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I did it for me, I was sick of being skinny. It was not for some woman. I guess you missed my post directly above yours?

I agree. She is an intoxicating drug to me; but in the end I fear that we are just not compatible in some of our long term goals, ideologies, and worldview. It helps me let go. She is still contacting me from time to time. I mailed her the souvenir back today (with a much different note) and...

When it comes to bulk, I think there is a point of diminishing return in general ILs from women. Being cut, muscular signals health and strong genes, but as with anything one can go overboard.

That is the most awesome follow up post ever.

It was kind of a test for me of a girl's sense of humor and wit. I had conversations about it with girls where we would joke about it, and I would maintain that I was, but they just went along with it and had fun. It is important for me to have a girl that can be silly and gets my sarcastic...

... I am so grateful for this thread; yet at the same time part of me wishes it didn't exist, because there will always be the temptation to come back and read it and relive this crap. I honestly wish it could be deleted. However, I feel a lot better today because I am starting to understand...

1) Several years ago I added about 10lbs of mass over several months. I stopped lifting and lost it all, but that is going to account for a lot of my gains as it is fairly easy to regain lost mass when you get on a dedicated program. 2) I did gain some fat, my using a Tanita scale I kept an eye...

Get out now before you develop feelings for her and rationalize a way to put up with that sh1t.

[x] major abandonment issues [x] childhood trauma [x] major daddy issues [x] major "I don't want to turn out like my mother" issues [x] major guilt issues [x] trust issues [x] extremely emotional [x] major indecision about career/future [x] major external stressors [ ] BPD That is my clinical...

Last year I added about 20lbs, mostly muscle, on a 6'1" frame and it made a nice difference. Did this in 2 months with a serious trainer, 5 workouts a week, 5 meals a day, plenty of sleep. Friends and women made positive comments about the change. I am what body builders refer to as a "hard...

I hope you're kidding. lol

Cordon, This is a little frustrating because it doesn't seem like you get what I'm saying. I don't care how she perceives it, it is a release for me. This is the same thing I said earlier in the thread about having that super long emotional talk with her. That was not good for attraction, but...

Yes, but the humor/sarcasm/indifference makes it much easier for girls to contact me and maintain a fun conversation that doesn't devolve into interview style questions. It helps.

I just think it would seem a little cold/bitter to just mail it back with no note at all. She wanted me to have it for a reason. I'm past the stage of trying to play games. I may revise the note a little bit; but at this point I don't really care how she receives it. This is for me. I don't...

Last year I met several great looking women on POF. For a little while I experimented with the following profile, and it WORKED. Women were messaging me and I was going on dates and getting laid. I thought I had posted this on another forum a long time ago, Googled it, and found that some guy...

What I feel about her is irrelevant; she is still unsure. She is a passive, emotional, indecisive girl. So I could possibly even get her back just by being strong and leading her. But I couldn't be in a healthy relationship with her if that's what happened. She would have to come running back...

I have been minimally responsive to her texts over the last week or so, tomorrow I am going to proactively cut contact and just force myself to let her go. I'm doing this by mailing her back an item she left with me (a souvenir from one of our trips that she has begged me twice to take but I...

That's what I'm working on. There is a point where I just have STOP thinking about it and trying to figure it out, but I haven't gotten there yet. I am pretty OCD. Everything has to be "solved" and in its right place in my mind. I will really fixate on some emotional issue until I can figure it...

cordon, My god... that is truly an insane woman. I don't know how you did it. Reminds me of the ex before this girl that kicked a hole in my wall, stalked my house, and once barged in while I had another girl over (we were broken up at this time) and got in the girls face and yelled at her...

nightcrawler, I realize this is a long thread, but you should probably at least skim it before you comment. If you had, you would know that I did break up with her. You would also realize why I am having this BPD discussion (though I do not believe she has it... if she does then it is very very...