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bad opener! you are using an utimate disqualifier. wrong type, you need to use false disqualifiers like mentioned by pdubb75. you cant come back and say oh i was only kidding about being married. she will think you are a lying, cheating, douchebag.

^^^ right on! if you dont pull the trigger on her the next time you hang out she will see you as beta, and will lose attraction. if that happens she will start to flake and you may never get another opportunity. you also might want to find out if she has a boyfriend.

i have found that i get laid more when i go out alone. if i dont do any approaches i will wind up not talking to anybody the whole night which is no fun, it forces me to talk to people. when i go out with my friends my menality is different and i dont approach as many girls. i'm more concerned...

eat her out first until she has an orgasm, then bang her. even if you *** too soon, wont really matter, she's already had an orgasm. you can also try extended performance condoms. but put one on while you are eating her out. give the lube a chance to do its thing. once she orgasms, the condom...

if you are this frustrated after only 3 days what is happening to you in field? are girls just not opening, or are you getting slapped in the face, or are you just not getting phone #s or not getting laid? i agree with the first response from Decide, lose your mentality of being outcome...

the only universal opener is "HI" but keep in mind, no opener will get you laid no matter how good it is. your opener does not build attraction, it only opens the conversation. openers open, thats it, you still have to build attraction and close.

sounds like she already nexted you, no need to give her indirect ultimatums over email, she wont respond anyway. time for you to find another target.

yes and it works to build an emotional connection. use this in comfort once she's attracted to you. its called rooting, its also a form of frame control, and compliance. you root the idea in her mind, its your frame, and if she buys into your frame, she will then comply to you requests. the one...

it gave me an outline of all the steps necessary to seduce the girl. it also made me realize that looks arent really that important, cause style is short and very unattractive. if you are fun, interesting and social, you can still get the girl, looks dont matter. also realized after a while, its...

continue to communicate with her at your current rate, i think you are doing fine with that. what you can do is that in the texts or phone calls to her, send her things that dont require a response, make her smile, and she will think about you all day. ex:omg the craziest thing just...

your first paragraph is absolute 100% right on the money and the total bottom line. to get good you must go out into the field and practice, try and learn new techniques, and practice, practice, practice. learning to pick up chicks is just like working out, you cant go from being a scrawny punk...

first of all you cant control her decision to dump her bf for you, so dont worry about all that. even if you play your cards right and you end up having sex with her she still might not dump her bf for you. once you have sex with her, the decision is still up to her. dont bring it up or pressure...

most women will not chase you even if they are attracted to you. if they are attracted to you they will def give you signals, but not necesarily chase you. its up to the man to initiate the interaction. this is how most westernized cultures women are brought up. they get the reputation of being...

sounds like you pretty much have the right idea. stay away from normal date functions like dinner, movies, stuff like that. keep it casual like have drinks with me and my friends. another technique that works really well with chicks with bf's or ldr's is using push pull. sent her some mixed...

voicemails are tricky but i have found a couple of rules i like to use Donts: #1 never state your name, she should know who you are and have your number already in her phone #2 never ask her out on a voice mail or text message #3 never say something like, just calling to see what you're...

the line i like to use is...."no, i get that a lot. I've been on tv....and i know what you're thinking...no i was not on COPS!!!" gets a laugh everytime.

i overcame approach anxiety by doing what's called short setting. go into a bar or club with one good opinion opener, and approach everyone. once the set hooks leave, then open another. short setting will do 2 things, it takes away the pressure and reaction seeking behavior that i'm trying to...

^^^ You have some good points and i agree. something else to consider, i dont think you built up any comfort with her. there's nothing wrong with steering the conversation sexual and escalting kino, but unless you build some comfort you are going to deal with this form of LMR (last minute...

i have had a pof account on and off for about 7 years, so i have an extended amount of experience. when i first started out, i couldnt get a response to save my life. but once i figured it out, i had more phone #'s, and dates then i could handle. but that was several years ago and the game has...