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I'm curious, what exactly happened here? She cheat or what?

Bump. Well, how's this going?

So whatever happened with this?

So what happened? And why can't you go out with them? Shouldn't she want to bring you along to show you off to her old friend? Hell, that's a great way to flip the script right there. HB: Honey, <old friend> will be in town this weekend and we're going out. You: Cool, I know some good places we...

This is a good thread with some solid debate back and forth. I hope it does NOT get closed down.

Really. And how many of those women from the office did you have sex with? Oh, right, you're probably still a virgin. Rapport != attraction. Not directly anyway. If anything being all gushy like that screams beta, needy, and low value. The women will never have sex with you, generally...

No. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157848

I can go for hours. I got known in the dorms on base for 4-6 hour sex romps. My soon-to-be-exwife never liked it when I went longer than 45 minutes because she'd get dry and/or sore, and just couldn't take it any more from getting off. After the 4th or 5th time she just couldn't keep going. Now...

Good point. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.

An SOI like calling her "sexy" is far different from slapping her across the face with the wet fish "I like you" is.

Don't get into some protracted argument. Just tell her, "Look, we're just not a good match and I think we should stop seeing each other. My friends are moving my stuff out and I'll call you later to pick up the rest next week." That's it. Don't let her drone on, *****, complain, or any of...

Like I said, "So when is the big day?" (looking at the ring). Usually they blurt out the wedding day if they pick up on it, or if they don't I say "the ring (nod/motion towards it), when is the big day?" and it puts them on the spot. If they're really engaged they usually gush about it. If...

If it's not a typical wedding band just say, "When's the big day?" You're deliberately misinterpreting it as an engagement ring. They'll clarify if it's not and then you can get the info you need. It's also a great way to move into the Ring Routine.

Here's an old quote that really seems to sum up the sentiment we're all trying to convey: "A man who makes known his love by words is a fool" - Giacomo Casanova

Thank you. That's what I'm talking about. All that other stuff is for kids, which makes sense seeing as it was posted by a 16 year old. Look, I've been getting laid since he was in diapers. Literally. I don't mean to bust on you too much, but what you're talking about is complete crap, but...

"You seem interesting, but I'm not so sure about you yet ;) What's a good way of keeping in touch?" It's the same premise for ****y/funny number closing an HB.

Words to live by!

Agreed in full. Dump that cheating ***** and don't be polite about it. Let her know she's to blame and any emotional strife she's hit with is well deserved. Change the locks, call the police if she tries to get back in, and don't be nice about it. Make a scene. Drag her through the mud. It's the...

Fully agree. It's not insecure to do 'due diligence'. And this "oh it's just coffee" is how cheating starts. Best to talk to her about how your ex contacted you online the other day and how weird it is, then go into how you don't tolerate that sort of thing because of the problems it can cause...

You're young and inexperienced so I won't rip your theories to shred just yet. Put simply, you cannot language a woman into liking you. You can give her all the compliments in the world, but that won't build attraction. Period. Most times if you tell a woman you like her, you've just tipped...