Lasting too long?

[mtlwlu]

My ex told a mutual friend of ours that I last too long, how is that a bad thing? I hold up my end of the bargain not my fault she wasnt good enough lol. Is lasting too long a bad thing?

 

[horaholic]

It can be. They can either dry out and get sore, or cvm so many times they physically cant handle it anymore. Unless she actually doesnt like sex so wants you to finish asap. Or maybe she's lazy, who knows.

All I know is more girls appreciate it than not, so take it as a good thing.

 

[WC2]

To add to horaholic's response, if you're not doing it 'right' for a long time she'll get bored.

Often when women complain about men lasting two long it's only for two reasons :

1. All she does is give him bl0wjobs
2. He doesn't take cue when he's not turning her on and just keeps DOING it (the worst).

Some of the best sex I've had lasted for less than 10 minutes. It doesn't take any longer than that to bring a lot of women to orgasm multiple times. After that it just becomes fluff in which she's just 'waiting' for you to come.

However, all women are different. I've had some girls who could orgasm multiple times for well past 45 minutes into hours.

Anyways, don't let what girls say about you in bed affect you. Most likely they're just trying to take a low blow at you to spite you. Your mind has a way of f*cking with your sh!t down there.

 

[Nutz]

I can go for hours. I got known in the dorms on base for 4-6 hour sex romps. My soon-to-be-exwife never liked it when I went longer than 45 minutes because she'd get dry and/or sore, and just couldn't take it any more from getting off. After the 4th or 5th time she just couldn't keep going. Now an ex of mine, man we could do it all day long and both be good to go. We clicked perfectly in bed.

 

[pua1989]

yeah...i have an extremely hard time nuttin...shell ask me towards the end: "havent you cummed yet?" and ill be thinkin wow she wants to end it i must not be doin very well and then ill say "no...have you?" and shell say "yeah! like 3-4 times....damn!! haha"

i guess girls can get too exhausted and/or cvm too much

 

[mtlwlu]

Is there a perfect length of time then? I should probably start timing myself lol. I think Dave Chapplle had a skit where he said "baby its a race, and Im 8 minutes ahead of you..." or something along those lines.

 

[Captain]

"yeah! like 3-4 times....damn!! haha"

I think you'd have noticed if she had really cvm and she would have noticed if you had.