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    She's over sensitive, wants "space". HELP!!

    Well put Puerto-Rican lover!!! I must admit you made me stop and think. You pretty much nailed it. Yes, why am I apologizeing for something I didn't even do? To hell with that. I will admit myself... I made a few mistakes such as leaving her with no keys one night, but she makes little...
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    She's over sensitive, wants "space". HELP!!

    Ok Ok, I think I know what to do. She wants space right? She believes this drivel he told her right? This will be a test on her then. I let her have her space. In about a week, I'll send some flowers to her work, since i cannot stop by without gettiing her in trouble. Attached to the...
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    She's over sensitive, wants "space". HELP!!

    Player supreme...I will try having my ex friend make a confession to her with witnesses. A letter she would just say was "faked" by me. Your right I am not a player. Just becaus I had a diffrent gal to fvck for every day of the week, and two for Sunday, does not make me a player. It was...
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    Getting punched while picking up a girl

    I feel for ya man! I have been punched, shot at ( they missed, thank god) and had lots of phone threats made to me. I hope you had her number. You can now call her, and say that was some crazy shyt, wasn't it? Then tell her you'd like to see her again, but maybe go to a spot where no ex's...
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    She's over sensitive, wants "space". HELP!!

    Clooney all good points.. I can't go to her work, because she works at a nursing home, and the charge nurse has said that if she gets anymore visits ( apparently the A-hole that started this has been trying to see her at work too) she will lose her job. Her job is important to her, and I...
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    She's over sensitive, wants "space". HELP!!

    She just called. She started to ***** me out, but I did pretty good at not being defensive, yet letting her know that the answer is to talk about this. She agreed she would, but "when she is ready". No definite time, might be a couple days might be, a couple months, who knows. I let her know...
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    How do you tell which girls will 'put out' easily?

    Well first off, if you get a chance to talk on the phone first, Be funny...but be blunt. I don't mean say "hey wanna fvck", i mean be blunt. Just set it up like this. Example: Call her.. Her: Hello You: Hi there may i speak to ___ Her: hows it going? You: not to bad, just want to...
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    She's over sensitive, wants "space". HELP!!

    I reread Dirthearts reply. it's right on the money as far as the way the situation is. Yes it is very frustrating when you finally find a "keeper" and some dildo of a friend fvcks it all up for ya! Hell yes she is scared, and in her mind rightly so. Normally, I would not allow this "space" thing...
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    She's over sensitive, wants "space". HELP!!

    more c*ckblocking! Tried calling this morning hoping to leave at least a message. Was told she is signing a lease on a new APt. SHYT!!!! I don't want her doing this! I am sure she has wanted to talk about this stuff to someone, and has confided in her friends from work, and family, but they...
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    She's over sensitive, wants "space". HELP!!

    Ok, here's one I am not sure how to deal with, partly because of the circumstances. I am 40. She is 42. We had been having a long distance relationship, with her living 4 hours away. It wasn't a problem at first, in fact she always came to see me, every chance she had. IL was high, she would get...
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    Girl friend cheating?

    Don't be to hard on yourself Reto... Its easy to see selectively, when YOu are the one in the failing relationship. Fact is, you at least Saw it for what it was when you went back thru and looked. You'll be alright! Just take what you have learned, and go get you a HB and chill....A year from...
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    WTF - She thinks I am Busted?

    Glad I could help. Kinda goes along the lines of the Trojan horse theory, which is time tested. Plus it helps, you are dealing with women LOL...they love to ***** to other women about "those men" and in this case that...will be the perpertrators undoing! muhahaha!!!
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    I have to study-WTF?

    Gold Hearts Advice is pretty good . If you don't want to do that just yet, set up another date. This time You call and you ask, but don't let your other friend know. Girls like to chum around together. Its like having a chaperone, and you don't want that. Tell her you want to meet to talk. If...
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    WTF - She thinks I am Busted?

    Personally, I'd just chill and let things blow over. whoever it is, you don't want anyway, and the others, well, they will come to you and ask "if it is true" if they hear any bad mouthing. Fact is it could be any of them. I had a buddy once in a similar situation. He didn't let it worry him...
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    I need tips on where to go.

    BTW what IS your location? Is it city or country? Is it East or West coast, or not even USA? Info like that might help to answer your question.
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    girlfriend hanging out with ex

    Gambit..I'm glad you put your foot down over this. See that wasn't so hard was it? Now you still aren't out of the woods yet bud. Now you have to see if she really MEANT what she said or if she was just supplicating to avoid a argument and to be able to run BEHIND your back and see him anyway...
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    I need tips on where to go.

    If you live in the city ( a bigger town) Plays. Museums. Theme clubs ( Honky tonks for "country women" A place with a live band for "city" women. ( generally speaking here). Car washes on a warm winter day..yes hotties wash there car too! Casinos. Be careful for gold diggers tho...
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    girlfriend hanging out with ex

    Dude!!!! Oh man Oh man! This hits a nerve from the school of hard knocks with me... I was in the same exact situation as you. The chick was fine...I loved her to pieces. Same deal, she had just broke up with her ex when she met me. It all went great for , yep about 2 months. In fact her ex...
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    The Reason You Joined This Site: What Was Her Name?

    She was a gal I met of all places off the net. I wasn't even looking. I was in a hell of argument with some jerk in a chatroom, when she popped into my life. I forgot the jerk, closed down the chatroom and IM'd her the rest of the night. And the next. Then we met. We spread a blanket out in...
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    Very quick question...need answer tonight

    Sounds like she is pulling that girly moody, 5 diffrent personality shyt that some women pull. She may be testing you. She is I would bet probably very spoiled ( used to having things her way) and loves CONTROL. She will say when..she baits ya, then acts uninterested. I'd ignore her azz...
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