The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    We really are in the minority, aren't we?

    True, but, pink stone is tough to find, and it's not very durable when you do. Good thing there's paint, eh? Curtains are a cozy addition I hear. The castle has to exist before it can be remodeled. Once my castle is built, I can travel the countryside to advertise. I can tell other...
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    What to do when ur GF takes her emotions out on you?

    Strength, stability, and the wherewithal to change the frame... A-Unit, you're a pimp. Thanks for narrowing it down to the specific. I've been struggling with exactly what TM is/was struggling with. Thank you for the link: it was a great read. Good to see you posting!:rockon:
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    We really are in the minority, aren't we?

    I know what you mean; the outlook does certainly look bleak when you first get here. The most important thing I got out of this site was the shift in mindset. Women? They are at the bottom of my priority list. My life needs to be on track and I need to build my castle before I can make...
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    What to do when ur GF takes her emotions out on you?

    I have been using the "cut them off with a question" method of shutting women down. "That's too bad, but, are you at work now?" "No? Then save it for your boss." "Stop. Did I have anything to do with it?" "No? Then leave me out of it." "Hold on. Do you need freak out at me about...
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    They aren't rare at all. There are MANY hot women who have good personalities. They developed AWESOME personalities, but, not before they... :whistle: ...had a kid. I have a funny story to illustrate this. A plate of mine was yammering on about her friend she refers...
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    Feeling comfortable in your own skin?

    Hmm. I see. Well a "squint" certainly can be perceived as irritation. The outer corners of your eyes relax when you are happy or comfortable, they constrict when discomforted or otherwise irritated. I keep several pairs of good, polarized sunglasses readily available for two reasons...
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    Self limiting beliefs kill dreams

    Forest through the trees. You are being literal, not figurative. RT's expression is a generality. You are using situations, not generalities. The losers, for your situation, are all the potential sprinters who never went to the race because the imagined they would lose. The winners showed...
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    Feeling comfortable in your own skin?

    It's a scowl wrinkle. I've gotten that same accusation a few times. Some guys just have a pronounced brow, others have eyebrows that are full or uniquely shaped. Since I don't shave my unibrow (tweeze), I decided to try a little experiment. I gradually took a little out from the bottom...
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    Life is too short...

    A word of advice: don't be reactive, be proactive. Instead of "reacting" to your current situation, and taking steps from that vantage point, consider a goal or a future situation and make decisions from THAT vantage point. If you have a goal, your choices will lead you to that goal. If...
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    Stupid, stupid b1tch....

    Let's see, cough up some money and BUY the tickets, or, put your husband, the father of your child, through hell needlessly. Problem is, however, with chumps on the air PROMOTING this sort of behavior ("you have to get him to stay with the illegitimate child/I love you anyway"), there isn't...
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    Absurd online "laundry list"

    Case in point that a man who stands up to a woman, or isn't afraid to contradict a woman, generates attraction from a woman. I mean, our gal Jane virtually stalked Alle_Gory. I would say she googled his handle and found his posts here. Now our gal Jane is chasing Alle_Gory, sight unseen...
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    My real life experiences with girls 7-12 years younger than me.

    I would reach the 10 post max in 5 minutes if I bothered to point out every error that I notice. And that's just me! Other guys are just as frustrated with people's ridiculous grammar, punctuation, capitalization, and overall lack of prowess as I am. I did, indeed, see that "granite" error...
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    todays society

    Espi, I'm glad that I'm not the only one with my eyes open. If she doesn't get elected as VP, her reasoning will be that men withheld, or, "wasted" their vote because they hate women. It wouldn't be because she's such an idiot that not even women would have voted for her, no, of course not...
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    Girls getting lap dances

    Dude, Juando, I get into the same discussions. But, MOST often, it happens DIRECTLY after they "catch" me staring at another beautiful woman... "Look at her, she's beautiful, don't you think?" Then, the next leading question, and the next... But, when a woman wants to take me to a...
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    Money for Pu$$y

    The key expression, which is common in both quotes, is "provide". My point has been that "better provider" does not always or only mean "wealthier". Many things are "provided" to a woman by a man. Security, affection, quality, value, attention, comfort, strength, support... I could go on and...
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    Girls often ask me if Im gay should I be concerned?

    Damn, I just got asked AGAIN! But, considering the context, and the followup, it was understandable. ..... I shut my bar down, and these two gals made it a point to tell me they were going to up the street to another. V: "I'll try to get out of here in time for last call up there...
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    Girls often ask me if Im gay should I be concerned?

    This has been somewhat my experience. When you don't supplicate, have good eye contact, are relaxed, are confident, and you are clean, women are sometimes confused. There are so many AFC's that virtually beg for pu≈y, they have a hard time believing, or recognizing that a Man could actually be...
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    Never Having to Say You're Sorry

    Pride. Pride trumps shame. In the military, a drill sergeant of mine replied to "I'm sorry" with "You certainly are." Ouch. In my face. I began to be "sorry" for "being sorry"? :confused: I quickly learned that, to avoid humiliation, an explanation is better than an apology. It...
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    pretty tricky situation

    You can't read, can you? Paid for since '96. How long has your car been paid for? Right, it's not. Keep talking, clown, we'll keep laughing. No, and running ANY company is better than working for peanuts and living beyond your means in debt like you do, Mr. Floppyshoes. Ah, the...
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    pretty tricky situation

    Nope, still a liar. I got $5 that says mommy would give you a spanking if she caught you messing around on the computer. DJ math time: 22... new benz. 25... new benz. Three years difference = three years lease. Whoopee, dipsh¡t, you confirmed your debt and living beyond your means...
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