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  1. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    Sweet, I'm gonna look it over & I'll message you if I'm gonna jump onboard with ya
  2. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    What is the DJ boot camp? Is is the first time I'm hearing of this
  3. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    Low test is a killer for the male species. Before I got mine fixed, my level was 102 ng/dl...which is basically a 90yr old man. My lung illness & constant hospitalizations wiped out my levels completely. Now I'm cruising at around 1200/1300 ng/dl (which is a bit higher than normal, but given my...
  4. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    Kratom has a ton of different strains & each act a little differently. I personally like the Bali Kratom because it's the closest thing to a Percocet/Vicodin in feeling. The Thai & Maeng Da varieties are a bit more energetic (probably the better strain for approaching in bars/clubs, & definitely...
  5. HughJasolphd

    Anyone tried medication for approach anxiety?

    SSRIs won't do **** for approach anxiety. I'm on the lowest possible dose of lexapro & it hasn't influenced me in any way...maybe if you use a placebo effect mindset & convince yourself that the med will help you approach, then I could see that working...also, with SSRIs it largely depends on...
  6. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    For some reason I'm far more comfortable with flirting when other people are around than when I am by myself. So far I think I've done good when it's just her & I alone..I'm always trying to touch her, play with her hands, say dirty stuff playfully but make my point across, etc. when everyone...
  7. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    & some people on here wonder why I'm being persistent instead of dropping it so fast, I really feel like I can make this happen & id be pissed at myself if I throw in the towel too soon. Obviously I know not to tolerate disrespect & if me doing this was bothering her she would tell someone in...
  8. HughJasolphd

    To Those Spending Christmas Alone

    I'm in the hospital by myself for the holiday & last night I found myself kinda bummed about it. My family is kinda falling apart & nobody celebrated at home either, so it had a gloomy overtone overall..but I pulled my head aside &I accepted it for what it is. I'm actually someone who cherishes...
  9. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    So this morning my nurse comes in (not the one I'm trying to smash) & we're just shooting the **** & whatever. The chick I'm after gives her a call on the work phone & asks where she is because they want to take group pics for the holiday or something. A few mins later I have my nurse in here...
  10. HughJasolphd

    The Importance of Talking to Those You Disagree With

    That last paragraph is a slam fking dunk my friend.
  11. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    It's odd for sure. She's talked about me to like everyone apparently. People come in here & will mention her & say that they heard about how flirty & fun I am with her. I try to give some benefit of the doubt for why she doesn't come in to see me when she's not looking after me; each nurse is...
  12. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    Sometimes messages like these are the ones most valuable to someone like me, I love the effectiveness of that Steph/Bron comparison. I haven't given her a single drop of actual attention the past few days. The chick I have tonight is one of her good friends (she's also very hot btw) & she tried...
  13. HughJasolphd

    FRAME

    I feel like we may share some common ground brother. Fate always has a way of linking me towards strong minded individuals who have gone through the fire of life & came out the other side of it battle hardened & better because of it. I'll shoot you a message, I'd be honored to listen to your...
  14. HughJasolphd

    What do you think about this attempted health club pickup?

    Most girls go to the gym to be gawked over & potentially hit on...don't let them convince you any differently..the fact she said she can't believe it is bs. If she worked out as hard as she bitches at random men she would be off the market by now.
  15. HughJasolphd

    FRAME

    Not sure if you're a reader but three books on this subject that I really recommend are "the biology of belief" by Bruce Lipton, & "breaking the habit of being yourself" & "you are the placebo" by Joe Dispenza. The first book is from a very scientific perspective, so it may be a bit boring if...
  16. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    So I've been minding my own business, I'm not really supposed to workout vigorously while on antibiotics but I got to go for a stroll around hospital grounds last night &I found a little garden area with some benches...ended up doing a few hundred push-ups, & body weight dips. I had to laugh...
  17. HughJasolphd

    Is nofap really has benefical has people make it out to be or is it overrated?

    I know this isn't a medical advice forum but I'm curious if me being on testosterone & doing no fap for a prolonged period of time could be harmful in some way. I did the full month of November & it was extremely difficult. Being on TRT is like being 13 yrs old all over again , a slight breeze...
  18. HughJasolphd

    Your values

    1. "Achieve failure"- Tom Platz I heard him say it in a leg training video & it totally reworked my viewpoint on what it is to fail. Achieving failure is one step closer to the success you're after 2. Respect 3. Remove the situations & or people that no longer serve my growth to becoming the...
  19. HughJasolphd

    Looking for attention or playing hard to get?

    Could be, but I don't look sickly whatsoever; I'm in ridiculous shape, tan, take super good care of myself, etc. It wouldn't be the first time I've been turned down because of the lung issues but I look at it as a way to weed out the contenders from the pretenders
  20. HughJasolphd

    Getting over jealousy!

    I'm sorry you feel the pain you're dealing with. I've never been married, but I know that stinging feeling of longing &a wanting someone you once had. The quote that hit me hardest with taking the red pill was "she is never really yours, it's only your turn". I always believed the narrative of...
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