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you were man. Even she agreed.

At this point I’m just not going to bring it up, keep having fun and looking out for any more red flags. I feel like she just deleted it because she just simply doesn’t care. She doesn’t seem to be hiding anything from me and she still seems very affectionate towards me, and not in a guilty kind...

@stringpuller see those would have been good ways to deal with that, and yeah I realized I failed a **** test, it happens. Now I know and I learned from it. I’ve never been in that situation but hell now I know. many advice on regaining frame,I know it isn’t fully out of my corner just yet.

She did not have a smirk on her face, more like a face of disgust. @Mazer That is actually solid. Gonna use that. @dustmuffin She did, but ultimatley she ended up deleting snapchat @dude99 ya man, thats what im feeling, however solid points in this thread from everyone.

@stringpuller heres your update: Update: she deleted snapchat. @BackInTheGame78 I agree there is some fear mongering, but I do believe it's warrented sometimes. However, I think theres an age disconnect somewhere on this site making it worse. This is actually the first weird vibe ive...

Yep I figured that’s what has to happen now. Pretty much that is what im going to do @EyeBRollin , it didn't bother me that much and it seems like most people here think its harmless. The boundaries are set. If she breaks them, I walk away. It's simple. No need to speculate and spin the hamster...

she didn’t offer it? I wanted to look up a song on Spotify and didn’t have my phone so I asked her and she gave it lol. Couples shouldn’t have each others passwords? That makes no sense at all.

First off, we have each others passwords just because what if we have to use each others phones, change a song, I don’t have my phone she doesn’t have hers. You’re blowing things out of proportion. however, you are right, she could be deleting the conversation. And if you’re right, then I have...

I also have snapchat, we send eachother pics and such. She doesn't post anything to her story and she really doesnt use social media that much. I was also thinking the same, she feels like a keeper and I feel like im overthinking for some reason. @Pan87 She isn't entertaining him at all...

So I have an interesting one, been dating this girl for 8 months, was spinning plates at the time and we just ended up clicking so we went for it. Everythings been great, she buys me stuff, cooks, cleans, our sex drives both line up ( aka a lot of sex). Shes told me and shows me she is in love...

Yep, just friend zoned her and that’s that.

Because I dont want to anymore. lol @Lookatu I could do that, and that does work but seems like way too much work. @Focal core might give that a try thanks man

Question. How do you just break it off with plates you are seeing? Especially if you have to see them a few times a week (not at work but just around)? Bring up the lets just be friends card? Or just stop contacting them all together.

^^this. Girls are going to do random sh1t and you can spend time trying to analyze it (and go crazy) or just accept it and not let it bother you. At the end of the day, does she 1) say yes to your date ideas? 2) fvck you? If she does the above 2, her attraction is there and the rest is ****...

Relationships, of any kind, are give and take. Why be in ANY relationship of the other person isn't helping you in some way? That way can be anything btw.

Ya I wouldnt have just outright said that. I would've toyed with her and made it more fun. Just blurting out "I wana bang" is so fvcking boring, and ruins the whole thing. Slowly escalate, make it exciting.

GO for all of them or none at all. If you're spinning multiple plates at once, you'll never get oneitis because youll always be looking to add and never settle.

Thats the money right there @Spaz. Starting to realize how being unpredictible, somthing as simple as if you always hagnout on a Saturday to hangout on a Wednesday can even spice things up and keep them interesting. Always keep em guessing, never let them know what you're going to do next. Are...

As stuff starts to open up where I'm at I decided to take a plate out to a bar down the shore, we met up with my two female cousins who reserved a table. One is in a relationship and the other is not. The one in the relationship has been in said relationship for 7 years, her boyfriend does not...

100% this. its the difference between the guy who does not give 1 ****, doesnt call or text them, just doesn't care. Vs. the guy texting her every day, spilling his feelings out for her. The later gets the lay, the former gets to jerk off.