Well first off, if you get a chance to talk on the phone first, Be funny...but be blunt. I don't mean say "hey wanna fvck", i mean be blunt.
Just set it up like this. Example:
Call her..
Her: Hello
You: Hi there may i speak to ___
Her: hows it going?
You: not to bad, just want to get to know ya.
Her: Cool, i want to get to know you too.
do some small chat, then tell her you really are not good at this "dating" ( or meeting) thing.
You: so wanna come ou, and see my? ( pick something your proud of, your car, whatever)
Her: ok, what time?
you ( with hesitation) well first i should tell you something!
Her: whats that?
You: well, I don't want to come across as looking for a one night stand ( she's saving face here) but i am a very sexual person!
She: well me too, nothing wrong with that! ( she will want to show you she has a open-mind if there is a chance here)
Talk about sex for awhile now. Be careful what you say, don't act like its all you want, but talk as if you can be a "freak" in bed. If she is into Sex, her ears will be all perked up now!
When she gets over there, just assess the situation. If she seems bolder, sitting there with her have a few beers, and make your move. If she is still a bit reserved tell her you want to play a card game...I like strip black Jack. If she says, no way with a blush, say come on now, it is fun ( you have to be convincing that you like hanging with her, and you feel like doing something crazy together.) Some women will even get into this and get real competitive, trying to get you disrobed first, showing how good a card player she is. Well, If she gets pissed at any point and backs out, as soon as she leaves have another phone number ready. There is always one that will. I have used the above or variation of it to score LOTS of times. It is surprising how they will " go with the flow sometimes. I think the deal is, to let it appear they are just hanging out having a good time, and take the pressure off them of you possibly thinking of them as a slut etc. It does work, cuz most of them want sex as bad as you. Set a atmosphere, where they won't feel bad about doing it, and half the women out there will try it with you, even if its cuz you wanna "just be crazy and wild" for a night.
Let me know how it works for ya