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    Men who go abroad to find women.

    Depends. There are very legitimate reasons a man would seek out a foreign girlfriend. I spend about 50% of my time working overseas in a developing country (however it is developed enough that there is a night-life and so on, i.e. things in the dating world which are familiar to westerners)...
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    I'm having a wobble

    When I first joined this website 8 years ago I was 15 years old, hadn't kissed a girl or even had one like me. I was going nowhere in life, and perhaps most damagingly of all didn't realise I was going nowhere in life. I've spent the last 7 years going from one relationship to the next, and...
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    Are we just friends?

    I think you've done perfectly fine, mostly. My only critique is your "waiting for the right moment". It's something that just never made any sense to me - either the girl likes you or she doesn't. The "right moment" is the next moment you see her. When you take her out for dinner, kiss...
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    What if your passions are boring?

    The passion itself is not the important thing. My two great passions are achieving a PhD in my field and competing at high levels in sports. I've done one (sports) and am well on the way to the other. Which one of those would you consider more 'interesting'? Now guess which one no girl...
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    "Smarts" on this forum.

    Actually I think there's probably just a bit of a skew since more above averagely intelligent people will tend to answer this question :p
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    "Smarts" on this forum.

    This, and I agree with the person above that said there are many kinds of intelligence. My best friend at university had his IQ measured at 160, yet he has no common sense whatsoever and has still never managed to secure any kind of employment, even in unskilled manual labour. To the original...
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    What are your life turning points?

    My main turning point came when I went to university. I had such a pathetic, miserable life back home, but the thing was I was completely used to it, so I didn't think of as being pathetic or miserable. It was just "normal". Towards the end of my time in school I began falling out a lot with...
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    How wrong is it to be in love?

    To be honest, it's late and I haven't read anything apart from the original post, so apologies if I'm repeating stuff. JJ, I was in a very similar situation to you a couple of years ago. First real long term girlfriend, and I was very smitten by her. I definitely loved her, but if you're...
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    Am i too ugly to pull 'hot' chicks?

    You should have no problem dude, you're a good looking guy. One of my exes exes looks exactly like you (although he has slightly longer hair, if I remember). They went out for well over a year, and she's a hot girl.
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    When She Talks Really Negative About Her Ex...

    I agree with be cautious. Not all people are like my ex, but all through our relationship I heard her complain non-stop about how her ex-bf cheated on her blah blah blah. I never really believed it (long story). She's now spreading absolutely identical rumours about me. ****ing ridiculous...
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    Girls that date younger guys...

    I agree that it seems to be a control thing, just based on a current example from my own life. A girl I go to university with (2.5 years older than me) was chasing me down most of last month, but I'm not attracted to her and have a girlfriend, so I stayed very distant. In the last week or so...
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    The offical sosuave "whats your rating scale" thread

    To me the 1-10 scale is just a percentile thing. I round the rough percentage figure off to the closest thing on the scale. If i think a girl is in the 5th percentile in terms of attractiveness, I give her a 1; 50th percentile - 5; 57th percentile - 6; 90th percentile - 9: 95th percentile -...
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    am i the only one who doesn't like licking a girl out?

    I love licking her out, even more than the reciprocal bl0wjob after. A whole lot more, in fact. I got pi$$ed off one time with my last ex because she only ever wanted to do things to me, but wouldn't let me do stuff to her. I suppose she was embarrassed by it or whatever.
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    Drunk Drove . .

    I think the figure is closer to 95%, although I go to university so I think there's a disproportionate number of idiots around here. Anyway I hope for your sake you're right about your drunk driving skills. If you were actually so confident that you wouldn't (ever) kill someone then you wouldn't...
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    shirts

    #2 is the one that I most prefer, but I have to say I still don't particularly like it. I wear plain shirts (burgundy, royal blue, blood red & purple ones) with a black tie to university almost every day, I never stop getting compliments on them.
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    What motivates you?

    I get motivated very easily by just wanting to be better than other people, at everything. And once I am better at something than them, I want to be better than them by as much as possible. I think it's a bit of an insecurity more than anything else so it's probably not an option for...
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    The "when did you..." thread (sex)

    When was the first time you made out? I think just after I turned 17. I had never been able to get with a girl, and eventually just made out with a complete uggo just for the sake of it. This girl was about a 2, maybe 3 on a good day, and to give you some idea of where I was in terms of game...
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    Drunk Drove . .

    I was a prick to him because he killed a little girl. Was that not evident in my post? I told him I wish he had died instead because if someone had to die, it should have been him and not her. Do you disagree? The past is the one true judgment of a man, because it is the only thing that no...
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    Drunk Drove . .

    Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you? A lot of very evil and f*cked up stuff 'never used to be illegal'. Slavery wasn't illegal at one time, that doesn't mean it's right. I agree with Smoothtalker. You have to be an absolute moron to drink drive, and you've just proven the fact with that...
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    How much money do you make??

    I assist with research at my university. Pays about 250 euros a week, for about 5 hours' worth of work, and possibly one out-of-town trip a month to look for material in other university libraries. I think they think I work a lot more hours than I do to earn my 250 a week, but I get the work...
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