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Its a 2 way street, she needs to earn his respect as well. He was clear and upfront, he doesn't owe her anything, there are ways that people can act that are common courtesy, when someone disregards that then well they've lost that courtesy as well. I probably woulnd't have taken it there but...

Got a bunch of matches from what looks like fairly quality girls. Some expired and a bunch gave the hi, or how's your weekend going messages. It doesn't really change much, the girl just sends a qualifier message then reverts to same OLD mechanics.

Girls flake all the time for a myriad of reasons, don't take it personal overall. I always have to retrain myself to stfu and not text, leave conversations first and be aloof and put them into chase mode no matter how much you like a girl or if you see her as LTR material. My problem is I'm so...

Yeah that probable makes the most sense, she wanted to **** you but wanted to temper your expectations so that you don't get clingy or expect to keep seeing her and take her out in public. You won, you got to bang her, just play it cool ignore and if she doesn't hit you up I'd hit her up down...

It won't blow up as much as tinder but it will probably work for women who aren't just seeking attention. I'd imagine bumble will be a better medium for pulling and getting dates and less of a waste of time. I match with lots of women on Tinder who I don't necessarily message, I get lots of...

Either a **** test or maybe her saying that to a guy turns her on? Either way you handled it well, I'd keep handling it well, just laugh at her and escalate showing her bull**** doesn't phase you and every time she says that just grab her and bend her over, that is indifference/confidence and...

Who gives a ****? Do you let society create your goals and define what will make a happy life? You know how many married people are ****ing miserable, because they are doing what society deems successfull and safe. Now I do think that fostering a healthy relationship with a woman can lead to...

I agree with your overall approach but each person has to define what is important to them and what fulfills their life. Women being an obsession I'd argue is not healthy, I'd also argue that defining yourself by your career where you are ass kissing and chasing a carrot making other people...

When I say date I don't mean taking them out for dinner or paying for them, I never do that. Its just meeting them for drinks and we split the bill.

Meh one of the girls ended up asking me out for a drink on Sunday and she's gonna come to where I live so I'm gonna roll with it and go for the gold. Her IL seems pretty high and she's initiating with me and I feel pretty safely in control and I think I can make it work so I'm gonna go with it...

What you are talking about can only really be achieved on an individual level and it probably takes dark triad techniques to pull off.

Good idea or bad idea? Debating with a couple girls who I'm gonna go on first dates with but not sure if I should ask for Valentines day and try and use all those sappy feeling surrounding or if it will come off as needy/weak.

Being with normal women feels weird to me, I'm attracted to disordered women. Not necessarily BPD but almost all the girls I've dated have come from broken homes and had abandonment, daddy issues. I'm attracted to those type of girls, I resent girls from good backgrounds/families and don't...

Offer, if she doesn't counter offer or make an effort to do something then let it go. If she's interested or is being sincere she'll contact you to try and set up a date if not then you saved your precious time.

You get credit man, its difficult. If you don't have the ability to walk away you are never in a position to negotiate well in your favor. Even if you somehow cave (not advisable) and get some kind of relationship back with this women, you will have set the bar that you won't be disrespected...

This is good insight, it seems like common sense but so many people don't look at things from these standpoints. I think my greatest strength/and often weakness is that I try to always think of things from others perspectives. It makes me a naturally empathetic person, which I think is a good...

I agree with what the OP's said. Wild and chaotic girls are the ones who really get me interested. Not wild like party all the time, doing really stupid ****, but that will crack jokes, take risks, aren't afraid to piss people off etc. Girls who are confident enough and have goals and the...

This is some good advice/examples. Girls flake on me all the time, I'll set generally try to set up 2-4 dates a week and on average at least half of them flake. Its ****ing annoying, and make it difficult to plan out my week, like it doesn't affect me emotionally that the girl flakes but its...

Yup, my mind always goes back to those girls from my past. There's a range from completely vanilla all the way up to the girls that really get off on kink. Its the ones that really get off on sucking, can't get enough of it, that get off when you **** them hard, like to be slapped and have you...

Read something someone said about how women don't even trust women because they know better. Putting any women hating theories aside I think that has some interesting insight for interactions with women. In my past I've shown trust and given women outward signs of benevolence before I really...