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  1. HughJasolphd

    The most powerful thing that will get a woman’s attention

    But the question I have is does it matter how attractive the girl is to the girl you're trying to get the attention of? I imagine they'd directly correlate your SMV with the girl you're seen talking to/hanging out with. If she's bad as ****, I could see some type of jealous streak rising..but...
  2. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    I'm man enough to admit when I got GOT...I didn't even consider the reason her liking my ig stuff would be for that reason. This is a sign to be more on my toes with this stuff. I gotta be playing her, not the other way around..I gotta just stop caring altogether for this situation & let the...
  3. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    Well, ****. I didn't even consider that lol. Good looking out brother
  4. HughJasolphd

    Jaleousy

    Jealousy implies that you have no options to a woman. They will never see it as "oh he really loves/likes me", they'll see it as "this bum mfker can't get anyone else & is relying on my attention for his happiness" The guy shouldn't call her out on her ****, he should grab the next chick he sees...
  5. HughJasolphd

    When a girl comes back around

    Don't make yourself too available for her. Her intrigue in missing you partially came from you being at a social event & being around other women. Since y'all have a past where you were in a relationship, there is unfinished business there in a way- I'd only see her once a week tops if you're...
  6. HughJasolphd

    Post hookup behavior

    Depends on how much I like the chick. If there's a strong vibe, she can stay the night- stay up, talk about random ****, joke around, probably **** a second time & then tell her I got work in the morning, so I get em to leave around 4-5am. I like girls who make it easy & want to leave a few mins...
  7. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    Idk why she'd choose Instagram of all places to try & get my attention if I'm literally down the hall from her at night lol. Either she is afraid of looking vulnerable/thirsty for my attention face to face, or she doesn't give two ****s because another guy is satisfying that need for her. She's...
  8. HughJasolphd

    Proper way of setting goals

    With the new year coming up, most people are preparing for the clean slate that the new year brings-myself included. I've always been into setting goals, but I don't believe I'm doing it in the most efficient manner that holds myself accountable. My goal setting process that I've followed for...
  9. HughJasolphd

    Do you abide by the "bro code" when out socially and around attractive women?

    I'll always follow code if there is a mutual respect between us. I've had times where I could have gotten a chick but I knew my friend liked her so I'd cut it off..in return theyd talk good about me to another chick while I'm out & introduce us to see if there's any chemistry. I've also had...
  10. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    I woke up this morning & see that I have Instagram notifications & whaddayaknow ...picture likes from the nurse I'm now ignoring lol I'm sticking with what I'm doing but I found it funny that she starts liking **** of mine on Instagram as soon as I begin to pull back my energy.
  11. HughJasolphd

    "Any girl would want you/"You're a good man."

    All depends how you come across If she gives IOI's it's a good thing- she is showing respect for you & who you are If not, it could be a fluffy pillow statement that coddles you right into the friend zone if you showed interest in her.
  12. HughJasolphd

    RSD videos

    We all deserve purple badges of courage for the **** we have gone through, but it's all made us infinitely better. My first love was a BPD chick & her father committed suicide a few weeks into us dating..she would cut herself, cheat on me &I I felt obligated to be there for her because of her...
  13. HughJasolphd

    Is this normal behavior or just attention whoring?

    The Boca cougar chicks? Well, they a lot of em are just with a man for money since it's a super wealthy area..these are women who drive maseratis, wear thousands in jewelry & have Botox, tits, & wear yoga pants 24/7. They hate their husbands because they are old & probably impotent...homeboy...
  14. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    I just got done working out in my room & showered up. Walked out to the nurses station to tell my day shift person that I can be hooked back up..feeling good, got veins popping everywhere (damn it feels good to exercise after not doing it for a week to rest up) & as I'm walking back to the room...
  15. HughJasolphd

    Is this normal behavior or just attention whoring?

    It's kinda sad that the ig attention chicks have such low self esteem..they make a guy with low self worth look like he's king sh!t a lot of the time. They're so critical on themselves to upkeep this virtual facade..it must be exhausting to some degree. I heard a documentary was released on...
  16. HughJasolphd

    Is this normal behavior or just attention whoring?

    Florida is a mixed bag: most of the girls I know in relationships cheat on their guy..but the guy isn't faithful either so it balances out..but they stay together because "they're afraid to be alone" (****ing morons). The single girls are usually party rats/Instagram sluts who club 6 nights a...
  17. HughJasolphd

    Is this normal behavior or just attention whoring?

    I live in South FL (about 30min from Miami) so finding a chick who's in shape is actually really easy- but finding one who doesn't have the personality of a plastic bag & is actually enjoyable to be around is about as challenging as defusing a bomb lol
  18. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    I'll remain cordial. That's all she's getting. Nothing more than hello & thank you when she brings me my medication. I'll text other girls when she's around to keep my mind occupied. Me being friendly is engaging in conversation. She'll just take it as me investing more into her if I ask how she...
  19. HughJasolphd

    Is this normal behavior or just attention whoring?

    They aren't wired like us, brother. We think differently, love differently, & more often than not behave like adults instead of children. I once heard someone say that if you want to learn how to deal with women, you should read books on parenting because they act like little ****ing kids...
  20. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    Giving her the attention will only make her believe she's got me on a string. I already deleted her text thread on my phone, so I have no inclination to hit her up. Even if she was to text me, I'd double the amount of time she does to me (if she responds today, she's looking at 4 days of...
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