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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Starting no contact again.. :( So i successfully completed two weeks of no contact with my two year ltr when she contacted and disrupted the routine.. Contacted I say bombarded me and my friends with texts and calls.. She made the effort to reach out, I took her out and we kind of made up...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    We went out on Friday.. We discussed all possible scenarios we could be together.. Rather I told her what the scenarios all of which she rejected.. I thought that was fair enough and that she did not want to be with me.. I told her that it is okay and I have accepted the break up and am ready to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    1. Did she contact you?YES 2. Was she the dumper?YES 3. Did she say at the breakup "I need space/time/etc?"YES 4. How Long was the breakup?ABOUT 3 WEEKS I'd wait for several responses on here before engaging. My honest opinion is to ignore. If it was important, she would call you.SHE HAS...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    She wants to talk about the relationship.. I am sure the problems we have might never disappear.. She sent a text saying she wants to talk.. I am okay with talking.. Not too sure..:(
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    You are absolutely right.. So this is the second day.. Hope I dont get sucked in again..
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yes.. I met her last tuesday.. We kissed and everything seemed normal.. Texted her for a while.. Then felt like a chump when she said that we did not get back together but we could talk about it.. ****!!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    okay.. so i broke the no contact rule for three ****ing days.. back to square one.. she wanted to see me and i did like a ****ing imp.. what the **** is wrong with me?? i did everything to stay no contact for 12 ****ing days.. it was hard.. but i did it.. now that i broke it i feel like a...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Cannot stop thinking about her since she said I am still in love with you 2 days ago.. She keeps texting me, I replied once, to the point and did not reply after that.. I dont know how to keep no contact if my emotions can be stirred up so easily.. I am trying to do crunches whenever I think...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks people.. I needed to hear that..
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    So I get this text.. I know you think there is another guy.. That is not true at all.. I cannot even think of anyone else but you.. I still love you.. Ten days of no contact paid off?? I love her.. But she broke my heart when she dumped me.. She is really starting to confuse me and...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    The phone saga continues.. She texted early this morning saying her friend needs her phone back.. This after I said I will be needing two weeks to return it as I am plenty busy these two coming weeks.. I just do not want to break the no contact rule.. But she keeps texting.. Should i just go...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Is telling your ex why you are going NC breaking NC?? I had to reply because she was going on a text spree this morning.. I told her that I doubt if we could ever be friends considering she broke my heart and that I will not be speaking to her for a long long time.. She said take your time...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    So the phone saga continues.. I told her via a text that I will give her friend the phone back myself.. She texts me back asking me if I do not want to talk to her.. Didn't text her back.. Of course I dont want to talk to her.. Why would I?? I gave her my heart, she fukcing stomped on it!!! The...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    so she's called me twice today.. i was in the theatre watching a film.. did not hear the phone ring.. i have her friend's phone which i borrowed from her as mine had broken.. this was about a month ago.. she wants it back.. i dont know if i should contact her to give it back.. would not be too...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    i am going to not call her.. no way.. i want to tell her how much i miss her.. very bad.. but she does not deserve this from me.. she does not deserve me for whatever she did to me.. i am broken.. i am so broken.. i cannot concentrate on anything.. i am not eating properly.. going to a gym seems...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Withdrawal effects.. So much withdrawal.. Even if I did want her back I have to stay no contact for 30 ****ing days.. Last wednesday was when she said this relationship is destined for doom.. Cant stop thinking about it.. I need a vent.. I need it to be her.. But i dont want to jeopardize...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Really hard on day 5.. Mustering all strength from breaking..
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Today has by far been the most difficult.. Had a dream about talking to her on the phone and finding out that there is another guy.. Woke up sweaty.. Have held it together without any mishaps so far.. I am putting all my energy into this.. So draining...:cuss:
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Fvck broken hearts.. We were together for two years.. It was the most perfect relationship.. She was studying medicine and I was into advertising.. I had planned to do my MBA from the states as planned and she wanted to do her grad schooling there as well.. Any normal couple would plan this...
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