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I learnt more about psychology from Tom Torero than I did most books I read . Ironically Tom himself was a schoolteacher

Was Tom torero’s death as unexpected? He basically lost his income , PayPal account blocked and YouTube channel deleted all in a short space of time . He had depression problems in the so the the impact of that and losing everything is probably what pushed him over the edge I’m guessing.

25 but ****ed things about with another 30 . If I had more competent game when I was younger I would probably be sitting at 50 now .

on the one hand we want low body counts on the other hand we want women to just wait for us and hope that they magically wait for us to approach them while they are a virgin and for them then to submit to us . this expectation is pretty wild and unrealistic. You need to be proactive and keep...

I actually met Tom Torero during a meet up in 2019 seemed like a cool dude. His life really fell apart after that Danya Hajjaji article- he seemed like a nice dude and was determined to be proactive it's a shame he's gone. I also met Yad once while he was coaching but he seemed to fade from...

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/12/13/why-the-mens-pua-and-dating-self-development-scene-has-declined-so-much/ a blog post I wrote highlighting the decline of Men's Pua and Self Development Community and the contributing factors towards this.

good looks help alot but you still need something about you . My brothers both were good looking accomplished guy's on 6 figs they never dated out of their league so to speak because they were always in competitive cities that favoured women and they never cold approached enough to increase...

daygame just helps to increase a men's options and its absolutely vital for the majority of men to do it if they want more options - men with more options will more likely find their ideal type in a woman. For me before cold approaching I didn't have many options after I left university - cold...

I met my girlfriend from cold approach - she thought my approach was confident and gutsy and enjoyed my company . What bs - even attractive men need daygame and cold approach skills to increase their options. Saying cold approach ruins attraction is overgeneralised statement- for some it can...

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/11/06/do-men-really-have-more-time-than-women-in-the-sexual-market-place/ wrote a blog piece a while ago… I think the answer is it depends how proactive a man will be in creating options for themselves - how well men can maintain their smv and whether or not...

you need options in order to find one that's aligned with your values and interests- approaching is a numbers game and it takes time for men but that's the way it is- it's hard to "fast track" all aspects of dating sometimes its just grit and numbers that makes the difference.

exactly, the alternative is what exactly? Women are never going to come for me- its a man's job to pursue and lead . I met my girlfriend after 500 approaches/ a lot of iffy dates and bad break ups but the experiences moulded me well if I hadn't gone through all the pain id just be single and...

I love cold approaching women, it taught me a lot of brutal lessons about human psychology and the importance of a strong work ethic and persistence. I also met my girlfriend of two years now from cold approach so Im immensely happy to have taken part in doing it

Full Article and Analysis Please read as the majority of the points are discussed here : https://mindful-masculinity.org/2024/01/21/13-crucial-errors-in-daygame-and-dating-and-how-to-avoid-them/ Delaying finding good wingmen: Playing “Too hard to get” or trying to copy “players” and “chads” ...

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I was lower than my friends who were in London around 1in 30-40 but they were better looking than me so it makes sense . Of course it varies from person to person I met one guy who managed 1 in 20 which was extremely impressive but he was pretty ripped and had excellent conversation skills and...

Statistically being western will give you an advantage over 100-200 sets and interactions . Of course from girl to girl this still varies some won’t care at all. advantages in countries help but there are always women in developing countries that don’t give a rats ass and that’s fine

definitely I spoke to a few dating coaches in London and they say their results went down post tinder invention - I guess online dating created a permanent change in sexual dynamics for life but the desperation in me caused me to change and put myself out there more so I guess it the scarcity...

I just realised OLD is online dating ha yeah I definitely have female with this approach , some of them don't like being commoditised online which is understandable. My Cousin is a model in Dubai though and she gets a lot of free **** all the time even got a private jet ride one time from her...

London is full of high value men by comparison alot of men in China can't even afford to go on a coffee date - the difference is night and day add in the fact that Chinese men are traditionally pretty shy, introverted and have confidence issues and it defiantly helps things a lot. There are a...