150-300k per year (even if it's coupled...

It's rare you get useful feedback from a girl when things go south. Consequently, I think most guys would benefit from having an objective 'mentor' observe them in the wild. As someone who has hit a game 'plateau', I've contemplated doing some kind of bootcamp or in-person coaching. The major...

I always start off dates with a warm hug, as it breaks the touch barrier right from the jump. It can also be a solid indicator of her initial attraction level (i.e. if the embrace is warm and lingering v.s. if she happens to pull away fast). If the opening hug is implemented: this needs to be...

How did you end living together when only dating for roughly a year? I dread this same scenario will play out with my current main. We've been together for ~2 years and she wants to live together come 2025.

Based on my extensive experiences over the last 10 years-- I have to wholeheartedly agree with this post. With most girls (especially in the 18 - 25 age range) there appears to be zero urgency around fostering a serious relationship / getting married or having children... but these same picky...

I've hit on a lot of girls over the past decade: and no amount of demonstrated "masculinity", confidence, humor, or personality that I demonstrated mattered if they weren't already attracted (and yes, since really getting into "game" and making dating a regular part of my life about 10 years ago...

I can agree and strongly relate to a lot of the salient points in this post (especially those I've bolded). The biggest divergence in my experience: I find game has gotten harder since reaching my 30s. Even though I'm far more successful and established now, it seems like the landscape has...

While I believe being "objectively attractive" (i.e. relatively tall with pleasing facial aesthetics) and building a solid physical appearance (i.e. being physically fit and dressing well) will more often help you (most importantly helping to build your confidence)-- I don't think being...

Will be in Chicago this week. For anyone else in town: feel free to send me a pm if you want to meet up to shoot the breeze / grab drinks. For the Chicago vets -- any recommendations for solid night life venues / c0cktail lounges or bars to bring broads?

Todd V always seemed to provide solid advice and never came across like a giant tool (like many other guys in the space, especially the RSD crew)-- but I've grown to increasingly question the legitimacy of his results (i.e. he claims to have top notch game, consistently pulls girls, has dated...

While I agree that light teasing can lead to some great banter and sexual tension -- in my experience: it can also backfire terribly. Some women will actually get offended or find you annoying.