The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Today I'm Single...

    :crackup: I'm sorry, dude, but you HAVE to laugh at that. Ex-stripper, two kids, drugs... "This is my first time going out." To THIS bar! PSYCHE!!!! :crackup: Holy BPD waif! Wow, dude, ouch. Talk about "bait and switch"; talk about Jekyll and Hyde! Wolf in sheep's clothing! YiKeS...
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    Have you been sneaking MDMA into your Wheaties, RT? :whistle: We're talking about "acceptable behavior", meaning "civil" or "appropriate", not "reaching into a guy's pants and giving him a hand job just because he asked her for the time". On the bitçh-o-meter... (...
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    need mature advice on elevating relations

    BooM! That's dropping science like a nuke!
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    We really are in the minority, aren't we?

    I had a father? Seriously, though, good point. Fight Club: "We are a generation of men raised by women. I beginning to wonder if another woman is really the answer we need." ^That rang out like a shot to me. Oh hell yeah it did. I resented BOTH of my parents for their failings...
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    younger chick always txting me - what gives?

    Do people on World of Warcraft wonder what motivates other WoW players to play? Text, e-mail, IM's... they are video games for women. For a dude to wonder why texts are sent is like a dude standing in the cosmetic section wondering what color blush will set off his eyes.
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    The Four Types of Men

    I could get laid any night of the week as well. However, getting laid was never a problem for me. So, I've had enough sex to know what's good and what's not-so-good. Now, I have no need to brag, but for this next point I must say I'm a miracle worker in the sack. Being such, the expression...
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    Give Me One Good Reason to Get Married

    The only good reason for a man to get married is to provide a stable environment for children: to be a family. Even then, divorce rates suggest that half of people who get married and have a family don't think about the kids. They should. No kids? Don't get married.
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    Question about intelectual woman..

    Right on, Danger. There is that, too. Sometimes guys over think scenarios and/or talk themselves out of going for what they want. Or, sometimes they are scared to "push too hard" for fear of "messing up". It takes some ba11s to push ahead after the ASD and not get into "cuddle time" or...
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    Question about intelectual woman..

    Ok, so she wants to ƒuck... ...and then she doesn't? I'd imagine it was one or both of a couple things. If you just leaned in for a kiss out suddenly, I'd say it was an uncomfortable thing, like an ambush. Without some EC and kino escalation, the first kiss is a scary thing when it just...
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    Need help getting out of this FUNK

    That reminds me of the "lightbox" therapy to aid in depression caused by the whole "seasonal mood" thing. Myself, I go tanning instead, and I've been pretty funky lately... time to sport some rays! It seems to work. So, perhaps a little thing like tanning could put a few puffs of wind in the...
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    Need help getting out of this FUNK

    Hey, hey, HEY! There is a difference between missing a point and not subscribing to another person's point of view. I was just hoping that this thread didn't go off on that tangent.
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    Need help getting out of this FUNK

    :nervous: Uh oh... Here it comes...
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    Need help getting out of this FUNK

    STR8UP, I think everyone is getting a bit funky around now. The end of summer, economy, cold and flu season, pre-holiday harshness, trouble sleeping... there are so many stresses that, when coupled with physical things like being tired, they end up overwhelming. I've been feeling pretty...
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    When I talk to someone, I am interested in what they have to say. So automatically, by talking to someone, you are displaying interest. My angle is that every hot woman seems to ASSUME automatically that your interest is in picking them up just because they are hot. They then proceed to...
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    We really are in the minority, aren't we?

    Part of focusing on the success includes dodging pitfalls, avoiding shortcuts, and taking affordable risks. It keeps the mindset in "what's it going to take?" instead of "what if I fail?" The "what if I fail" mindset is focusing on making a better parachute instead of making a better plane.
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    Exactly. It would be one thing if you had some intention of trying to hook up and getting the b¡tch shield, it's another thing when you have none of those intentions and still get the sh¡tty attitude. There's a game we play here at my day job, and I invite all those who can to play along...
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    Shedding the Remainder of my AFC Stigma

    Haha! Dude, that'll show them what's what! I'm tired of employers reminding you that they can fire you for no reason whatsoever, then turning around and acting like they own you. They forget, you can quit for no reason, too. That's how it is when you are employed "at will". Unless you...
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    Oh, I'll see her character alright, and chances are it's poor. Let's say a fatty comes up to ME. How I respond to her is going to be a display of my character. If I am a d¡ckhead to the chick, I'm demonstrating that I have poor character. Whereas, if I am respectful or cordial to the chick...
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    You can "direct your character towards a specific group of people"? You can run out of character if you use too much of it? You can "mold your character to cater to a desired class"? Character is the mental and moral properties distinctive to an individual. Character isn't a blob of goo...
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    Actually, there is an angle there with 6-8's getting more attention than 9's. (I opened a couple of sets that included a 9 with a question along these lines, and interesting conversations developed. This is according to women, so take it with a grain of salt.) Apparently, at a certain...
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