Letting other girls down/LJBF?

[JohnChops]

Question. How do you just break it off with plates you are seeing? Especially if you have to see them a few times a week (not at work but just around)?

Bring up the lets just be friends card? Or just stop contacting them all together.

 

[backseatjuan]

 

[Focal core]

Just tell her that this isnt working, we need to stop. Then its up to her wise enough to leave.. Your job is done.

 

[GearsGod310]

If you're banging her why would you want to put her in the friendzone?

 

[Lookatu]

I generally flip the script so I don't look like a bad guy.
If you don't care to see the girl again, do stuff and start behaving where they break it off with you.
Like start acting needy, clingy, beta, possessive, accusing, paranoid, etc. Anything that will repel women and dry up their pvssy. Then it makes them look like the bad guy since they break it off with you. LOL

 

[JohnChops]

If you're banging her why would you want to put her in the friendzone?

Because I dont want to anymore.

lol @Lookatu I could do that, and that does work but seems like way too much work.

@Focal core might give that a try thanks man

 

[xplt]

Just tell her that this isnt working, we need to stop. Then its up to her wise enough to leave.. Your job is done.

Honest and simple.

I generally flip the script so I don't look like a bad guy.
If you don't care to see the girl again, do stuff and start behaving where they break it off with you.
Like start acting needy, clingy, beta, possessive, accusing, paranoid, etc. Anything that will repel women and dry up their pvssy. Then it makes them look like the bad guy since they break it off with you. LOL

You‘re serious about this?

 

[GearsGod310]

Because I dont want to anymore.

lol @Lookatu I could do that, and that does work but seems like way too much work.

@Focal core might give that a try thanks man

Respectfully tell her that you just want to be friends. Thats all.

 

[Scars]

Yall are too nice.. lmao. I just ignore them until they get the point.

 

[Suave88]

Question. How do you just break it off with plates you are seeing? Especially if you have to see them a few times a week (not at work but just around)?

Bring up the lets just be friends card? Or just stop contacting them all together.

Don't break it unless you have other plates. It is best to meet and fvck plate at least once a week, but never break.
I guess you are done with this girl, and have other opyions.
In my opinion if you are done it is best to just slow down and meet less by less until you just walk off or she starts to argue and blame you for shyt.

 

[Henry Schweiss]

Yall are too nice.. lmao. I just ignore them until they get the point.

This.

Ignoring is the best way to extinguish a behavior. The trend is a rise in insistence, then a total decline.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Some people confuse "pates" with "friends with benefits."

If these are plates, then there was no unwritten 'contract' to begin with. No explanation necessary. You are both free agents.

If these are friends with benefits, you remain just as cordial as before, but you always carry around an "excuse" as to why you two can't hook up tonight.

lol @Lookatu I could do that, and that does work but seems like way too much work.

In theory, you'd think that this would work. Most often, it backfires... because women (the ones that are really into you) interpret this as you removing aloofness and showing a vulnerable side.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Because I dont want to anymore.

I mean you could just tell her that. “Hey I gotta be honest, I don’t want to do this anymore. Let’s just be friends.”

Ez.

 

[JohnChops]

Yep, just friend zoned her and that’s that.

 

[Toddz]

I wouldn't bring anything up. Just be cool and slowly fade. Lets just be friends is what women do.

I've actually had a few plates turn into genuine friendships where we no longer sleep together. If I had said, lets just be friends I think it would have been insulting.

 

[Visionist]

Friendships can last a lifetime. Plates can last one night.

It's not "let's just be friends" it's "let's just fvck".

 

[2Rocky]

There is always someone else that "I wanna try to make it work with". The script varies but basically you aren't available emotionally for her.