I need tips on where to go.

high desert dj

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I need ideas on where to go to meet women .Right now When i go stores is about the only chance i get.But when I have no reason to go I do nothing.I am 32 years old by the way and all my friends are either married or afc as hell so I dont go to bars and clubs either cause I feel weird going by myself. so I want to know where you guys go by yourselves to meet women.

p.s. I am wbafc going on rafc.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Either take a dance class, salsa or swing. Tons of kino. Otherwise go to a club and find another rafc or two and form a wing.
 

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I hear the Discussion forum is really good this time of year. :p
 

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Go to where the chicks feed their faces.

Lunch time, go downtown, people leave their offices on lunch breaks. Find out where they go, go there. Same goes for supper.

I'm not sure how it is in your city, but here there is something called "Park and Ride" where people park places and ride public transportation. Ride public transportation during peak hours.

If your into the young ones:
Hit the local campus. If you want, buy yourself a binder, some paper and fake that your taking some english lit course or something. I don't think the binder, paper, and course are necessary, but if you want a reason to be there, there it is.
Check out the malls friday after school is out, weekends, especially afternoon.

Want some moms? Grocery stores, afternoon, damn gold mine dude.

Also, if you live in a city with enough street traffic, just hang around downtown. Perhaps it takes "cajones" to stop a woman dead in her tracks. Only one way to get them, and it aint by sitting on the sidelines. =P

Tip: Home alone = WRONG
You want women? God doesn't plunk them down on your doorstep, you have to go out there and meet them.

Best of luck bro,
khanboy
 

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If you live in the city ( a bigger town)

Plays. Museums. Theme clubs ( Honky tonks for "country women" A place with a live band for "city" women. ( generally speaking here).
Car washes on a warm winter day..yes hotties wash there car too!
Casinos. Be careful for gold diggers tho!
Networking with friends you work with, or just friends you know. Ask " SOOOOO do you have any single girlfriends' They will tell you all about this "one" and you decide from there.
Hardware stores have paid off for me before. ( she is there trying to figure out what the fvck to do with this "widget' and you help her...great segway for you. But get her number if she should need some "help" LOL)
Libraries are often underated.
Just go for walks down a walking trail in your town. One that lots of people use. Meet a gal you want to talk to? Hit her up with a brilliant, hey, could you come here? use your own style after that, but get a number if she's available.
Flea markets. You'd be surprised at the women that go to them in your age bracket.
Partys. Go to as many parties as you can possibly find and get invited too! A GOLDMINE there!!!
Don't forget internet dating. Personals. Chat. Just play the averages, and be smart. many flakes, but a few HB's along the way too.
Take A CLASS. Doesn't have to be a degree program. many colleges offer classes in hobby type things. Pick something you'd like to learn more about. Guitar 101. Meets 3 times a week for one hour. You'll get to know the other students, plus have a good reason to be on campus for the others that are in degree programs. another goldmine.
Join a support group. LOL I know sounds funny. I know of many who have met that way. A word of caution...don't make it AAA etc, cuz you don't want a reformed alchy! Go more for parents without partners, or that sort of thing.
Volunteer for community service. Big brothers. Boy scouts. The local PTA. use your brain. Something that women are going to be involved in. Many might be married, but there are always a couple that aren't.

If you live more rural (country)

Farmers markets.
Town festivals.
Farm Auctions.
Small town bars ( I go to one with pool tables, play pool if I get bored, but if a hottie walks in that I wanna get to know, I get tired of playing pool!)
Town Swimming pool if they have one ( you get to see them in bikinis too!)
Local cafe go stay awhile drink some coffee whatever, just maximize odds. If you are there 30 min, won't probably meet anyone. Bring paperwork or whatever to stay busy, and stay 2 hours. It works!
Town Park in summer. Single moms taking kids to park!
Anything to do with horses. Women LOVE horses!!!
fund raising events ( school carnival, bake sales etc.)
Classmates.com ( see if the girl you thought was hot in highschool is still hot, and if she is single, remember, she is more mature now...we hope!)
family reunions ( just don't go after your cousin LOL...sometimes your cousin will bring a good friend..they could be single and hot, and you even have a "in" someone who will speak highly of you to her!)
ever think about getting a home business started? Pick one that will attract females. Something like rent a space gardening for those that don't have land, or computer repair ( worked for me) or Car repairs. what about a "handyman service"? At least you still get paid if she's not what you want!

Gawd...Now I am soooooooo totally drained! gave you all my secrets! I deserve a tithing..one hot chick for every 3 you meet. LMAO!!!
 

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BTW what IS your location? Is it city or country? Is it East or West coast, or not even USA? Info like that might help to answer your question.
 

high desert dj

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great ideas . I like the dance class one ,I will try that one and the college campus one.
to answer your question jet jockey I live in a small city about an hour from los angeles.
 

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Yeh, i have just started going to danse classes at uni. Its a great way to meet women, 50 50 ratio, and soo much fun. go for it.
 

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Originally posted by high desert dj
I will try that one and the college campus one.
Another tip to which classes to go to --->

English, Psychology, and Sociology (they are like flies in there) and good luck
 
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