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Lol Dude, if I was in your position, I would be banging every female I could get my hands on....you're in college! Who wants a serious gf?!!! Hahaha. However, I know that doesnt help you right now. In answer to your question, she is little girl and craving attention. She gave you some bs...

Hey there buddy, First thing I have to say......PLEASE PUT SPACES AND PARAGRAPHS INTO YOUR WRITING WHEN YOU ARE WRITING SO MUCH! HAHAHA THANKS MATE :crackup Ok, so you and her had arguments, but overall you wanna try and fix things and possibly get back with her? In that case, I 100%...

Faldero, How do you know she has moved on? Her seeing another guy means nothing. Its her way of trying to deal with things. It will come back to bite her, trust me. I have to disagree with your thought process on dating though. Dating is harmless, its fun. The women you take on dates know...

Henrea, Its sad really, when you begin to put all the effort into showing a woman you want her and its usually when its too late. Your sisutation sounds very similiar to me. I wasnt appreciativer of my ex at all to be fair and when she finally decided to leave me in May, it was...

Day 16 is fantastic mate. I got to day 22 and it was purely by a family issue that I HAD to contact her about that we ended up talking today (see earlier post for convo detail). We had the phone call and after that, nothing else. I didnt send a text or anything like that, it was...

Great question Faldero. She is a person who made me realise what is important in a relationship, in the sense that its more about how you feel rather than how you are. Speaking to her today made me realise that my love for her isnt going to switch on and off depending on whether she is...

Hey Guys, Thought I better message on here as there was some development today, not in the greatest circumstances. Unfortunately an immediate member of my family has a bit of a drug problem and this particular person was close to my ex. They asked me to ask my ex if she would call them in...

Day 20 - NC. Sorry I havent messaged earlier guys, works been crazy and I wont lie, I was feeling a bit low. Day 18 I came SO SO CLOSE to cracking. I had to get two of my friends involved, who managed to stop me, it was awful!! Today, I have heard through mutual friends that she is now adding...

Thats another thing, you need to stay away from the booze when you're alone. That aint gonna help nothing!

Dude, stop this. You are not a chump. Yeah, she may be happily enjoying her new time with this guy or appear to be to you, but that doesnt mean anything to what YOU need to do. A couple of posts before you were saying you didnt want her back in your life...now you are upset because she is...

I think there is no chance of reconciliation right now my friend, thats for sure. My ex did a similiar thing, although in all fairness she gave me a lot of opportunity to be with her properly, but I just wanted to have my cake and eat it. As she said to me "what did you think I was going...

Your situation sounds very similiar to mine.....except I believe my ex has finally felt enough is enough and is already seeing someone else. I have decided to stick to the 60 day contact because of a quote I read online that said "dont **** with peoples feelings just because you cant figure...

I hate to say this, but I have to second Mauser on this. Its a real struggle going through all of this and all you seem to do is go back and forth. FUko my man, this thread is not for you. You are basically a smoker who says they are going to give up and then a few days later has a...

Hey dude, If you can give us some more detail of your situation that would be good. Thats fine to admit that you want her back, I know I do with my ex. But at the same time, you have to try and utilise the 60 day period to actually ask yourself why you want her back? The golden question...

Faldero dude, sorry I am quoting your whole reply, I just havent mastered specifying certain parts of your message to directly reply to...help would be appreciated lol. Firstly, are you 100% sure, deep deep down you do not want her back? If someone strapped you up to a lie detector, what would...

Hey Dude, Firstly, be proud of yourself for not replying.....takes real steel my friend. What I cant work out about her is what she wants from you? I mean, is she really expecting you to be the best of friends after breaking up with you and KNOWING you want her back? My ex genuinely...

Hey dude, We all know how hard it is to not contact! In the past, my best record was 5 days, I would see something on fb or twitter and then like a man possessed, I would reel off an essay of pathetic crap. I am only on day 14, so I am in no way one to talk too much here. But, the last...

Bro, You are saying what I need to hear, trust me! She used to give me a hard time about trying to help her develop her career, accused me of looking down at her for the job she did. I was trying to help her because she complained how much she hated her job every day! I think you are...

Cheers pal, The more and more I think about it, the more and more I realise I dont think I want her back....but I have to be 100% sure I am not just saying that to kid myself....I will keep on with the no contact and hope one day its all done!!

Hi Guys, This is my first post on this site and felt I had to contribute to what has been a real tough time the last couple of months. I will start off by briefly explaining my situation: I met my ex on Holiday in September 2011, we got on like a house on fire, we would talk for 3-4 hours...