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  1. HughJasolphd

    Let her make the move....?

    I screenshot this entire message & put it in my SS note folder. This is a great template to use when dealing with flaky chicks. Respect, brother
  2. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    Yea, man I told my friend who dates her to hold on to her for dear life..he locked down a super solid chick that any guy would want. If she's spot on with her analysis of the nurse, I'm definitely keeping her at a distance. If she's super attention seeking & into superficial **** I know no...
  3. HughJasolphd

    Solid morals equating to low value in today's society?

    I did mention in the post you quoted that I wasn't interested in them. Though common courtesy/class would be to say thank you to someone holding a door..the line about them taking their clothes off made no sense
  4. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    My nurse this morning & afternoon is probably my closest friend on the floor. Her boyfriend is my respiratory therapist & ive known him for probably 8yrs. I spoke with her about the nurse I'm interested in & she seemed weary of it. Mind you, this nurse I'm friends with has only been in two...
  5. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    I'm pretty sure that I won't be able to have sex with her while she's working. It would have happened by now if she was really into it. I do think she likes my boldness though & she always asks her coworkers that come in here if I say anything about her. I have no problem with waiting on the sex...
  6. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    I'm interested in hearing your reason why you don't like it. I'll always keep an open mind to suggestion. I'm still very new in my journey here & I know it's ****ty blue pill conditioning making me think she'll forget about me if I don't act on my instincts..my sex drive is crazy so I always...
  7. HughJasolphd

    Solid morals equating to low value in today's society?

    I know what it's like to go without, so any chance I can give to those who truly need it I will always act on that instinct- I genuinely get sick to my stomach when I see people who are in a bad spot. animals don't even get me started...if I had the means, I'd have acres of land full of dogs...
  8. HughJasolphd

    Solid morals equating to low value in today's society?

    Awesome insight. I generally don't do things for a thank you, me holding doors has become so unconscious at this point that I don't even think of it. It wasn't until laying in bed earlier did it cross my mind for some reason. I can't imagine holding a door just to open a chick, it seems too...
  9. HughJasolphd

    Solid morals equating to low value in today's society?

    I'm talking in the context of people as a whole, not just women. I feel like communication has soured with the people all around us in a lot of ways. If a girl likes me, I know holding a door or doing something kind will go over well, but the average person on the street seems generally turned...
  10. HughJasolphd

    Solid morals equating to low value in today's society?

    I'd say I do it because it was how I was raised. To me it was always the norm to do the little things. I can't recall a time that I went out of my way to do something in hopes that they'd like me (at least as a grownup, as a little kid I think we all try to get favor of someone at some point by...
  11. HughJasolphd

    Solid morals equating to low value in today's society?

    This may be me rambling in a 5am stupor, but I was laying here in bed & thought about something- For as long as I can remember, I've had habits like this: - Holding doors for just about everyone - If a conversation goes on too long & someone says they have to go, I'll apologize for holding them...
  12. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    Turns out the chick with the accent got called out tonight so I had the night off so to speak from any good looking nurses around. Got to kick back & read, watch some basketball & do a few hundred push-ups & squats in my room here..I'm actually happy nobody I'm interested in sexually was...
  13. HughJasolphd

    How to Stop?

    You'll thank yourself for it brother. Self care is extremely important. A high value male values every facet of his life & how to make himself feel as good as he possibly can on his own without a woman FIRST. You can make incredible progress in 6 months time in the gym, literally transform into...
  14. HughJasolphd

    How to Stop?

    If you're gonna think about women, think about how great the next batch of women you are going to meet are & how they'll put your ex to shame. If you find yourself nonstop thinking about women (most of us do), use it as fire to your desires in other facets of life- go workout to get the body...
  15. HughJasolphd

    Major Learning Last Night

    You were the man; you took charge, took the lead, & made it clear that if she didn't take her role as the woman that she would be left behind. These days guys are afraid to ruffle a few feathers & possibly get rejected after getting their foot in the door. If you frame it as what you're willing...
  16. HughJasolphd

    Let her make the move....?

    Me personally I'd make her do the legwork for a meetup. The fact she let 5 whole weeks roll by before answering you tells me she doesn't respect you or your time. Earlier today I watched a video from AMS on this exact subject, watch it & listen to his advice
  17. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    I'm just worried the friend is gonna run to her phone & immediately tell her I'm going to work on her too..maybe it's my blue pill conditioning rearing its ugly head here, but I'm guessing it would turn her off (I'm probably wrong). I know not to be a fkn dork & gush over the girl if she asks me...
  18. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    Studies have actually been done that synthetic testosterone can actually prevent heart attacks & low test can be a trigger for heart attack as well as other ailments you want to avoid (it's all in the book I recommended a few posts ago). TRT doses wouldn't likely give you liver damage because...
  19. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    I talked with my buddy who works during the day & I found out that the chick I had last night with the cool accent is actually the nurse I'm trying to fk best friend. Interesting, now it makes sense why she mentioned her a few times while we talked about random stuff. Tonight I think I'm having...
  20. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    TRT is basically using synthetic test for the rest of your life to keep your levels the same way they were when you were very young & the most vital. It's nothing like a cycle of steroids. A typical beginners cycle is 500mg a week of test cyp or enanthate. I take 150mg a week split over two...
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